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... Send *ichaelS2 a private message | | | *ichaelS2's profile:I am a 17(Almost 18) year old male from The US.
I've had a lot of emotional issues growing up such as my fathers absence in my life.However the most tragic thing I've ever dealt with is the death of my Uncle when I was around 12-13.My uncle was the person I looked to as a father and I can honestly say I loved him more than I will ever love my father.
I am not the normal male teen!I'm not fond of multiple hookups nor am I fond of sex for the sake of sex.I am a virgin and I just can't see myself having sex with a girl that I don't know well.
I have been told I have a good personality and I'd be a great catch!However I tend to doubt that as It seems that no girls have an interest in me...
I am around 5'8 and my eye color changes!The shade of blue/green tends to match my clothing.
I feel I'm good at giving advice and have been told so!I listen to the problems and will give my personal input as well as society's norm!
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Virgin Girl that is waiting until marriage...
Q. When I was starting to get to know a boy and the guy getting to know me But, later confused that I was a virgin and his response was that he liked me so much to have sex that he couldn't stop for me that he said that I had to lose my virginity... ...
A. 8 January 2009: I am a virgin myself and a 18 year old male!I don't know if I will wait to marriage but I am waiting until I find a girl I love!I would actually love the idea of myself in a relationship with another virgin.It would make the pressure from your ... (read in full...)
Do long distance relationships work?
Q. hi im a 14 year old boy right now me and this girl like each other but i live in new york and she lives in maine, we only knew each other online and i met her 2 weeks ago. she just broke up with her boyfriend and i really want her to be my ...
A. 8 January 2009: It depends how long of a relationship you are looking for!
If you have known the girl for awhile previously,like she moved away or something than I'd say you have a better shot a having a successful relationship.
However in your case I woul... (read in full...)
Just come out and need help
Q. Hi all this is going to sound very pathetic I recently realised I was gay after years of hiding it. I hardly have any friends and the ones I do have are straight I have told them I am gay but I don’t know were to start. I have not got the confiden...
A. 7 January 2009: Well you should probably look for a community online with other gay girls!You can ask them how they developed once they realized they were gay and you can ask for advice. Tell your friends that you need them to go to the bar with you!Say it is im... (read in full...)
I believe I have retroactive jealousy. I cannot get over her past.
Q. I am 27 and my fiance is 25. We have only been engaged for about a month (been together for 2 years) We are also getting ready to go to Pre-Marital counseling with the pastor at our church. I have no children, she has 3 children, that I love dearly. ...
A. 7 January 2009: Don't worry!You say you love the children and they love you!That is normally the hardest part. You shouldn't be jealous!She agreed to marry YOU!She is with YOU. The best way to handle this is by talking to her!Tell her your jealous and in... (read in full...)
How can you jump in bed with someone else after a break up?
Q. How can a guy , that is in a great relationship where both people absolutely love each other and have no big problems or fights and have plans for the future - just turn around in one week, break up the relationship after 2 years of dating and jump ...
A. 7 January 2009: Well he probably made an irrational decision!
He probably still loves you!He probably misses you and wants you back!But it really depends if you will take him back or not.
I mean there is a large chance he will come back to you,If you love ... (read in full...)
How do I make a move on my boyfriend when I don't have the guts to?
Q. I need some help. My bf and me have been together now for 2 weeks now.We love eachother very much. I would want to do a move but im so scared.I would love to have the guts! Do you guys have any tips to help me through this?...
A. 6 January 2009: Well if you don't have the guts your most likely NOT READY! Just take it slow! If he loves you he will wait! You can always masturbate together or pleasure eachother in other ways.... (read in full...)
He has time for smoking with his boys, but none for me!
Q. lately i've been feeling a little lonely. my boyfriend always says he's busy and barely asks me to hang out. i try to wait till he asks so it seems like i don't care. but i do.. and whenever i ask him to hang out he's always doing something. but he ...
A. 6 January 2009: DUMP HIM!If he rather smoke than be with you he is not the person to be with!You should be his drug!You can and will find someone better,He doesn't deserve you if he rather get high than spend time with you!... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with a friend I met on the internet
Q. I met a friend on the internet a few months ago, and since then we've been chatting a lot and having video conversations. Sometimes he calls me dear and tells me he thinks I'm amazing, and I've never met anyone like him. But he lives in another ...
A. 6 January 2009: I think if he's taking the time to talk to a girl from a different country you must be pretty special!
You will need to talk to him to be certain!The only way you will be able to find out is if you talk to him!Tell him your developing romantic... (read in full...)
All my friends have done it but me and now I've met a guy who wants to take my virginity, should I do it or not?
Q. Hey i knw am under age n all... buh am just having second thoughts... all my friends have done it. there's this guy at skwel a little bit older than me and we only started talking on msn..( as friends) then he mentions tht he wants so bad.. 4...
A. 5 January 2009: Don't do it!He's just using you!You have nothing to be ashamed of!I am 18 and a virgin!
Never let someone pressure you into sex!Sex shouldn't be something taken lightly and just had.You have to be ready and want it. Don't waste something special ... (read in full...)
He has trouble staying hard and letting himself cum.
Q. Dear Cupid.. I was searching ANYWHERE for an answer to my question, and I stumbled along this site.. I read someone else's question: "My boyfriend does not ejaculate during any sexual acts, is it because of his prior masturbating?" and the person...
A. 5 January 2009: You should sit down with your boyfriend! Tell him that you will still be with him even if he isn't perfect at the moment! Assure him that who ever you may have been with in the past doesn't matter to you and that you won't compare him. He may be... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to finger me?
Q. How do I get my boyfriend to finger me? I have tried to bring his hand down there to touch me, but he just stops. What should I do or say to get him to finger me?...
A. 5 January 2009: If leading his hand down their doesn't work than you should talk to him! Your boyfriend may have never fingered a girl before and doesn't want to disappoint you! Simply ask him why he doesn't finger you.Tell him he doesn't have to be amazing! A... (read in full...)
Lost My Virginty at 14, Help!!
Q. I just moved to a new city same state. At my old school I was just getting involed with boys. I was in 7th grade then. And now I am in 8th and I moved here over the summer.So Im in 8th grade now suopose to be in 9th. But lately I have been making ...
A. 5 January 2009: Well this is why your parents and sex ed teachers advise you to wait.The boys at your school aren't mature and would spread stories such as yours. You got pressured into sex,and it was for the wrong reasons.You had sex so someone would accept you... (read in full...)
He has trouble staying hard and letting himself cum.
Q. Dear Cupid.. I was searching ANYWHERE for an answer to my question, and I stumbled along this site.. I read someone else's question: "My boyfriend does not ejaculate during any sexual acts, is it because of his prior masturbating?" and the person...
A. 5 January 2009: He may just be nervous and embarrassed to cum in front of you! You should talk to him about it and let him no that you want to help and that you want to be with him! Don't take the blame upon your own shoulders! It is neither of your faults. I ... (read in full...)
Acne problem!
Q. My best mate has really bad acne and it is ruining her love life, she fancies this boy but she's not confident to enough to talk to him or anything and she sits and cries she is so unhappy. Is there anything that can help get rid of them....
A. 5 January 2009: The best bet would be for her to see her doctor or dermatologist.They could both suggest medication best for her.Acne won't go away immediately so if she began to just become friends with him and than by the time the acne disappears they will be ... (read in full...)
People's sex education knowledge is horrifying! Why don't people know the basics???
Q. This isn't really a question, it's just something that has shocked me and I would like to hear other people's views. Basically I can't get over the amount of people who don't know about the basics of sex. For instance people who think they can get ...
A. 5 January 2009: Yes I am amazed at some of the things that people post on the walls as well.However it is best that they ask instead of go uninformed.
Even if it is a stupid question it is better to inform them instead of them have no idea.
Sex-ED and Pa... (read in full...)
My girlfriend likes it rough, but I don't. How do I get her to tone it down?
Q. I've been seeing my girlfriend for close to 3 months now. We enjoy being with each other and have now started to be intimate with each other. However, lately I feel she's being a little too sexually agressive for my taste. The kissing, hugging...
A. 5 January 2009: The best solution is to sit down and talk with her.Explain to her your worries and your issues with how she's behaving.
Ask her to tone it down to like it was before.You can also tell her you feel uncomfortable with Public Display Of Affectio... (read in full...)
Dating, Relationships and overprotective parents!
Q. heyy, Im 15, an only child and my mum is over protective. I have a 14yr old boyfriend who is trustful, treats me well and knows enough about sex. My boyfriend wants sex with me,, i think im ready too, my mum wont let me have sex, she thin...
A. 5 January 2009: Your mother is just trying to look out for you!
There are a lot of people out there who haven't had sex and are over 16.I'm an 18 year old male virgin.I'm looking for the right girl.
Your mom probably thinks your boyfriend is trying to pressu... (read in full...)
No orgasm during sex
Q. I'm very interested in hearing from both females who actually have or have had this issue, or males who have known a female in my situation. I'm 17, have been sexually active for about three years, and have had two partners (within relation...
A. 5 January 2009: In my Psychology class I learned that most teen women don't have an orgasm until their in college or with an older man.The teacher said that teen males have a tendency to not care about their partners pleasure as much as their own.
My advice w... (read in full...)
We tongue kissed could I be pregnant?
Q. hi im 13 turning 14 but i havnt had my perios 4 a long time...i had it like in october and now it 2009 january 4 and i havnt had sex im still a virgin..im kind of worried bcz i have aboyfriend and all i ever did wuz just kiss him..yea it wuz tounge ...
A. 5 January 2009: No you can't be pregnant!However it wouldn't hurt to see the doctor to find out what's wrong!... (read in full...)
14 pregnant don't want to tell my mum!
Q. Ok so i'm 14, and i just found out im pregnant. No body knows yet i definatly don't want to get rid of it but i know my mum she will try and make me if i tell her! And i can't tell my boy friend because i don't know how he will react i'm not sayin ...
A. 5 January 2009: You need to tell your family as well as your boyfriend!You will eventually begin to show and won't be able to hide it anymore!
Also the earlier you tell your family and boyfriend the sooner you can come to a decision on what to do when the baby... (read in full...)
14 pregnant don't want to tell my mum!
Q. Ok so i'm 14, and i just found out im pregnant. No body knows yet i definatly don't want to get rid of it but i know my mum she will try and make me if i tell her! And i can't tell my boy friend because i don't know how he will react i'm not sayin ...
A. 5 January 2009: Not to be critical or sound mean but this is one reason why girls should wait until their a little older to have sex.
You need to talk with your mom about it!You also have to talk to your boyfriend.You will begin to show and eventually won't be... (read in full...)
My 15 y/o girlfriend is pregnant by someone else - what should I do?
Q. Ok so here's my problem.... I recently started going out with this girl and we've only been out once but really like each other and have kissed etc. Shes 15 and I'm 16 (Same year at school though). Shes been away over Christmas without a ph...
A. 5 January 2009: I'd talk it out with her.If she's going to have an abortion than would you still want to be with her?
I mean if you think she's worth it,than talk it out.You can't be mad at her for doing something before you dated.But I can understand how this... (read in full...)
I want real reasons: why are girls always falling for jerks and not nice guys?
Q. Why do da girls always fall for those guys who are jerks, mean, have no sense of emotion, doesnt know how to care, doesnt respect gals,guys who are always flirting wid everyone, who only have outer looks but no feelings inside? Is there boy ...
A. 4 January 2009: Well you should specify the question because some girls might be offended!I am not a girl but I am just pointing out that not all girls fall for jerks.
I'm not entirely sure,but In High school I think girls seek acceptance as well as populari... (read in full...)
I think I might have an infection, please help!
Q. I lost my virginity on new years....... ever since I have been itching a little bit and there has been like this muddy type substance and the color is like a brownish greyish.... I wash real good and it goes away... but the next morning when I wake ...
A. 4 January 2009: Not a female body expert,but I think it may be discharge.
If you are truly concerned you should see your doctor.They can't say anything unless it threatens someone's life because of Doctor-Patient Confidential.
Good thinking to use a Condom!!... (read in full...)
I think I might have an infection, please help!
Q. I lost my virginity on new years....... ever since I have been itching a little bit and there has been like this muddy type substance and the color is like a brownish greyish.... I wash real good and it goes away... but the next morning when I wake ...
A. 4 January 2009: I am not a female body expert but I think it's Discharge.If you are really worried you should see your doctor.Doctor's are allowed to reveal information because of Doctor-Patient Confidential.... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my boyfriend for watching porn?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 4 years. We do not live together and we are both virgins. He recently confessed that has watched porn at least once a week for the last 3 years. I was really hurt when he told me. He seemed to feel bad ...
A. 4 January 2009: If you love him I think you should talk to him about it.It's normal but I can understand why your feelings have been hurt. I mean the question is kind of vague,But If you made it 4 years than you should talk to him and work it out. I mean y... (read in full...)
My friend is having an affair... should I tell her husband???
Q. Yesterday I went to visit a good friend and she told me that she is cheating on her husband of 4 years also a friend of mine) with a guy she works with who is also married with kids. She asked me to go for a drive with her and told me in the car....
A. 4 January 2009: You SHOULD tell him.She's bound to get caught sometime and it's best before a child is involved. I know of many who's relationships have been ruined because of Cheating.However the relationships in which a child wasn't involved were a lot bette... (read in full...)
Is 33 years plus old over the hill???
Q. Is 33 years plus old over the hill truthfully Because I feel its is... your youth is gone......
A. 4 January 2009: You can't freeze or rewind time so your obviously going to age with each passing day.
While you maybe older than you once were your still young.Don't worry about your age yet!
I find women your age and even older extremely attractive.Your ... (read in full...)
Trust...
Q. I was going out with a guy for a few years but then I got really drunk and ended up cheating on him which was really stupid because I love him so much.... when he found out rumours about it I lied about it for ages then I just told him. We split up ...
A. 4 January 2009: Well it seems you only do these things when your drunk so a simple solution would be to stop drinking.
I would advise you just to be more aware of how much you drink.You don't need to get hammered to have a good buzz.
I'd just assure him your ... (read in full...)
Unprotected sex for only 1 second
Q. hi, im 14 and im terrified, i think my girlfriend might be pregnant. shes 2 days over due for her period supposobly.. we had sex, but used a condom, then once only for a second literally without one. please if anyone can give me relief about this i ...
A. 4 January 2009: I'm a male so I'm not familiar with how the female body works but I've heard it can be from sex.
Your 14 you should have thought about it before you engaged in the action.
Sex isn't something that should be had for the sake of it.
I'm not t... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do, shall I tell him? Does he like me? How could I put it?
Q. Theres this guy who I really like, and we act like we're a couple when we do see each other, but he lives 3 hours away. I recently stayed for a few days, and fell in love with him even more. He initiated everything, and why would he be the one ...
A. 4 January 2009: You being nervous is completely normal!It's what guys go through all the time when they ask a woman out.
I'm sure he has feelings for you if he initiated everything!He may even already think your a couple!It would be best if you sat down and talk... (read in full...)
Tiny bumps inside of my vagina - normal?
Q. Hi well I'm worried something might b wrong I am a VIRGIN but I noticed that I have tiny bumps inside my vagina if u have any ideas what this could b or if its normal your advice would certainly b appreciated...
A. 4 January 2009: I think it would be best if you went and saw a doctor!It would put away your worries.... (read in full...)
He wants to take me to his house. What does he mean by that?
Q. I met a good friend of mine (who's a guy that I really, really like) for lunch the other day. We talked and laughed and gazed in each other's eyes for the first time which felt really strange. Afterwards when he was taking me home he mentioned that ...
A. 4 January 2009: I think the eye contact is key with his intentions. Maybe he wants to have you over for dinner?It's a likely possibility.
If he's a friend you have nothing to worry about and you should just go over and enjoy the time you spend together... (read in full...)
Do you think I should look for someone or wait for someone to find me?
Q. This guy named Stephen broke my heart months ago.. and its taken me forever to finally just let go and tell him goodbye.. he was awful to me. he cheated on lied to me abused me and made up awful rumors.. about me. and i still cant seem to forget ...
A. 4 January 2009: The best solution is probably to carry through the day and enjoy life!
Have fun and be relaxed and chances are you will be noticed!Also if your outgoing chances are you will meet someone.
He doesn't deserve you if he cheated,lied,abu... (read in full...)
He isn't excited to see me anymore! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a few months. We are currently living 280 miles apart and he isn't as excited to see me when I come to visit (I only get to visit once a month) it seems that our spark is starting to fade I want ...
A. 4 January 2009: The best way to overcome this issue is to TALK TO HIM.
You say you have both changed and the spark is fading?It's natural for you to hit a dry spot or drought.
Try switching things up!Buy some sex toys or kinky lingerie and surprise him.Or ... (read in full...)
He's a married friend..so why does he go 'cool' when I mention other guys?
Q. I have a friend with whom I keep in touch very often. They live far across the country and I'm friend of him not his wife. I only know him actually. But, he's happily married, he talks about family and all. The thing that bugs me is that since we...
A. 4 January 2009: Well first off understand that he is a guy and he probably isn't used to hearing stories from your angle.
You also said your friends,I wouldn't be comfortable hearing about a good friends sex-life especially if they were a member of the opposite... (read in full...)
How can I save my marriage and my reputation from this infidelity?
Q. I recently cheated on my husband. What is worse is that my brother-in-law saw me outside in a parked car with the other guy. How can I save my marriage and my reputation from this infidelity?...
A. 4 January 2009: Well first do you regret what you have done?If so do you truly love your husband?
If so than you must talk to the husband.You must explain what you did and why.After tell him that you love him and want to make things work.You have to esse... (read in full...)
Is a girl not a virgin if the tip of the penis is in her?
Q. if a boy sticks the tip of his penis inside a girls vagina does that mean she lost her virginity?...
A. 3 January 2009: Truly depends on your own belief.I personally think it's when a girl is FULLY penetrated.However some will say different.... (read in full...)
Is a girl not a virgin if the tip of the penis is in her?
Q. if a boy sticks the tip of his penis inside a girls vagina does that mean she lost her virginity?...
A. 3 January 2009: It's truly your own opinion.
I believe that a girl loses her virginity when she is FULLY penetrated.However some people will tell you differently.
In the end it's your own opinion or belief that truly matters.... (read in full...)
When is the right time to have sex?
Q. Hey.. just a random question. When is it the right time to have sex? people say its when you feel ready But is it okay to do it when you feel ready after just a day or so?? or wrong to do it when your not with someone?? i personally think people ...
A. 3 January 2009: My personal belief is that you should love someone before you have sex with them.I've heard that sex with emotion is better than simple lust.
I agree that you should be in a sturdy relationship with someone before you have sex.
I'm a virgin ... (read in full...)
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