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age
30-35,
*teel stake
writes:First, thank you all for reading my essay down here hehehe, I appreciate it. Well, some basic info: I am a senior in college, my ex girlfriend is a junior in college, I'm not wealthy at all, I'm trying to prove myself and make something of myself, she is wealthy off and very beautiful. We are both hard headed and can get heated off quickly, which led to our breakup. Okay, my ex girlfriend and I had a very strong relationship, while we were together we dealt with a lot of deaths in the family and other hardships. After 6 and a half months we just ended up going through too much individually to find harmony in our relationship, we said things we wished we didn't and it led to a breakup for 8 months. We've dated other people but ended up reconciling with each other and had a mutual agreement to try "us" again. We both have grown as people since our last relationship and have changed a bit. I thought everything of this girl, I still do. I'm sure she is the one for me, I can sync with her like no other. She changed me as an individual, for the better. I have a hectic life dealing with bills, and taking care of my father who is disabled, by myself. She says these things is what she loves about me, that I never complain, I just take the challenges on. Well anyways, we've talked quite a bit this week about what went wrong before and how we can change, and we both decided to take this slow. She's gorgeous, smart, and has a lot of guys that constant hit her up on Twitter, so I'm sure she could do better, which she deserves, but she still picked me in a way. Was it jealousy because I was dating a model for a bit? I'm not sure, that's irrelevant to me in my perspective but that could've triggered her. I've thought about this a lot lately, I hope that's not the case, because this probably won't work out. She says she wants to do everything possible to make us work and she wants me in her life on this journey we call life, even though we are so young still. Have you all ever dealt with this before, I want to make this work, how can I make it work? I messed up this relationship once, I don't want that again. I want this to feel new again in a way. This may not be possible, but I know one thing, I may not be able to get this right, but I'm sure in the hell going to try. Help?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 March 2016):
 If you want things to start from new again well then wipe all the past. Try and forget the troubles you both had. Date her, take her out, treat her like a princess. Do all the things to make her see that you love her. Hopefully she will return the favor. Just be yourself and treat her good. If it is meant to be it will work itself out in time.
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reader, Sam Wilson +, writes (3 March 2016):
 It sure is touching to have someone with a similar situation like me. Well as a guy ive also felt things like i dont deserve my ex, she can do better, and how can i be more for her. But a lot of people always say to stop putting that specific girl on a pedestal...she chose you and she loves you for who you are. Sometimes the best thing you can do for a girl is to keep it honest, say and show her what you feel everyday and always show her what you are....because she picked you ... Gave you another chance that means something and if god forbid things dont end well ...im sorry a relationship is a two person job and if she ever chooses to e d what you have as long as it doesnt mess with what you are and what you believe in...I believe theres always something worth holding onto.This may be cheesy but i believe love never dies...one only realizes its true amount and finds another that weighs more in ones heart. So show her how much you love her because you believe shes giving it all shes got to.
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