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writes: I am not sure what I should do! Basically I split up with my ex over a year ago and then when I went out on my birthday I saw him again and we didnt argue or anything it was actually a laugh, he got my mobile number and we have seen each other as friends since! We said at the time that we didnt know what we both wanted so we would just be friends but we have slept together and sometimes it feels as though we are back together but we arent. He has been on a few websites for a laugh and seen profiles of different women but i get jealous, he filled in a questionnaire and put down he was single..... should i talk to him and find out how he feels??? Im so confused
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reader, seenitdoneit +, writes (26 August 2006):
I have the exact same problem and I wish I could tell you what to do. My ex says he wants us to be friends (he really means it to, it is not just a guilt trip) and we spend every lunchtime together - the only thing that is changed is that there is no physical intimacy. I still love him and the time together is so pinful I wish I could make a clean break and get on with my life. What I would do is to minimise the time you spend with him, but stay in touch. Start having casual dates with other guys and see if that makes him come running back to you. If not, one of these casual dates may turn into something serious eventually but take it slow, give yourself time to get over this guy before you get serious with someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2006): filling up a questionaire??!!! I'm not quite sure what you mean
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reader, dery +, writes (26 August 2006):
yes please talk to ur friend.if u continue to absorb ur feelings,he may take u for granted and continue dating other women.as far as the man is concerned he gets to sleep with u .he doesnt seem to want to carry this relationship forward,even though he has started moving forward.and since u r not sure where ur relationshi stands ,u must also consider filling up a questionairre!!
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