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writes:Ok so here's my problem....I recently started going out with this girl and we've only been out once but really like each other and have kissed etc. Shes 15 and I'm 16 (Same year at school though).Shes been away over Christmas without a phone signal or the internet so I haven't been able to talk to her. She got back today and told me shes pregnant!! She told me that just before we started going out she was at a family party and they'd had too much to drink and she slept with her best friend.She said that she doesn't like him in that way and can't remember much of it and that she still wants us to go out because she loves me.She doesn't want to keep the baby and shes only done one test and I really don't know what to do??? Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated!
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reader, MichaelS2  +, writes (5 January 2009):
 I'd talk it out with her.If she's going to have an abortion than would you still want to be with her?
I mean if you think she's worth it,than talk it out.You can't be mad at her for doing something before you dated.But I can understand how this would make you nervous and confused.
If I were you I'd talk with her and see what she is going to do about the baby.If you want to date her than you need to talk to her...
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reader, vix08tyler +, writes (4 January 2009):
bringing up a baby is hard, but when its not urs you always have a certain feeling that i cant realli describe. but think about ur girlfriend, does she reali want to give up this baby, if so she has to live with the thought that so gave up live, something that you both can make the most out of, if you reali love and when i say love i mean want to be with for a very long time. then you should stand by her what ever she chooses.
hope this helps
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