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Why does she do this particular thing every time we make love?

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Question - (15 June 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 June 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i have a girlfriend who likes to put her finger up my ass whenever she sucks me off. I don't say anything to her because i love her and don't want to split up with her over a little thing like this. But im not sure why she does it or if it means anything. Also it is a bit uncomfortable when she does it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2007):

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Thanks for the response. Last night again she sucked me off but inserted 2 fingers in my ass. I didnt say anything until this morning. She said that it was something she read on a page on the internet, that men like it as is increases their sex drive or something like that. Weve now spoken and decided that we will try it with and without the fingers to see which is better. Because in dont feel it is a major problem in our sex life.

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A female reader, PoSiOnKiSS United Kingdom +, writes (16 June 2007):

PoSiOnKiSS agony auntdeejuliet has this one covered. Take her advice x

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A female reader, deejuliet United States +, writes (16 June 2007):

deejuliet agony auntShe may have been with a man who liked that and so she continues to do it because she figures if he liked it you will too. If you have never said anything to her she may be assuming that you enjoy it. I doubt that it is anything she has a fetish about. I think you just need to gently tell her that you prefer her to rub your balls, or tickle your thighs or grasp your penis, or whatever you would prefer her to do with that hand. I am sure that if you can tell her what it is you DO like she will be happy to comply as she is just trying to please you.

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