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writes: I've only been in one serious relationship in the past, i was with my ex for two years and he was the only person i have said i love you to, now im seeing someone new and he has let it slip twice now and the feelings are definitely there but for some reason i had hesitation and now that i know im ready im worried hes scared to say it again, how do i tell him i love him
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2016): I agree with Sam Wilson in the sense that if you're with someone and feel that you love them then say it. But don't overthink it.
The more you overthink what you're going to say the harder it will be for you to say it. Expressing emotion and feelings is one of the most important parts of a relationship as a lack of it will over time do nothing but make it deteriorate. Don't be afraid, in this case be cliche and 'follow your heart'
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reader, Sam Wilson +, writes (17 March 2016):
Don't be scared to let your emotion free...
If you love him, even if its just for the moment...say it. Always tell your partner what you feel, he deserves to know it from you.
From experience, im gonna tell you I once loved someone and I didnt say it enough...know I wish I could've said it to her everyday. Dont let it get to that point.
You have to tell him that you love him to his face. And if you are really having hesitations remember: Love is trusting someone enough to tell them what's really bothering you.
Do you feel that way about him? If your hesitating...can you tell him why? If yes he deserves those words it would really mean a lot to him if you told him the truth.
Good Luck...
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