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writes:So, I want to know if a girl likes me.We get on, and can talk about relationships.she does not seem uncomfortable in me mentioning sex, and has on one occasion watched porn with me and my male friends.Also, she does not seem to be uncomfortable around me while she is not fully dressed. Oh and she is my sister.My older sister is not like this around me.I need advice (especially on females talking from the opposite view point), on if she does.And if she does, how might I put her off?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007): It sounds like your sister is like many other teenagers in that she likes to talk about sex, probably because the topic of sex gets her excited. Also, she is probably curious about sex, which is why she watches porn and likes to talk about sex with you. If she makes a move on you, that would be normal if she has not had sex yet. She is probably talking to you about it because she trusts you and knows she can talk to you about that subject. If she makes a move on you, it will probably also be because she trusts you and feels close to you because you are so familiar to her. If she makes a move on you, it will probably only be for practice, so I would give her what she wants because sooner or later she will move on to other guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2007): How do you feel when your sister isn't fully dressed in front of you, and how do you feel when she starts talking about sex with you? What does she say when she mentions sex? Also, you sound like you are afraid that your sister likes you. What bothers you about that?
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reader, ladybug  +, writes (17 June 2007):
 So, that freaks you out? well, yeah it's unusual for a girl to do that, but you must consider that people has their own way of thinking, if that's youre sisters action towards you then deal with it! sometimes boys misinterprets feminine actions, mabe she just want to spend some time with you and enjoy the gift of brotherly love, so dont give malice, just know youre limits.
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reader, Enzian  +, writes (17 June 2007):
 People are different and so are your sisters! I agree with Eve that there is nothing to worry about.
I've got two brothers. When we used to be young children, my mother used to both us all three at the same time. There was never a secret about what a girl or a boy looks like. It was just normal to see each other naked. We also used to walk into the bath or the loo when we needed it also if already someone was in there. Of course this started to change when became teens. Now one of my brothers wouldn't even let me see him in his pants. But the younger one doesn't mind about this. Also it happens that he bursts into my bedroom when I'm changing cloths (he doesn't do this wilfully, he just is a live wire) - but BECAUSE HE IS MY BROTHER, I don't mind. We also sometimes talk about sex (we would never see a porn together - but I wouldn't do that anyway). This is just a normal "brother-and-sister-grew-up-in-the-same-family" and we like each other, nothing else. We have respect of each other and never ever touched each other and would never do this. But I think this is the point. And I think your sister just feels like your sister and knows she can trust you. You are of the same blood as her and because of this you are not special as a potential boyfriend. But you are a man she can trust and she can learn from you how men think and behave and what is the different to womens.
But if you feel uncomfortable with this, I would suggest you to just talk about her about this issue.
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reader, vickiii07 +, writes (17 June 2007):
 I think you need to talk things through with your sister.
I am close to my brother but i would never ever watch porn with him.
Maybe she has the hots for your friends?
because thats what i do when my brother has friends round
try to hang around with you as much as possible !!!!
Dont worry i'm sure she just feels close to you
but in a platonic sense
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reader, PoSiOnKiSS +, writes (17 June 2007):
 i dunno what to say to this either but i do agree with anonymous girl, i dont think shes got the hot for you and it is especially creepy with the porno film bit. I think you`d know if your sister had the hot for you, for example if she was so comfortable in watching a porn film with you and your friend dont you think she wouldnt hesitate in taking things furthur. i would never on this earth watch a porno film with my brother, never! try having a word with your mother or father about her behaviour. hope this helps x
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (17 June 2007):
Im not sure what to think here. Its not something you can ask a sister is it. But she may just be treating the house as her own when she is walking around not fully dressed. Perhaps all this stuff about porn and not minding you talking about may be her trying to show she is a grown up. You never know, she may be uncomfortable but it doesnt show.
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (17 June 2007):
 i agree w/ eve
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2007): I have a brother that I am really close too but I would NEVER watch a porno movie with him and his friends! Nor would I walk around naked or even in my underwear in front of him. My point is it is kinda creepy...at least I would be creeped out if I were you...something isn't right. I dont know how old you guys are but have you ever heard of people saying that they are man trapped in a womans body or vica versa? I find it hard to believe that she has the "hots" for you....I would lean more towards maybe she really feels like a man inside....try talking to her at least and tell her that you don't feel comfortable watching porno in front of her or whatever.....me and my brother don't talk abotu sex..it would be kinda ackward...
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reader, AskEve +, writes (17 June 2007):
 She's just your sister and isn't doing anything out of the ordinary here. I wouldn't worry about it too much. I don't think she fancies you, she just feels very comfortable with you and treats you more like a mate than anything else. You're reading too much into it. Chill out and stop worrying about it!
Eve
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