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41-50,
*anutr
writes:my husband has many GF and i know about all and he is not physically involved with any one but unfortunatily i had physically involved with a guy( he know all about me that i am too emotional and take advantage of mine ).once my husband caught us. first i try to hide the things but finally i told everything. Now my husband decide to marry with one of his GF(she know about what i does and she is ready to marry). he loves me lot and said he never want to left me but he never forgive me.some time he is ok but some time not.is marry with another girl resolved our problem??sometime i thing time has power to forget all if in future i will definetly fare for him we both come back at our track without the involvement of other girl. i love him a lot but unfortunatly i cheat him. i never want to do it Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2011): it true that i really want his happiness and have decided he is free what he want to do
but some time question arries in my mind
before our marrige he is involved with a girl and want to marry with her and he used me he hurt me at that time but i was serious for him and try my all best for their marry but unfortunatly that girl denny and finally he marry with me .
i have write about the GF they are not only friends he treat them as GF promise to marry and all.
if he does the same what i does?? what will i do.
i really accept that he is now with me and forget all pasts
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (17 January 2011):
 This is his call and he has made up his mind and you should respect that. You say your boyfriend has many girlfriends and I'm assuming you mean female friends, and thats all they are to him just friends. Sadly you crossed that line and cheated on him and to many that is a deal breaker. Let him go wish him happiness and learn from your mistakes.
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reader, Princess Aunty  +, writes (17 January 2011):
I think that yeah you have hurt your husband enough so let him go now.
he want to settle down with a faithful woman let him be.
If you really love him, you would never do things that would hurt him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011): If you really love him then you'll let him go. You'll leave him alone to marry this other girl and build a happy life for himself. You messed up, you cheated, it's not right but it happens and you should get past that but he never can. He can't trust you anymore because you let a guy take advantage of you, which means it might happen again because as you said you're too emotional and not able to say no to guys who pursue you.
Let him move on and you should move on too. You've lost him and the best thing you can do for him is to let him be happy with a person he can trust.
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