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writes: well my prob is that ive met this girl, who is a friend of a friend, but is younger than we are, we are both 21, nearly 22, and she is only 17, since meeting her, i've been out with her in a group a few times and been to her house and met her parents, who seemed really nice and invited me back there again. on top of this, me and this girl have been talkin non stop on instant messenger and texting each other, we get on like soooo well, better than ive got on with anyone for ages and have become really good m8s but I kinda want more but I'm not sure what I should do, if anything, cos of the age gap. Cos Im older Im thinking she hasnt thought about me in that way and just thinks of me as a m8, albeit a close m8, cos she sed that. shes very mature and grown up for her age by the way. i don't wanna freak her out and risk our friendship but we just get on so well, maybe she thinks the same but thinks i wont look at her cos shes too young? any advice or opinions would be appreciated, thanx
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reader, Mushgirl  +, writes (18 August 2006):
 I think you should go for it. I don't think she's be freaked out; more likely than not she has guessed that you may have feelings for her.
I suggest you try hinting at her - see how she reacts. She may think that because you are older, you only think of HER as a mate - therefore she thinks she should only act as one.
To be honest I don't think she'd be freaked out at all - even if she doesn't share your feelings, revealing your own may spur her on to think of you in that way.
Good luck and take care
Mushgirl xxx
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reader, seenitdoneit +, writes (18 August 2006):
My experience of life has been that you always regret what you don't do more than what you do. All relationships are a gamble so why not take a chance? You could ask her straight out for a date or just focus on the friendship for a while and see if anything develops naturally.
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