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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I'm interested in this girl I've been seeing for 3 months. We went on a date after a few weeks and she admitted she liked me but needed to think. After a week after the date, she said she wanted to focus on her work as she is doing really well at the moment. She said she knew I liked her but at the moment she what'd to focus on her work. II said I would support her and her decision and would be there for her. We remained talking everyday as usual. We have seemed to get closer seeing each other every week. A week ago, She came to a party and after I dropped her off, I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said that she likes to know a guy for 6 months before dating them so that she knows they aren't someone who uses her to which she even said herself she knows I'm not. she said she would want the relationship to be perfect and that she likes how close and well I get on with her family which is a big thing for her. I asked her if she likes anyone else in her life and she said no. So I think that she does like me in that way or else she would have said no straight away, she never said no to the question of being my girlfriend.I'm just concerned whether she was saying this out of kindness or she meant it.We have broken the touch barrier. We kissed on her first date and since then not kissed. We hug a lot and when I drive her home, we hold hands and hug whilst driving home.I just wanted to get someone else's view and see what they think. Reply to this Question
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reader, Sam Wilson  +, writes (5 December 2015):
 By the things you write you two sound sweet... And i'm kind of optimistic about this whole thing and if this girl makes you wait for six months before entering a relationship then just tread lightly and see where this goes you at least have theright to know. If you really like her then 3 more months of whatever the two of you are doing still doesnt sound bad and at least you enjoyed each others company if god forbid things go south.Good luck...Just enjoy the moment and eventually you'd be a real couple soon im looking forward to it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust to update you guys, we aren't dating, we are friends but said she likes to know a guy 6 months before dating, she never said no to being in a relationship, this is why I'm hopefully, I do think she has a interest in me as she is showing signs of physical contact and also at this party, we weren't separated throughout the night. Friends commented saying we looked like a couple and there was a point in the night where we were singing a flirty song to each other whilst not breaking eye contact and as I was staring at her, she was serious, it wasn't a joke kinda thing, she genniuly looked interested and meant every word of the song to me which was about being together and loving the person. This is why I do think she has an attraction towards me and that I think she does want a relationship after this 6 month trail as you could call it.
Thanks again guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2015): I think she's just using you. She's too busy for a relationship but knows that you like her so she can lean on you when she needs physical comfort like a hug or her hand held. You weren't dating long and she cant offer what you want so give yourself a time limit to wait. Say 2 weeks, if she doesn't reply either way you need to move on.
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reader, Sam Wilson +, writes (4 December 2015):
Coming from a guys point of view everything is okay. If a girl is being slow and careful your right to respect her decisions you'll have to show her that the trust and the connection between you two is real. There are plenty of reasons why she hasnt said yes right away and for the mean time she hasnt said no yet either.
And dont rush the answer dude...cherish your moments together you dont need labels to feel the love by the looks of things you already hit it off. I dont mean to jinx anything but you have nothing to wory about just show her what you feel everytime you meet and thats more than enough to let her see that you like her.
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