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writes:My bf and I hav even dating for 6 months. He is amazing, he's sweet, kind, romantic, loving, he's perfect. We can spend hours talking and hours just laying in bed with each orher. Our sex life is amazing! He was the most romantic guy I have ever been with. It's so much more then just getting off for him.But of course there is a but , my friends keep saying there is something off about him , they say he's to perfect and that he must be hiding something. I don't think he is hiding anything but I don't want to be that girl who is blinded by love and not seeing something.
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reader, Sam Wilson  +, writes (8 December 2015):
 You seem to like him a lot but there is something else clouding you judgement... If you really believe some of your friends that he is not all that nice then try to know his friends you're bound to get his true self among his peers...But i doubt that ,even if there is something he is hiding that you dont like, you'll eventually get pass it ... You've been dating six months, and you said it yourself you have both compromised for your relationship. If a problem may arise you can just talk about it. Youre together know and sometimes directly talking to him about it is a proper solution.Some people really change for the better when theyre a couple.Maybe people are just plain comfortable about the guy you can never really tell. Dating is all aboutgetting close and knowing each other and if you dont sense whatever it is that your friends sense ....its probably nothing you do know him the most, its only just that your opinion of him is the only one who matters... Because even though some people are blinded when in love sooner or later they are bound to stumble into it eventually.
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reader, JuliaS +, writes (8 December 2015):
JuliaS is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am unbelievable happy. Yes we have our disagreements but nothing that we can't fix pretty quickly. We agree to disagree , we both make compromises but we don't always give in to the other person. He is just a genuinely sweet person not just to me to almost everyone he meets. He's the guy at the mall that will help a older couple load their groceries in their car , he holds doors open for people and just tried to make others smile.
Most of my friends and family like him (my parents
Love him) . It's just a few friends that make those comments so I will second guessing him when I don't want too
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reader, Sam Wilson +, writes (8 December 2015):
Im gonna start off by saying yes nobody is perfect and that all guys are probably hiding something to get in your pants. But you'd be surprised to find out how many guys are actually genuine about their emotions.Its clear that he likes you but if others think there is something off about him and someone as close as him like you dont feel it they just might find it weird that your relationship is doing great because most of the time its not that easy.Hey on paper this guy sounds great but i dont actually know the guy...the only factor left to devide about this is to determine your feelings... Are you happy and are other people okay with your happiness. If yes then for the time being there is nothing to worry about. Listen and reflect on whatever people especially your friends are telling you but dont ever place judgement fully dependent on it. It is up to you.Dont ever stop yourself from reaching happiness because you're too afraid to reach it....but thats just me.Good luck!
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reader, Sam Wilson +, writes (8 December 2015):
Im gonna start off by saying yes nobody is perfect and that all guys are probably hiding something to get in your pants. But you'd be surprised to find out how many guys are actually genuine about their emotions.Its clear that he likes you but if others think there is something off about him and someone as close as him like you dont feel it they just might find it weird that your relationship is doing great because most of the time its not that easy.Hey on paper this guy sounds great but i dont actually know the guy...the only factor left to devide about this is to determine your feelings... Are you happy and are other people okay with your happiness. If yes then for the time being there is nothing to worry about. Listen and reflect on whatever people especially your friends are telling you but dont ever place judgement fully dependent on it. It is up to you.Dont ever stop yourself from reaching happiness because you're too afraid to reach it....but thats just me.Good luck!
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