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anonymous
writes: A married man keeps winking at me and telling me i've seen his 'nice side'.... do you think hes after an affair?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (17 August 2006):
 Why are asking this question? Why do you care?
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (17 August 2006):
 He is probably testing you, he may fancy you and is doing a bit of flirting, it has had the desired effect, it has bothered or irritated you and made you think, that is what he wanted!!
He is saying that if you want more then come and get it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2006): Then if you're not looking for an affair, whatever he does is what he does. It has nothing to do with you. End of story. He winks at you... And... What? He comes over, talks to you, you say, "Hi" and walk away. He tries to touch you, report him if you want.
What's the point in asking yourself, "Is he trying to have an affair?" The person's actions are trivial.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2006): Hi its me that wrote the question and i am NOT after an affair. and i was starting to think he is because winking at women when you are married is not normal behaviour. and he tells ME i've seen his nice side, like i'm the only one who has, because he isn't a pleasant man to a lot of people. Hes an aqquaintance of my husband from the pub.
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reader, bonym +, writes (16 August 2006):
 God knows what he is after, perhps he does whatsome sort of fling but if he is married, then dont entertain his gestures, leave him to it,if he wants to wink then fine, but dont allow the winks to lead to something else as you will only regret it. Good luck xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2006): Are you looking for an affair?
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reader, seenitdoneit +, writes (15 August 2006):
He may be, or he may just be a natural flirt. Enjoy the flirting, but draw the line on having an affair - if he cheats on his wife he will cheat on you too!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (15 August 2006):
Why are YOU after an affair? Do you consider married men fair game?
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (15 August 2006):
 More info required here... you can't just assume that he is after an affair because he winks at you, and says you've "seen his nice side"! He may merely like you, as anyone else, he may just be flirting innocently, as he may do with any female. It is the same kind of thing my old uncle used to say to children he knew, (relatives) - and there was nothing 'odd' about him, he was just a sweet old chap!
However, to put it in a different context, if he does'nt know you well, he may just be a bit 'odd'! Please tell us more, so we can answer your question!
You do not say how you know him, or if you know his wife - she may be the one to ask, as she knows him best, I would hope!
Do you work with him, is he the guy next door, the milkman, who is he?
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