WHY does he want anal???
Q. dear readers, recently by BF has taken to asking me to have anal sex, but i really dont know what to do here? i dont really want to, but at the same time i am a bit curious. i want to know does it really hurt? does it feel better for him? is ...
A. 1 February 2011: Yeah it do hurts. Some women are for it and some are not. First time it surely hurts a lots..maybe blood might come out as well.
And as for anal sex..it depends on a person..some boys prefer anal over vaginal and vice versa.
If you don't feel l... (read in full...)
I can't help but think that he's not in it for the long run.
Q. hi, I met someone, things started off shaky just cause when things get serious i start pushing people away just to see if they'l stick around and he didn't he just became distant. I felt bad because for a while he was doing and saying all the r...
A. 1 February 2011: Why don't you talk to him about it? Well me too if i was in your place i would feel the same. Try talking to him in a friendly way not like one that make him feel pressurized.
Personally i think that you should leave him because it seems that he ... (read in full...)
My best friend stole the girl I love!
Q. So I really like this girl and my friend seems to like her too. I've thought this for awhile and I don't knownwhat to do. My friend claims to have a gf but I've never seen her so Idk if he's lying. The girl I like is really pretty smart and funny. ...
A. 1 February 2011: I don't know why your friend lied to you. Maybe he has a gf really and is just trying to be friendly to your girl since he does not know you like her.
Why don't you ask him to introduce you to his gf? he will if he has one and then you can tell... (read in full...)
The wandering eye......
Q. My guy and I had a little spat in regards to the wandering eye and loyalty to me and the relationship. He says that my constant banter of telling him how upsetting it is to me to see him looking at other women and physically acting like he's not ...
A. 31 January 2011: Actually i was in the same situation as Yours. Am very jealous and i once told my boyfriend i don't like him looking at other girls..he gave me an answer that is more or less same as that of Your bf.
But what i denoted from that is that they dem... (read in full...)
Is he interested in getting to know me? or not?
Q. My aunt introduced me to this guy that she works with, she thinks we'd be a perfect match. When i say introduced..i guess i dont really mean introduced. she told him to add me on facebook. we chatted for a while the first few days and exchanged ...
A. 31 January 2011: Yes he is most probably interested in you. Because else he would not give a damn whether you text him or not. But since you are not texting him he is worried that's why he tested you back.
I think maybe its you who should take the first step. Wh... (read in full...)
Married ex is still contacting my boyfriend!
Q. Agony aunts please help me. am suffering My boyfriend used to date a girl who was a Hindu while my boyfriend was a Muslim. He used to love her very much. However the parent of the girl did not accept the relation and so that girl broke up with ...
A. 18 January 2011: Thanks but the problem is that my boyfriend won't be able to change his number since he own a business of his own and all his clients contact him through that number and also if he changed it then there is no guarantee that his ex is not going to re ... (read in full...)
What should I wear on this date?
Q. i cant decide between 5 dresses which one i should wear for a date.. please someone give me a clue on what type of dress we have to wear on a date. your answer will be appreciated...
A. 18 January 2011: Any ideas on where you going on your first date? If you can, have a conversation with your date to find out where you're going. But be simple with your questions to make sure you dont' sound to controlling. This will help immeasurably, even if you c... (read in full...)
Girlfriend pressuring me for sex
Q. Hi kindly help me out one of my girlfriend friend what to have sex with me as fast as possible ,i am a virgin my girlfriend will be mad at me if she enventually find out please help me out now!!!...
A. 18 January 2011: Boy you are just 15! I seriously advise you not to go for it. You are not ready for sex both mentally and physically.
You said your girlfriend is pressurizing you for sex, But do you also want to do it and fears only that she know you are a virgin... (read in full...)
Am I an awful person for not wanting him to go on a boys holiday?
Q. My bf broke my heart a year ago by lying and meeting up with his ex/saving half-naked photos of her on his computer. We made up and he's been good since then.My trust is SLOWLY starting to build up, but by no means is it there yet. He suddenly ...
A. 17 January 2011: You seem to be a really emotional girl. But if i was in your place i would have been more cautious in this relation... (read in full...)
I don't want to share my husband anymore!
Q. my husband has many GF and i know about all and he is not physically involved with any one but unfortunatily i had physically involved with a guy( he know all about me that i am too emotional and take advantage of mine ).once my husband caught us. ...
A. 17 January 2011: I think that yeah you have hurt your husband enough so let him go now.
he want to settle down with a faithful woman let him be.
If you really love him, you would never do things that would hurt him.... (read in full...)
How do I apologize to my friend?
Q. pliz help i have a gal of mine so we have fought so i want to apologise to her so what are the spets to take so that i will not srew things up i love so much but it seems that she already have a boy friend and again im confused on the things to say ...
A. 14 January 2011: Everyone has times when we do or say something inappropriate. Sometimes these actions strain the relationship between the parties involved. Here are tips on how to apologize. Apologize to the person when the two of you can speak privately. Off... (read in full...)
How do we get through the awkward silences?
Q. Me and my boyfriend can talk for hours but then sometimes can't talk at all. Can u please give me advice on how to stay away from acward scilences. Please don't give me corny answers like the news and the weather and all that green shit. We in the ...
A. 10 January 2011: well i think Your case is a bit similar to mine. After talking about most of the things you just duno what you should pick up now.
then we would be in a romantic mood..Like we would say that hey am kissing you like zis like zat and end up in sex..... (read in full...)
My husband of 14 years had an affair with a stripper 4 months ago. How do I forgive him?
Q. My husband of 14 years had an affair with a stripper 4 months ago. I just found about it 2 months ago. He paid her $200.00 for sex in a motel room. (Isn't that protitution?) I also found recepits where he bought her jewelry three different times. ...
A. 23 December 2010: my answer is a bit different from others.
I mean you can consider to forgive him only if you think that he truly regret for what he has done which can be easily detected from his behavior. You know why am telling you this because it seems you love... (read in full...)
Anonymous texts from my b/f?
Q. hi, i hav a question n im really confused here i hav a boyfriend im 30 yrs old hes 42 yrs old, we' ve been seeing each other for 7 yrs but six months ago he told me he was leaving out of state for work....so ok he left everything is good till i ...
A. 23 December 2010: Well maybe he wanted to see if you still love him though he was away. And by asking if you would like to go out with him, your bf wanted to see if you was not cheating on him while he was away. hope that helps. please rate... (read in full...)
Me and my girlfriend both cheated on each other
Q. Its almost the end of 2010. In February of this year, my girlfriend admitted to me on a drunken night, two guys took advantage of her and they both had sex with her within minutes. Since she told me, I in returned confessed that I had cheated on...
A. 23 December 2010: So start with, let me tell you that your girlfriend love you a loads as she confessed it to you that she have had sex with two guys. Trust me, this is very difficult for a girl to tell this to her boy [as it was for you since maybe you would have ... (read in full...)
I'm too jealous!
Q. I'm too jelous. Every time my boyfriend is out and i know there will be girls there i end up sitting in the house all night thinking 'hes going to think i'm not pretty compared to them' and things like that. I trust him 100% and i KNOW he wouldn't ...
A. 22 December 2010: I’m not much of a jealous guy. I feel jealousy sometimes but it often passes pretty quickly and without the almost burning intensity some people seem to experience. Still, I have of course thought about this problem and found a few ways to over... (read in full...)
What does it mean if I'm unable to function?
Q. I'm nearly 26 and a virgin. After losing patience with finding love, I finally worked up the courage to visit a brothel... twice. I failed both times. On the second occasion, the prostitute was trying very, very hard to get me hard and she was ...
A. 21 December 2010: I think you had taken a wrong step by trying to break your virgin with a prostitute. I mean being a boy and still virgin at the age 26 is a great thing as a whole. And then you decided to break your virgin with a prostitute. According to me you ... (read in full...)
What are your top 5 "Must haves" and "Can't stands"
Q. Poll (just for fun). For women and men, for you, what are the top 5 "MUST HAVES" and the top 5 "CAN'T STANDS" when evaluating members of the opposite sex as a potential lifelong partner? I guess mine would be Must Haves: friendly dispos...
A. 17 December 2010: well my five top must have is :- 1. attractive both mentally and physically 2. financially strong 3. Famous 4. Loveable 5. Intelligent and cute my 5 can't stand:- 1. being selfish 2. smoker 3. alcoholic addict 4. dru... (read in full...)
Heavier than normal period!
Q. I'm on a really heavy period this month, I'm filling up my pads quicker than usual. The pain usually goes away, but this time the cramps are more painful, and they're there all day. Before I came on I had a different type of cramp. Is there some...
A. 17 December 2010: Hormonal imbalance is the most common cause of heavy menstrual flow. An imbalance of estrogen and progesterone causes the lining of the uterus to thicken more than average. This in turn causes heavier bleeding. This is most common in teenagers when ... (read in full...)
Whats better for penis size?
Q. So this may sound dumb but I'm wondering from a girls point of view. What's better for penis size, length or Gerth? Cause I'm 5.5 long and 5.75 around, so which one is more enjoyable...
A. 15 December 2010: The fact is size DOES matter when it comes to the size of your penis and how women feel about it.
The size of the average penis is about 6 inches which may make you happy or depressed depending on how you measure up. Most women are very content ... (read in full...)
I'm not 100% sure who the dad is.
Q. i found out i was pregnant in june 2009 i had a 1 night stand with sum1 in april 2009 (somwere in the middle of the month) then i had sex with my fella at the the end of april i had my period about may the 5th 2009 then had sex with my fella again ...
A. 12 December 2010: I think you are most probably carrying the baby of your fella.
Because after you had sex with the one night stand boy, you got your mense after that. As far as i know, all his sperms must have been removed out of your body in form of the disc... (read in full...)
Need ideas for celebrating a two-year anniversary!
Q. It's coming up to my 2 year anniversary with my bf. He's going to come to my place after work before we go out for dinner. What can I do/ do to my room for a surprise that'll make it all romantic but not too girly? ...
A. 10 December 2010: Second anniversaries are cozy, like the traditional gift of cotton. You've made through a couple of years and you're nice and comfortable in your relationship. Gift ideas for your second anniversary could follow suit. Great traditional 2nd ... (read in full...)
How do I make our sex life more satisfying for both of us?
Q. Every time I have sex with my wife it only last for about 3 minute. Not to mention that we don't have sex that often only about once every 2 weeks. How do I lengthen that time of the sex? And sometime, most of the time I just don't feel the s...
A. 10 December 2010: Follow these tips and with a little energy, creativity, and a “whole lotta love,” you'll have the sex life you want and deserve.
1. Be Spontaneous. There’s no rule that says sex needs to take place in the dark of night. If the kids are all at p... (read in full...)
Am I ready for this baby?
Q. im pregnate and dont know if im ready for this baby.my boyfriend wants the baby but im not sure if i do. we have known each other for two years but we have only gone out for 2 months.i think we are to young for this baby.i have only told my best ...
A. 9 December 2010: You are not ready for a baby. you are far too young.
higher risk of premature delivery
higher risk of birth defects
higher risk of fetal death
higher risk of birth complications
higher risk of c-section delivery
higher risk of maternal d... (read in full...)
Why do men get defensive when asked to wear condoms?
Q. hi dear aunts and uncles. why men don't like wearing condoms and get defensive when you ask for it? they always throw the 'you don't trust me' line. that doesn't work with me be cause i believe that no glove no love is the best thing to do. but ...
A. 9 December 2010: 1. If he says: "It ruins the mood."
How to respond: "Having unsafe sex puts me out of the mood. For good!"
2. If his excuse is: "A condom spoils my enjoyment of sex.”
How to respond: “I can't enjoy sex unless we’re protected.”
3... (read in full...)
Scared about having sex with an older guy
Q. So I'm like with this guy who I really like, were talking about having sex. He is much older than me and he has already lost his virginity, i haven't. I feel like there are so many things wrong with me, and it makes me not wanna have sex with him. ...
A. 9 December 2010: hmmm so since its your first time, i will tell you a bit about the normal things a girl usually experience in her body during/after her first time which is quite normal, so you don't need to be that afraid if you see any symptoms of that :-
1. # ... (read in full...)
13 year old son sexting. What should his punishment be?
Q. Just caught my 13 year old sexting with a girl in his class. They sent each other pictures of each other and everything. Not sure what his punishment should be. His phone was taken indefinitely. Not sure what else I should do. What do u all think?...
A. 9 December 2010: Your punishment is actually to keep him away from any means that shall allow his to redo sexting.
Want to keep your child safe from sexting and its consequences? Here's how to help:
1. Communication is Key
Kids probably won't respond well i... (read in full...)
How can I impress her on her birthday?
Q. i Like a Girl , the girl also Like me but only one mistake is our parents don;t like to talk.when i Was 11 years old i have done such a mistake that is why she don;t like me i don;t know what is the mistake , ON 10th of December Birthday of that ...
A. 7 December 2010: It seems a tough task at first, especially if you are a little shy and introvert,but i'll gave you 8 tips which might work maybe.
so here you goes:-
1. The mantra to success here is to be your self. Remember, girls like guys who do not try t... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to give a guy a good blow job?
Q. Any tips on how to give a guy a good blow job? My bf and i have decided to try out oral sex...and i'm new at this so i am a bit nervous.......
A. 5 December 2010: So i'll mention a bit of the things you need to do and those that you should not do. Here you go with some tips :-
1. Look into his eyes, while sucking his penis. This is the #1 piece of advice I can give. It brings you onto a new level. And men ... (read in full...)
I'm so shy and never know how to get a guy
Q. I am so shy and never know how to get a guy!!!! I'm in 8th grade and I've slow-danced three times in my whole life. I never ask the guy because I'm scared of rejection or awkwardness, and im also old-fashioned because i feel like the guy should ask. ...
A. 4 December 2010: Many of us wish we were one of those people who walked into a room and had friends-to-be flock to them. Anyone would agree that those of us who make friends easily and are innately likable will probably have an easier and more pleasant time of ... (read in full...)
I want to forget her, I don't want to love her anymore!
Q. hello guys please i want every possible advice for me, i really need that, im in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend , it actually been a long time, the least i can say about her is that im crazy inlove with her, but i wanna for...
A. 4 December 2010: Remembering to not think of someone is nearly impossible. The idea itself is completely contradictory. However, there are times in our lives in which we often want to relieve a feeling or memory of someone else to ease our emotional stress. It is ... (read in full...)
Why can't I keep eye contact with girls?
Q. Ok, so for the first and second quarter of school ive been taking public speaking and one of the big things in that class is obviously eye contact. And i seemed to have noticed a problem that ive never realized before taking this class and im ...
A. 4 December 2010: Trying to pickup a girl is often met with rejection. It can be intimidating to let a girl know you're interested. Making eye contact is a simple way to show attraction without making the woman uncomfortable. Use these tips to break the ice with a ... (read in full...)
I get this painful burning sensation when we have sex, and it's not a UTI..
Q. So my boyfriend and I have a pretty active sex life. We were both eachothers first, and we've been having sex for about 8 months For the past month or so, I've been getting a painful burning sensation when we have sex, or right after we finish....
A. 4 December 2010: A woman shouldn't have ‘burning’ during intercourse. So, clearly something is wrong. I doubt if it is 'serious' in the sense of 'very dangerous to your health'.
But it must be diagnosed and treated. Possibilities include:
- thrush
- tricho... (read in full...)
Advice for an ugly duckling?
Q. im 14 yrs old i 've been made fun since i was very little. I was always the ugliest one the one who had a hard time making friend the one who everyone felt bad for. And the one who everyone picked on the one, who everone thought was gay. The one ...
A. 4 December 2010:
"In some cases ugly girls can attract handsome guys..."
In some cases ugly girls can attract handsome guys. See a handsome guy always does not look for a girl who is beautiful from the outside they end up rotten from the inside. So hands... (read in full...)
I'm broke and gaining weight! Help!
Q. so im just wondering if anyone has some tips on losing weight. i dont have the time or money to join a gym or classes, or buy exercise equipment for the home. i do crunches, lunges, squats and push ups at home as well as several other things every ...
A. 3 December 2010: so i'll give you some tips for easy weight lose:-
1. Find out how many calories you need..
Use our online Calories Calculator to calculate how many calories you need every day.
2. Eat at least 5 servings of fruits and vegetables per day
... (read in full...)
He's 24 years younger than me, can this work?
Q. I am seriously involved, we are moving in together next week, with a guy 24 years younger than myself. We are madly in love, can this really work out long term? We have a lot in common, our values, hope and dreams are very similar. Any help?...
A. 3 December 2010: Women marry at all difference ages today and they marry men of all different ages. Many of the taboos regarding age are breaking down, thanks to the likes of stars such as Demi Moore, Susan Sarandon, Madonna and Geena Davis who have shown us that ... (read in full...)
I want to feel appreciated!
Q. My relationship of 2 1/2 yrs has gone stale. Normally, I would try to spice things up, or have a serious conversation on making things better, but I'm just at the point where I give up. My boyfriend is not spontaneous, and does not make me feel...
A. 3 December 2010: here are four tips in order to make yourself feel appreciated :-
1. EXPECT NOT TO
Most people in life are not quite on the level of knowledge that you have. You understand the law of giving and receiving and that there has to be a balance. Mo... (read in full...)
For girls, what's your taste in guys?
Q. I know every girl has diffrent taste in guys but these are just a few questions I can think of off the top of my head that I want to know the answer to 1.Do girls like guys with long hair? 2.Do girls like guys who call them babe or baby? (I d...
A. 30 November 2010: 1. It depends on girls. But i think most of them like it long say a moderate height i would say. but short hair is not bad either as far as your personality is great
2. Personally i like it when my bf called me baby. but i think babe is much bet... (read in full...)
Is it my fault that he has not spoke to me since our date?
Q. I wenr on date with a 21 year old (Im 17). We met over the internet. The date didn't go as I planned. i was nervous but we held hands. He was nice and sweet, opened the car door for me and paid for my movie ticket. That night, he told me he was ...
A. 30 November 2010: well i don't think its reasonable for anyone to trust a person who we have met on the internet. i mean we actually don't know the real personality of that person. and you have already went a day with after 2 1/2 weeks. that what actually happen to ... (read in full...)
Has anyone got any good pickup lines?
Q. there is a girl who i have a crush on but i dont know what to say to her when i ask her out, any good pickup lines?...
A. 30 November 2010: agree with others. there's not really a good line for that. it just that how truthful and how deep is your love that actually counts... (read in full...)
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