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writes:Hey.. just a random question. When is it the right time to have sex? people say its when you feel ready But is it okay to do it when you feel ready after just a day or so?? or wrong to do it when your not with someone?? i personally think people should wait until they have a long sturdy relatioship but everyone else i've asked seem to think diffrently. Are my veiws on it wrong?? Thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (4 January 2009):
 I think that it is a personal thing. For some they court/date for a couple of week then have sex. Other wait X amount of week/months and lastly some wait til marriage.
Whatever is right for you.
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reader, chrissa  +, writes (4 January 2009):
your situation is an awkward one for you. You will definitely know when the time is right. Most commonly you might think your ready in your mind or even question your ability, but if you think youve found mr right the feeling will be totally different. I take it your a very respectable girl int he sense that you dont take part in one night stands. For the in-experience if you fancy the guy you might think about sex but not actually feel the need for it although if your really into this guy and the time feels right then every time he touches you your likely to get arroused, is this it , is this the time , your body will tingle almost like a tickleish shiver if you feel like this then my advice would be to go with the flow dont hold back. Often if your man feels the same way about you he wont be so keen to make the first move afraid that its not what you want so maybe make a pass on him see how you both feel. Whatever you do dont plan sex its most definitely not the same, just let nature take its course if its not meant to happen this time it wont so if it doesnt feel right dont make it happen, you may live to regret it. I WISH MY PARTNER WAS THE FIRST PERSON I SLEPT WITH ITS SPECIAL
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (3 January 2009):
 You are apparently of legal age to decide for yourself - and therefore your views are not at all wrong (for you). There is no right or wrong for everyone. You should probably consider that your views are not to be imposed upon others, although you can express your opinions. Others of legal age, however, have a right to do as they wish.
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reader, MichaelS2 +, writes (3 January 2009):
 My personal belief is that you should love someone before you have sex with them.I've heard that sex with emotion is better than simple lust.
I agree that you should be in a sturdy relationship with someone before you have sex.
I'm a virgin and am waiting until I find the right girl,Most likely someone I love.
Many people will tell you to have sex when your ready and their not wrong.There is no true right or wrong answer.In the end it's your decision and you have to live with it.
It truly depends on the individual and their beliefs.Don't feel ashamed if you want a sturdy relationship before sex.
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