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writes: My orgasms are different with my bf to how they are when i masturbate. Is this normal? They're so much better when i do them myself even though he uses the exact same technique. Or is it just that I'm not actually having an orgasm with him? He does make me wet but i'm not sure how connected getting wet is to orgasm with women. It's the same sensation whether he's fingering, oral sex or intercourse, and i do reach some kind of climax when he does it, but it's not the same.
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reader, seenitdoneit +, writes (17 August 2006):
That is perfectly normal. He cannot use the exact same technique because you can feel exactly when to change spped/pressure etc whereas he can only guess. There is also the stress of wanting to orgasm for your partner to boost his ego. Sex with myself is the best sex I've ever had on a technical front, but sex with someone else is better on the emotional front. Hopefully we get to enjoy both.
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