We're on an experimental break for two weeks given the LDR and my gf seems fine but I'm miserable and paranoid that I'm going to lose her
Q. Sorry for asking again so soon, I just have nobody to talk to anymore and my problems are bothering me a bit. My life's in a focal point right now and I need blunt non friend and family advice.Thanks. Long story short my Girlfriend for over 1 and a ...
A. 3 September 2017: Well thank you, CindyCares , Billy Bathgates, and Anonymous female.
ME and MY GIRLFRIEND met each other again and really found everything was not quite working out and as of this moment we are still in a relationship.
Due to realizing that long dis... (read in full...)
Career or relationship? On the cusp of a big decision, I would like your advice!
Q. So life has finally slowed down a bit. Its been roughly two months since graduation and my folks think that I should move on with my life. Ive been dating my girlfriend since January last year and its been a roller coaster of emotions that I wouldn...
A. 16 August 2017: Thank you for that answer,and also to correct you Ive been with her since Jan. 2016 if that matters. It's that being the guy in the relationship I feel like Im the one who needs to fight for it more and she's the one whos willing to let me go. I ... (read in full...)
I have a girlfriend but there is sexual tension with a friend. What should I do?
Q. I'm currently in a happy relationship of almost two years, I love my girlfriend and we rarely argue but over the last month or two I've started to get feelings for my best friend. We briefly had a thing about 4 years ago but nothing came of it and ...
A. 7 November 2016: First of all...dude no ones judging you here, everyone has problems and everyone gets confused we get that.
Upon reflecting on your situation, let me just say that there is a huge difference with being happy to being content.
Take it from me with ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling guilty, I ran into my ex and feel like we sort of had a date. Do I tell my girlfriend?
Q. Greetings I know this is going to be a long post but please bare with me, something really weird happened to me very recently and i could really use your insight. Me and a couple of guy friends went out for a friday night but since i dont drink i ...
A. 6 November 2016: Thank you both for the advice. I know telling her is the right thing I just cant find the words. I watched a lot of romcoms (and loved HIMYM), and is kinda oblivious to the boundaries of a friendly emotional talk to a loving one. So Im telling my GF ... (read in full...)
Is she into me? I just can't tell?
Q. Ok so there's this girl at school she's gorgeous, tries hard at school, works at the animal shelter, she's super nice, everything she does is just adorable, she's also really quiet and shy, she's the definition of an introvert. We're like opposites ...
A. 24 October 2016: Dude...take it from the guy who lived highschool with a ex-girlfriend exactly like her. She is into you but you have to make it look like you're doing it genuinely...the way you are livin highschool right now is totally different from what she's ... (read in full...)
Is it alright to have my girlfriend live at the family house for the summer when she will be working with my dad?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm sorry if I kind of stopped giving advice, I had a lot of things in my plate this past month and well there is something that is really concerning me and I may need help. As summer vacation approaches me and my girlfriend TA...
A. 17 May 2016: I really do want her with me. Actually we are okay with space and rooms arent really a problem.I know living together for the summer is something very serious. She will meet every one and spend time with us too but isnt that a bit daunting in the ... (read in full...)
Did I make the right decision to give him space? because now I find he's dating someone else
Q. I'm pretty upset about a decision I made yesterday. My ex boyfriend broke up with me about 6 months ago but told me he still loves me and that maybe we would get back together in the future. I respected his decision and left him alone but he wan...
A. 14 April 2016: First of all...Im sorry about your situation. I know what your going through...it maybe painful and embarassing,and I somehow feel it because I've been in the opposite end of the stick and yes it also happened within this week.
I know exes may be h... (read in full...)
I really want to get together with him but put him off until after exams
Q. Thanks in advance to anyone who reads my question! I went to an event last weekend and was making eye contact and smiling with a guy there all day (upon his initiation). He was with his family and so was I and in our culture (we come from the same...
A. 14 April 2016: Well I salute you for honoring your studies first. You have your priorities and we all respect that.
Yes a little over 2 weeks is short and I assure you whatever impact you two left each other will still be there. And who knows? sometimes the wait... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's great, but I'm still obsessing over my ex
Q. I just wanted some advice on my current situation. I have a boyfriend we've been together for about 8 and a half mouths. He's amazing. In my eyes he's the definition of what every guy should be and if he had been anything less I wouldn't have go...
A. 12 April 2016: I totally understand your situation and since your boyfriend already knows about your situation its a sign that you love your bf enough to trust him with your problem. Yes you may think you have feelings for your ex but he's not the one you love. E... (read in full...)
Should I give up? Or is he interested?
Q. So I've been easing into talking to this guy that i really like. He's very pretty (fantastic jawline HOO BOY) and tonight we hung out in a friend group playing a Game of Thrones board game (we are such nerds) and there were a couple flags that might ...
A. 9 April 2016: See yourself as the world see you...
You two are obviously interested in each other. Nothings stopping you if you like this guy. Theres nothing wrong with taking him out for cofee there's no mystery, just believe in yourself more and realize that... (read in full...)
Am I in a position to help her? or should others advise her instead?
Q. I'm having a moral dilemma, me and my exgf broke up over a year ago, a few months ago we decided to be friends again since we shared the same group of friends. So I'm dating my current girlfriend for over 3 months now, I've made an effort for my c...
A. 8 April 2016: I really appreciate everything you guys said...
And I guess I wont try to be anybody elses hero, I owe it to my girlfriend to be hers. Its not my duty to save the world, but it is about her.
Its just I feel that me and my ex are in a race together... (read in full...)
Am I in a position to help her? or should others advise her instead?
Q. I'm having a moral dilemma, me and my exgf broke up over a year ago, a few months ago we decided to be friends again since we shared the same group of friends. So I'm dating my current girlfriend for over 3 months now, I've made an effort for my c...
A. 8 April 2016: Thanks you for your insight.
Since you girls thinks its okay for her to sleep with this guy after i tell her what he said if she chooses to, then I guess it is up to her.
Im just worried that shes just doing this to make me jealous since she said... (read in full...)
Now that I've started dating again I find myself having dreams about my ex! Does this mean I'm not over him?
Q. My ex-boyfriend and I dated for one year and broke up three months ago. He was an amazing partner and a wonderful person. He was always attentive towards me and I treasured him. We were in love, however later realized that our opposite personalities ...
A. 25 March 2016: Its all completely normal, being a guy I too had recurring dreams about exes and it vividly reminded me of several things about those girls: that I loved them ,that I still care about them , and ultimately why we broke up.
Things are always fun at t... (read in full...)
Did I make a mistake of calling him cute?
Q. I've been seeing someone for several weeks and we got intimate twice. No sex (pants still on) but topless as we both agreed we weren't ready for sex yet (I'm a virgin). Both times were great however during second time I was shy and called him "cute" ...
A. 18 March 2016: As a guy...Im not classified as Hot, Pretty , nor sexy. All I was called was Cute, so its not offensive and embarassing for me. But if you're sharing an intimate moment even if its not sex, I have to say that even though as a guy i prefer my ... (read in full...)
Would it be a bad idea to text him? There was no formal goodbye to our relationship
Q. I dated someone for a month, which ended two months ago. There was no formal goodbye. The communication just faded on his end. I never reached out again but I find myself thinking about him all the time. I was very attracted to him physical...
A. 18 March 2016: In my opinion, you're feeling that way you are now because there's no official closure between you two leaving both feelings a bit ambiguous. Its not all that bad to contact him to see how things have been going, but the thing is during your sho... (read in full...)
I want to ask him to hangout platonically without pressure of being a date. How do I go about it?
Q. There's this guy at my work who just got hired 3 months ago. Initially, We hardly talked to each other and I was indifferent towards him. This all changed few weeks later when I ran into him in stairway-the first thing he asked was if I go to the ...
A. 17 March 2016: I agree with Tisha-1's answers.But remember no matter what reason you give him there will always be pressure for the guy if you two spend time together, a date is still a date. Even though you are asking him to hang out platonically he can still ... (read in full...)
After my last relationship, I'm afraid to say I love you
Q. I've only been in one serious relationship in the past, i was with my ex for two years and he was the only person i have said i love you to, now im seeing someone new and he has let it slip twice now and the feelings are definitely there but for ...
A. 17 March 2016: Don't be scared to let your emotion free...
If you love him, even if its just for the moment...say it. Always tell your partner what you feel, he deserves to know it from you.
From experience, im gonna tell you I once loved someone and I didnt sa... (read in full...)
Heartbroken over my ex. Why is his new girlfriend taking revenge this way?
Q. I am so heart broken right now. I was with my ex for 3 years. We've been through a lot together, we loved and sacrificed for each other. We were there for each other through thick and thin. The only thing was we always argued about every little t...
A. 10 March 2016: I can agree with YouWish... He was future farming (keeping his choices close) during your time together and he's doing the same with his girlfriend with what she did with you. But now i must say with every emotional part of my being that yes a gu... (read in full...)
He thinks I should chill out. How can I get him to realize that what he did has made me feel so bad?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for three years and we always had such an amazing sex life, he gave me a lot of confidence and I'm really sad that he is knocking it all back out of me. For the majority of our relationship he has loved going down...
A. 10 March 2016: Sorry for being blunt but tell him the truth. Hes not just there to be with you sexually, he's also an emotional partner. Tell him honestly what's going on with you. I get it that it was nice that he made you feel sexy and now that he is not making... (read in full...)
How do I normalize? What do I ask him to stop wondering? Help me with understanding, this long term crush and that moment you can’t stop thinking about!
Q. So I think I will try and start at the beginning, I found after about three years of friendship that I had developed a crush on a friend. We became friends at a 6week summer camp we worked at each summer since we met. We started passing letters last...
A. 10 March 2016: Well I totally agree with CindyCares its pointless to hold on to whatever moment you shared if he didnt respond with "I like you". Even if your not touchy feely you can tell people you like them. Lets jump the gun and for example he said "love" then ... (read in full...)
Seven months dating and her dad is talking about how much say he will have in marriage
Q. My girlfriend's parents are painfully overbearing and it's caused serious stress with me, her, and this relationship. I've been going out with this girl for 7 months now, I'm 19, she's 18. For the entirety of the relationship it's been one roadblo...
A. 10 March 2016: Your in a real pickle... I get it that you can't break up with her because of her dad, but its a 7 month relationship its to early for her to go against her dad for the sake of love. If you really love her give it a shot first... drink the kool-aid... (read in full...)
It's over. Is going no contact the best way forward?
Q. My boyfriend yelled at me. In his words, not yell but was speaking curtly. He used expletives and went on about how he wants nothing to do with me. I am a little unnerved and shocked. Right now, I don't want to have any contact with him. I am tr...
A. 9 March 2016: Well you said what you want...You dont want a future with him!
All that is left is the execution...
You clearly need to be away from him right now, with those hurtful words yes its right for no contact...you never even said that you love him once... (read in full...)
Is this a healthy relationship? Should I stop texting? Is he using me?
Q. Hi, me and my boyfriend met on Facebook,we've met 5 times and have been going out for two weeks. We used to text all the time, almost 24\7. Now I'm fed up and every time he texts me I ignore it and reply an hour later. It makes me sad to think th...
A. 9 March 2016: Well both of you are still very young...
And unless he showed you some other side that you havent written here, Im sorry but I think he only wants sex...well its typical for boys your age to have that mindset.
You've only met 5 times, and Im in no... (read in full...)
Would you ever be friends with an ex bf/gf who 'broke your heart' ?
Q. Would you ever be friends with an ex bf/gf who 'broke your heart' ? I was in a relationship for 3 years with a guy who I was really in love with and saw myself marrying one day. We talked about marriage and kids in the future, it was a pretty ser...
A. 6 March 2016: Well from a guys perspective and past experience... I exactly went through that same scenario with my ex. We were pretty close in our 4 years together and then she broke my heart. After a year we became friends again. For me if you really care for ... (read in full...)
Do I want my ex back? Is my current relationship toxic?
Q. So right of the bat... I know i'm kindoff selfish for having this very problem but i just need the opinion of others to be sure. Ive asked a question in this site about over a week ago about me and my month-long girlfriend breaking up...and as hard ...
A. 5 March 2016: Thanks for the insight. My ex left me because she said she wants to be alone for a while... she said we were still young so we had nothing to lose. We havent talked to each other for a year until this january, when we decided to be friends again for ... (read in full...)
Do I want my ex back? Is my current relationship toxic?
Q. So right of the bat... I know i'm kindoff selfish for having this very problem but i just need the opinion of others to be sure. Ive asked a question in this site about over a week ago about me and my month-long girlfriend breaking up...and as hard ...
A. 4 March 2016: Thanks for the answers...buts thats the problem. She was the one who broke up with me before. And 2 months ago before i even met my girlfriend i would give an arm and a leg to have her back. Ive been with her for 4 years ...while ive been with my gf ... (read in full...)
I messed up the relationship once and don't want to do that again. Advice?
Q. First, thank you all for reading my essay down here hehehe, I appreciate it. Well, some basic info: I am a senior in college, my ex girlfriend is a junior in college, I'm not wealthy at all, I'm trying to prove myself and make something of myself, ...
A. 3 March 2016: It sure is touching to have someone with a similar situation like me. Well as a guy ive also felt things like i dont deserve my ex, she can do better, and how can i be more for her. But a lot of people always say to stop putting that specific girl ... (read in full...)
She said she didn't want to hang out any more and I'm scared! A part of me wants to make some gestures so she knows how much I care!
Q. So I'll start first by stating that some of my friends and even adults while growing up have asked me again and again if i had ASD (Asperger's Syndrome Disorder) though i never saw any professionals growing up (they say it shows vividly in my ...
A. 23 February 2016: Well i didnt dictate the dynamics of our relationship...she chose to spend time with me more...to get to know each other. Everythong i said here is what's on my head now and i thought she understood me too. Does my actions and mindset really come ... (read in full...)
She said she didn't want to hang out any more and I'm scared! A part of me wants to make some gestures so she knows how much I care!
Q. So I'll start first by stating that some of my friends and even adults while growing up have asked me again and again if i had ASD (Asperger's Syndrome Disorder) though i never saw any professionals growing up (they say it shows vividly in my ...
A. 23 February 2016: No up until recently...yeah my friends did realize i was "up my exs grill" all the time but that was highschool and we saw each other everyday and had a couple of classes together..yes we broke up on bad terms but up until recently we made up and ... (read in full...)
Is this worth saving?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for just under 2 years. I have recently been under some stress at work. I have a lot on at uni. We live an hour away from each other so its difficult to just see each other - a couple hours here and there. So ...
A. 22 February 2016: Well being a guy if someone told me i needed time and space to think about us thats gonna sting a lot...it implies a lot more than just disatisfaction but also a hint of regret. Well its kindoff hard to tackle this sort of situations in a more ... (read in full...)
Is it best to end my relationship now? Or does he just need time?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. He's my best friend and we had plans to buy a house together in 2016. He's been very hot and cold on the subject and I find myself worrying about our relationship more and more. He's promised me ...
A. 14 December 2015: So i understand you're problem and I have to say...if you really feel burdened by your relationship with him then you should break up with him if you really think he's holding your life back. But if you really do love him you cant let himself be ... (read in full...)
He's amazing, he's sweet, kind, romantic, loving, he's perfect...but that cant be true, right? Is he hiding something?
Q. My bf and I hav even dating for 6 months. He is amazing, he's sweet, kind, romantic, loving, he's perfect. We can spend hours talking and hours just laying in bed with each orher. Our sex life is amazing! He was the most romantic guy I have eve...
A. 8 December 2015: You seem to like him a lot but there is something else clouding you judgement... If you really believe some of your friends that he is not all that nice then try to know his friends you're bound to get his true self among his peers... But i dou... (read in full...)
Why did my boyfriend break up with me and cry about it?
Q. Ok so me and my boyfriend had been dating for four years and over the last couple of months I noticed he had become distant. He wasn't as affectionate, when we spent time together he would fall asleep or act like he didn't wan to be there and the ...
A. 8 December 2015: So i dont mean to conflict what the others are saying. But being a guy... I think going no contact with a guy is good if you want to move on ....i get it that sometimes guys give bad reasons to break ups and sometimes you have to respect it. But it ... (read in full...)
He's amazing, he's sweet, kind, romantic, loving, he's perfect...but that cant be true, right? Is he hiding something?
Q. My bf and I hav even dating for 6 months. He is amazing, he's sweet, kind, romantic, loving, he's perfect. We can spend hours talking and hours just laying in bed with each orher. Our sex life is amazing! He was the most romantic guy I have eve...
A. 8 December 2015: Im gonna start off by saying yes nobody is perfect and that all guys are probably hiding something to get in your pants. But you'd be surprised to find out how many guys are actually genuine about their emotions. Its clear that he likes you but if... (read in full...)
He's amazing, he's sweet, kind, romantic, loving, he's perfect...but that cant be true, right? Is he hiding something?
Q. My bf and I hav even dating for 6 months. He is amazing, he's sweet, kind, romantic, loving, he's perfect. We can spend hours talking and hours just laying in bed with each orher. Our sex life is amazing! He was the most romantic guy I have eve...
A. 8 December 2015: Im gonna start off by saying yes nobody is perfect and that all guys are probably hiding something to get in your pants. But you'd be surprised to find out how many guys are actually genuine about their emotions. Its clear that he likes you but if... (read in full...)
Does she truly like me?
Q. Hi, I'm interested in this girl I've been seeing for 3 months. We went on a date after a few weeks and she admitted she liked me but needed to think. After a week after the date, she said she wanted to focus on her work as she is doing really wel...
A. 5 December 2015: By the things you write you two sound sweet... And i'm kind of optimistic about this whole thing and if this girl makes you wait for six months before entering a relationship then just tread lightly and see where this goes you at least have theright ... (read in full...)
I'm at a loss as to which LDR to choose! Advice?
Q. Hello...um..My name is Lauren, I am 18 And I am currently "Dating" two guys.. Oh but they are both long distance.. And I don't know what to do, because one is J (8 hours away,23) And the other one is R (13 hours away,18). I love them both..but is...
A. 4 December 2015: So first things first... Im a guy...i dont mean to give you bad advice its just from my perspective.
And there is nothing wrong with being confused right now...you're young you have your entire future ahead of you.
Thing about highschool guy i... (read in full...)
Does she truly like me?
Q. Hi, I'm interested in this girl I've been seeing for 3 months. We went on a date after a few weeks and she admitted she liked me but needed to think. After a week after the date, she said she wanted to focus on her work as she is doing really wel...
A. 4 December 2015: Coming from a guys point of view everything is okay. If a girl is being slow and careful your right to respect her decisions you'll have to show her that the trust and the connection between you two is real. There are plenty of reasons why she hasnt ... (read in full...)
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