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writes: i no you probably get this alot but im seriously dont know what to do. my boyfriend is a gem he treats me like a princess but lately things havent been the same between us and work puts him in a bad mood and often snaps and starts arguments over the littlest things.i love him but im not in love with him and i have had a few offers which would mean i would be cheating on him. we have been going out for about 7months now but i dont feel the same as i did at the being of the relationship. do i dump him? try to make it work? or cheat and get rid of my curiousity? Reply to this Question
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reader, maxsteel86  +, writes (27 August 2006):
 Talk to him about it when he's in a good mood. He should be more able to listen then. Before you begin, tell him to let you finish what you want to say so you can get through the whole thing without interruptions. (or you could write it down and let him read it in his own time. Written communication is so cool sometimes;-))
Then again, if you're really not into him anymore, it would be better to break up with him first before accepting your offers. Unless you're curious about the thrill (if there is any) of cheating:-O
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reader, let me help! +, writes (26 August 2006):
You must not cheat on him! you need to talk to him and tell him you are very unhappy, and ask him why is he acting edgy. If he understands, both see a conseller (in the yellow page) in a book and work things out. If you and your boyfriend patch things up, it will work out. xxx frm paula
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reader, seenitdoneit +, writes (26 August 2006):
Do you want to keep him? If so then you must try and get him to talk to you. Tell him how much you care and how worried you are about him and that you will always be there to listen. If you don't want to make that kind of an effort maybe the relationship is finished from your point of view and it would be best for both of you if you ended it before starting a new relationship. Things tend to get complicated otherwise.
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