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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hello...um..My name is Lauren, I am 18And I am currently "Dating" two guys..Oh but they are both long distance..And I don't know what to do, because one is J (8 hours away,23) And the other one is R (13 hours away,18). I love them both..but issue is I want to meet both of them in person..they say they are in love with me..I've known (and been dating R for 3yrs..off and on..) And I just recently Got with J In April of this year off and on as well....I'm not a slut nor a whore..But, I have somewhat issues with them both.J:Can be controlling,possessive, and strict..when upset.And R:Sexually Frustrated,Childish,and sometimes annoying. J,is the type to one minute say he adores and love me to death but two seconds later he just wants to be done with me, I treat him bad etc.And R,is the type that begs almost everyday, and can get very childish and perverted.J,says he wants to come and get me in a month or so..But R, says once he finishes in High School (May of next year),that he is coming STRAIGHT to me..or he might be coming sooner..I just don't know who to pick because like they both can be sweethearts at times.And I just wish J,had R's personally and playfulness and That R,had some of J's confidence. I know it sounds rather confusing..but I just need advice as to whom to choose.Because I am at a lost..
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 December 2015):
 You won't be able to choose between both off them until you meet them both in person and get to know them face to face. People can often hide behind computers and not be who they really are. You are still young, so enjoy life, get out more with friends and see how your love life goes. Good luck.
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reader, Sam Wilson +, writes (4 December 2015):
 So first things first... Im a guy...i dont mean to give you bad advice its just from my perspective.
And there is nothing wrong with being confused right now...you're young you have your entire future ahead of you.
Thing about highschool guy is they are all the same...you cant just pick between them quickly. There is always something deeper within them that you have to find and love. Sure i understand that you like them and they like you but your heart should really decide not some random people you ask on the internet... Because honestly this couls be a big decision for you. Take your time meditate....get to know them more...connect with them and check their lifestyle... Even though its long distance yu still need to make time to make all those things work.
But if you wish to decide quickly assign J and R as heads and tails... Toss a coin... Upon seeing the result your heart will either love or regret the outcome... Your heart never lies when it comes to reacting.
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