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writes:Ive been with my boyfriend for about 2 years but for some reason i get the strangest feeling that he fancys his brothers girlfriend. Hes always paying her compliments, sticks up for her and when im at work he always goes around to see her when im not there or his brother. Then afterwards when i come home he always seems quite. She is 20 and he is only 17 nearly 18. Do you think im reading more into it?
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reader, blanz  +, writes (2 July 2008):
No you are not because I am having the same problem. My boyfriend has a habit of staring at his brother's girlfriend when she eats, walks into a room and laughs. He is always joking around with her and not include me in their personal joke and then when we all hang out my boyfriend must stand next to her and I am always in the background. What makes it worse for me is that my boyfriend actually admitted that he is drawn to her personality.
Girl, confront and talk to your boyfriend before it gets worst. Trust me.
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reader, Nevalearn  +, writes (8 September 2007):
Trust your intuition. His behaviour doesn't sound right. Front him about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): I don't think that you are being paranoid and I would trust your intial gut feeling. ALWAYS. That being said, I can't really say for sure if he is "in to" her. Just because it seems strange that he would do anything with his brother's girlfriend (even in his mind). I mean it is his brother. His "interest" would only go so far. And believe me, if he was interested in her, don't you think his own brother would see it too? And I too have been "close" with my sister's bf's. But it was never because they were interested in me. I guarantee you. And I have been friends with my sister's bf's before. It definitely does sound like he is very fond of her. But that being said, it doesn't necessarily mean he LIKES her. I guess it is hard to explain. But you never know right? I guess your best bet is to politely let him know how you feel and that you do not understand his relationship with her. Maybe then he can reassure you how he feels. Good luck.
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reader, stawberry01 +, writes (7 September 2007):
 hi
I dont think your reading to much into it him keeps going on about and spends more time with her than you then there must be something up try to talk to him hun.
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): From what you've said, it doesn't sound like you're reading too much into it. It sounds like he is into this girl. He should not go see her when his brother is not there & you're at work. What does his brother think about this? What does she think about this? How does she react to his compliments & visits? If he is trying to get with his brother's girlfriend, there is something wrong with his morals.
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