How do I get the pill?
Q. Do you have to go to the doctors and get 'the pill' prescribed to you? or can you just walk into a drugstore and buy a pack?...
A. 28 April 2008: In Australia it is only available by prescription. Don't forget std's use a condom aswell.... (read in full...)
What do I do about husbands sexy texts to a work collegue?
Q. I have been happily married for 16 years with no cheating thet i know of. My husbadns phone beeped the other day and i lokked at it ( i know bad move!). Was message from a friend of ours all good. I looked in his out box and saw a message sent to ...
A. 28 April 2008: Sorry, I don't think that is something you would say as a joke. Unfortunately he must come completely clean with you if you are to forgive him and move on, otherwise you might think you are getting through it and you find another little surprise ... (read in full...)
A one night stand - should I give him a call?
Q. I recently had a one night stand with a man I met at a bar. We were both very drunk. To be quite honest he didn't even know my name until we were finished and I told him what it was. We didn't exchange numbers. Just as I left he said 'call me ...
A. 15 April 2008: He didn't ask you for your number, or if he could call you? Let it go.... (read in full...)
Any ideas what he could mean by these texts?
Q. I'm a bit confused... a friend of a friend was texting me the other night asking me to go he pub. I couldn't because i was in work early the next morning. I told him and he was trying for ages to persuade me to go.. although i never..so he continued ...
A. 15 April 2008: He is obviously interested in you. Why are you so harsh on yourself? What is attractive in people is not just physical appearance, its the whole package, inside and out. And from what you have said, it seems that he wants to get to know you, not ... (read in full...)
He wants to be with me 6 days a week and 1 day with another woman!!
Q. I already know the answer here ....just would like some positive words to help get through this... I have been with my boyfriend(X now) for 6 1/2 years...been through the ups and downs, i'm his best friend, I gave him my all - sexually, taken ...
A. 15 April 2008: Wow, you gotta give him credit for being up front. At least you found out he was an asshole before you married him, not like most of us who get married have kids and then find out they have mistresses. Kick him to the sidewalk darling. As for ... (read in full...)
Separated for 5 years but she wants us to be 'friends with benefits'.
Q. My wife and I have been separated for 5 years, but about a year ago we started sleeping together again. Here is my problem she doesn't want a relationship, she calls it friends with benefits. Do I call it off or what?...
A. 15 April 2008: Hi kevint2469, It all depends how you feel about her. How strong are your feelings for her? Everyone shares a bond with thier ex's but if you are still emotionally attached to her, don't let her use you for sex. Look after yourself emotionally ... (read in full...)
I am curious as to why hetrosexual males want anal sex?
Q. I am curious as to why hetrosexual males want anal sex? I personally have always considered it to be a homosexual activity and wonder why straight guys would wish to engage in this when they have other options?...
A. 8 October 2007: I'm glad you asked the question, I always wondered that myself!... (read in full...)
Not sure what it is!
Q. I Have Like A Little Bump Right Next To My Vagina But Im Not Sure What It Is! It Really Hurts When I Touch It And Sometimes Goes Red! And By The Way In Only 13! Please Help me...
A. 8 October 2007: If it has only just appeared it maybe nothing more than an ingrown hair or sweat pimple. If it has been there a while I suggest you go to your doc, you may think its embarrassing but if there is a problem then the sooner you get it looked at the ... (read in full...)
She slept with 3-4 guys while we where dating, during the past 16 years she has came clean with many things. I feel I don't trust her and bug her constantly about the past.
Q. My wife and I have been together for 24 years. We started dating when I was 14 and she was 18 (I lied about my age for four months). We dated for almost a year before she became interested in another guy. I waited around while she dated this guy for ...
A. 16 September 2007: Wow, what were you guys thinking. You set the standard pretty early on. Would she be interested in getting some marriage councelling just for your trust issues?
To me it sounds like she does want to be with you and love you but somewhere earl... (read in full...)
Do doctors prescribe medication to help you cope with a break up?
Q. Has anyone ever been given medication by their doctor to help cope with a break up? Im really really struggling to forget about my ex - it hurts like hell and im torturing myself by thinking about him and crying about him all day and all night to ...
A. 12 September 2007: Most people on this site can relate to you. Thats probably how they found agony aunt in the first place. Try seeing a councillor, even if its only once. I reckon I must have cried for 8 weeks solid until I went to see this councillor and she was ... (read in full...)
My husband cheated on me so we split. The guy I'm with now is making me suspicious. Any advice.
Q. I split up with my husband 2 years ago as he had an affair.i am now with my boyfriend almost two years. i still abit insecure to how my husband treated me but love my boyfriend so much.The only thing is i dont know if i trust him and feel he lies to ...
A. 9 September 2007: He sounds guilty to me. You know yourself the answer to the question. My first husband was very unfaithful to me but it didn't stop me from trusting my second husband, I loved him to bits and he knew what I had been through with 1st hubby so I ... (read in full...)
My cross dressing partner and I made love and it blew me away! In fact it was the single most exciting sexual experience I've ever had in my life!!!
Q. hi, Could I get some advice about my current relationship with my cross dressing partner? I've just come to terms with his female side alicia, at 6ft 5inch tall and 6ft8ish with his heels fantastic legs and a figure even us women should be jealous ...
A. 9 September 2007: Sounds like it would be fun. I couldn't imagine my hubby in a dress, not with his beer belly huh. But most people get up to all sorts of things in the bedroom, so I would say enjoy! I hope you are getting help with your past experiences. Does he ... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend fancy his brothers girlfriend!?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for about 2 years but for some reason i get the strangest feeling that he fancys his brothers girlfriend. Hes always paying her compliments, sticks up for her and when im at work he always goes around to see her when im ...
A. 8 September 2007: Trust your intuition. His behaviour doesn't sound right. Front him about it.... (read in full...)
I think he cheated... What do you think?
Q. I think my partner is cheating on me, please advise We have been together for 14 years, and have lived together for nearly 7. I have a son by a previous relatonship who has left home. We live with our two other children who are 6 and 3. For so...
A. 8 September 2007: I'm sorry to say, but if you have a gut feeling about something your usually pretty well right. Just the fact that he is lying about the phone number would be enough to convince me. Why would he lie if he wasn't trying to hide something. If you ... (read in full...)
We dont have sex, he's got a small manhood, but everything else is perfect. Should i have an affair?
Q. Hi, I'm in the same boat. Well, I haven't met anyone else but I married my husband in April of this year. We've had sex once in 12 months. We have a brilliant friendship, we have fun together, can talk about everything and he loves me like no one ...
A. 27 August 2007: The pain of finding out your partner is cheating on you is indescribable. You say your husband is a great friend and loves you to bits so why would you do it to him. You need to sit down and discuss things with him. If that is no help you need to ... (read in full...)
At what age are g-string panties appropriate for girls?
Q. I was shopping with my mom today. We were in the kids section. They had a display of "girls and junior g-string panties 20% off." My mom and I were both shocked. At what age are g-string panties appropriate for girls? Would you let your daught...
A. 26 August 2007: You wear g strings (appart from when you are in ligerie for your partner) so that you don't have a panty line in your jeans or skirts, so at what age do you think girls should be worried about looking that little bit sexy. Surely not until around ... (read in full...)
Would my eye turning in put girls off me? Please be very honest.
Q. Hey everyone, this may be a silly question but I want an honest answer. I have an eye condition called esotropia which is where my eye turns in so basicly my eye is cross eyed. My mates tell me I shouldn't worry about it and that I'm a good loo...
A. 26 August 2007: My ex had an eye like yours, I thought it was cute and unique and I thought he was gorgeous. I don't hink it will make any difference.... (read in full...)
He drinks and gets mad, said he has cheated on me...what should I do?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 20months and love him alot but im not sure i should be with him anyore he drinks every night and we always end up falling out because he has got pissed he always finishes the relationship but then says sorry the ...
A. 25 August 2007: He sounds just like my partner, who I am trying to leave again as we speak. These men are bad news, very controlling and take over your life. The longer you stay with him the harder it is to break free. Sometimes you wonder why women stay with ... (read in full...)
Is he just confused with seeing us again or does he still love me?
Q. My ex fiance is now back in touch with me and our two daughters after years of abscence. He started off with good intentions, but now only seems to call me. (not the girls). He always promises the girls things, and time to spend with them, but ...
A. 24 August 2007: Hi there, Sounds to me like he still has strong feelings for you. My ex was like that, used the kids as an excuse, he wanted the whole package, me and the kids, wasn't to fussed about having them on thier own, always letting them down etc. ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell my family that I'm bisexual
Q. i'll get straight to it, i'm bisexual and i dunno if i should tell my familly, my brother is a lil bit homophobic n i dunno how they'll react... please anyone i need advise on what to do and light on the situation thank you ...
A. 24 August 2007: Hi there, I don't think you find complete happiness until you are true to yourself. I think if your family love you, they will stand by you no matter what. One of my brothers is gay and he was in the same situation, was worried what we would all ... (read in full...)
I like another guy, but my wedding is weeks away! Could this just be jitters?
Q. Met someone 2 wks before my weddinng and can't stop thinking of him. I have been having doubts about the wedding for 6 months but kept pushing them off as everyone has been working hard for this wedding. Been with my fiance for 4yrs and never once ...
A. 24 August 2007: I think you have two seperate issues here. I think most peolpe get a bit jittery before they get married. You are committing yourself to someone for life (hopefully). It is quite understandable and normal the way you are feeling. But remember ... (read in full...)
I have fallen for someone else, do I dump my boyfriend of 5 years?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, he treats me pretty bad, he relies on me for everything! I told him that I had had enough and wanted him to go! So he did but then came back and kept telling me he would change but the thing is I have ...
A. 15 August 2007: There are two seperate issues here so don't make them one. Firstly deal with the relationship your in (which doesn't sound to wonderful). Just because you are with someone doesn't mean you will never be attracted to anyone else ever again. These ... (read in full...)
Should I give my boyfriend oral and if I do, what are the health risks?
Q. Should I give my boyfriend oral and if I do, what are the health risks? The other week my boyfriend gave me oral and I think that it's only fair that I give him oral back but I don't know how to get into the mood and I want to know if there ar...
A. 15 August 2007: Get some strawberry condoms, there a bit of fun and you don't have to worry so much about infections. Don't do it until you are comfortable about it though, most men love oral sex but you shouldn't feel obligated to do it because he does it for ... (read in full...)
My wife and I don't get along - would it be wrong to have sex with my ex?
Q. My wife cheated on me several times. We started to divorce but then we decided to give it another try. I must admit I hold onto a lot of resentment for all the lies and deciet along with her excuse that it was my fault she cheated. Things were good ...
A. 15 August 2007: Trust me, if you do, you will start to accept the way your wife is treating you because in a way you as bad as her for cheating. You do not want to be yet another married person committing adultry. Your marriage doesn't sound like much fun to me. ... (read in full...)
We ahve to children and i have just found out he cheated on me in my last pregnancy.
Q. Ive been with my fiance for 6yrs and we have two kids 2getha. During my last pregnancy there were rumours going around that he'd cheated on me with a girl from our local,he admitted to cheating but it not been her. He has just confessed to me that ...
A. 26 July 2007: I don't have any advise for you, how could I, I am going through the same thing! My husband was sleeping around when I was pregnant with our second baby (now 10 weeks). I was shattered. Couldn't sleep, couldn't eat. As if you don't feel ... (read in full...)
He left his pregnant GF for me, but now that she has had the baby I am jealous that he is seeing her so much
Q. il start from the beginning. started a new job, was given my tour and i spotted this lad there, he was gorgeous, i knew from wen i first seen him that he thought the same. he used 2 stay after work for a drink, so i stayed a couple nights a week s...
A. 22 July 2007: Because of your age I won't be so harsh except to say that in time, maybe when your happy and pregnant, you may realise what you have done to this poor lady. And don't expect him to treat you any different than the way he has treated the moth... (read in full...)
Why am i being made to think it's all my fault?
Q. I was recently in a relationship,this person was in a bad way when i met them and without going into detail i helped them to turn their life around and beat many demons. I was the only family and friend they had and stood by them when no one else...
A. 21 July 2007: You sound like a wonderful person, and the sad part is you'd probably do it all again, even though your probably sitting there saying "no I won't!'. I have been in a very similar situation and you just have to move on, as simple as that. Karma ... (read in full...)
My wife stay's out sometimes not coming home at all.
Q. I'm married and I need advice. Recently my wife has been coming home late or not coming at all what so ever, so I confronted her and she said she's going to do whatever she wants. I thought we'd resolved this matter but she did it to me again. WHAT ...
A. 21 July 2007: Been there done that! Give her an ultimatum, you don't deserve to be treated like that. She either gives you an explanation for her actions and starts to work on your marriage or you move on. One partner cannot call the shots all the time and... (read in full...)
His kids are rude to me and he say's nothing.
Q. My boyfriend of six months has two children, both boys aged 12 and 10. The younger one is rude and obnoxious, often saying rude things to me. My boyfriend doesn't like it when I say something to the child about his rude behavior, and yet he doesn...
A. 21 July 2007: Do the children live with him, or does he just have them every other weekend? You have to think long term and if you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with this guy you have to remember that one day the kids will be off your hand... (read in full...)
Do you think, he might think i've gone off him?
Q. I am a guy who met another guy(we are both gay and out) about 6 months ago, by chance i have been 'bumping' into him more of late and each time there are butterflies and fireworks between us to a point we can not really speak properly beyond basic ...
A. 21 July 2007: I think there are no such things as coincedences! Things happen for a reason and the fact that you keep running into each other must mean something. It sounds like things are going to happen naturally between you two, and you should be enjoying... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says that where oral sex is concerned, I need practice; any tips?
Q. I asked my boyfriend if I gave good blow jobs and he said I needed practice!So I was wondeing if any one could give me advice on how to get better at it.Thanks...
A. 21 July 2007: A guy once told me there are no such things as bad blow jobs, so I agree with the other posts, he just wants you to practice on him. Tell him his oral sex isn't up to stratch either and he needs to practice on you at the same time. I can't believe ... (read in full...)
He's 50 and he's reknowned for cheating. Will it be different now?
Q. Is it possible for someone who has cheated on nearly every girlfriend he has had to change and not cheat anymore? He is in his 50's now...
A. 8 July 2007: I a man around 50, also had very bad track record, but promised the day he stood before god and promised to be faithful that he would do exactly that (this is his first marriage). Guess what, just found out that he never changed!... (read in full...)
Just found out he has been cheating
Q. Just found out he has been cheating I feel so sick because only 4 hours ago I found out that the man I have been in love with and deeply committed to, open and honest with for 7 years is now seeing someone else. I also found out he lied to me about...
A. 8 July 2007: I sympathise with you. It is a very traumatic time when you find out the one you love is unfaithful. Look after yourself. When I found out about my hb I never ate or drank for days I just felt so sick inside. Please look after yourself first and ... (read in full...)
He asked where he would cum and asked if I could lick it off.
Q. Me and my boyfriend were discussing oral sex and then I told him I wasn't really ready for oral but I would give him a hand job, so he asked where he would cum and asked if I could lick it off. Would it taste bitter like everyone says because it's ...
A. 7 July 2007: What about STD's, unprotected sex isn't a subject to be overlooked. As for the taste, personally I do it with the lights off becuase I gag. Happy tasting.... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and it's sent my sex drive through the roof! Problem is that my partner seems to be satisfied with porn instead. Help!
Q. Help - He Doesn't Want to Have Sex with me but Watches Porn at every opportunity!! I live with my partner and we have been together about 6 years. For at least 2 years possibly 3 we have seldom had sex. However, by some miracle I am now pregnan...
A. 7 July 2007: I hate to tell you this, but I had the same problem when I was pregnant, and miracle I got pregnant in the first place. But have since found out that my hb has been sleeping with prostitutes. I'm sorry I haven't helped but watch your back.... (read in full...)
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