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After 3 and a half years and a child together, we hardly ever have sex, help us?
Q. Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for three and a half years and we have a child together. He says he loves me but we hardly ever have sex anymore ( almost never) and he used to be very, very sexual ALL the time. At one point he told me he loves me ...
A. 2 October 2009: And sumhow that makes it better? The last part of your input just now makes it seem as though your trying to push him away instead of owning up to. I hope that's a faulty assumption on my part. U need to tell him, no matter what.... (read in full...)
After 3 and a half years and a child together, we hardly ever have sex, help us?
Q. Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for three and a half years and we have a child together. He says he loves me but we hardly ever have sex anymore ( almost never) and he used to be very, very sexual ALL the time. At one point he told me he loves me ...
A. 2 October 2009: Straight talk, your man is bogus and he's messing with you. He's not concerned with how you feel but moreso what he was getting out of the relationship. Until the child came along. Get counsiling if your serious about him.... (read in full...)
I'm big, she's tight and it really hurts her. What do I do?
Q. ok so the problem is my penis is a bit bigger than average and my girlfriend is fairly tight and we had sex for the first time a couple of weeks ago and when i tryed to put it in her she said it was stretching her which i figured was normal but ...
A. 2 October 2009: Dude, u gotta go slow with it, and I'm not just talking straight sex, u gotta build here up and make her boil first, I'm sure u know this so I won't go on with that any further. But u gotta get sum more lube in there man, u gotta spend sum time ... (read in full...)
Is it just him, or did I damage something with a vibrator?
Q. Hi Cupid! My ex was really good at oral sex and i orgasmed everytime. We've since split up and i turned to vibrators to stimulate myself which also made me orgasm every time. I've recently met a new guy and we slept together for the first time abo...
A. 2 October 2009: I've heard about this happening but I've never thought it was true, but if I was to make an assumption I would say no u haven't, like the aunt said before me, u may have made ur clit more in need of attention. Its the same with us guys when we use ... (read in full...)
I need help figuring out who the father of my baby is!
Q. My last LMP was August 15 2009 and my period is regularly at 30days interval. I had an affair Aug 20 and he cummed inside me twice. After that I got back with my hubby and we have promised to work on our problem with fast ejaculaton. So we worked on ...
A. 2 October 2009: I hope you have taken all that has been said by the other aunties into consideration very seriously, you have no doubt made a mess here, so come clean. There's nothing worse to do to a man but to tell him that a child may or may not be his. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants sex but I'm only 12!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for three months but his sister says he says he wants sex. The problem is i'm only 12! I just turned 12 this month and he's turning 13 in April we love each other so much that i don't know what to do, so i ...
A. 27 September 2009: First and foremost, your too young to be having sex, on the other hand fantasizing about it is natural and nothing is wrong with that. Give yourself some time to live your life first. Plus make sure he's worth it. Your only a virgin once, its a ... (read in full...)
Men: Would you feel justified feeling the same way I do?
Q. So I just recently found out that I could be the father of a 5 year old little girl from a 5 year old ex relationship. She dropped said bomshell on me several days ago, just bringing it up in our convo. She's on her way to my location soon so a ...
A. 8 September 2009: I hear everything everyone is saying to this, and I will say only that it seems as if I'm assed out on the subject. The wrong end of life is has an arrow pointed straight up my ass so to speak. I can't win. And to think, I used to love this girl, ... (read in full...)
Men: Would you feel justified feeling the same way I do?
Q. So I just recently found out that I could be the father of a 5 year old little girl from a 5 year old ex relationship. She dropped said bomshell on me several days ago, just bringing it up in our convo. She's on her way to my location soon so a ...
A. 8 September 2009: I hear everything everyone is saying to this, and I will say only that it seems as if I'm assed out on the subject. The wrong end of life is has an arrow pointed straight up my ass so to speak. I can't win. And to think, I used to love this girl, ... (read in full...)
Is this guy just using me?
Q. well i met this guy on the internet and we talked for while. but the problem is, hes 20 and im 15. he thinks im 16. i invited him over and my mom thinks he goes to my school and is 17. we kissed and stuff and i let him finger me, and then he wont ...
A. 6 September 2009: First off, this is where the line between what's consensual and what's not gets blurred between a minor and an adult. You are a minor, he is and adult, he can go to jail for just fingering you if rape is called, but u consented, yet ur still a minor ... (read in full...)
I'm ready to have sex with him but very intimidated by how much more experienced he is than me!
Q. Dear Agony Aunts, I'm 16 and entering my junior year in high school. My sophomore year I spent 9 months dating this guy who I really had feelings for. We broke up in April and I was really down and missed him. In June he confessed that he was stil...
A. 6 September 2009: Ahhh the old losing the virginity bit. Well, let me get straight into it then. First and foremost, stop being intimidated. The fact that he has experience can work in your favor in terms of him being seasoned enough that he can last longer than the ... (read in full...)
Exercises for tongue strength during oral?
Q. Does anyone know what i can do to help strengthen my tongue so i can give oral to my girlfriend for longer? right now i have to take breaks every few minutes and just keep going without the aid of my tongue, which i presume wouldnt help get her an ...
A. 6 September 2009: U can start this by slowly savoring whatever u eat. By savor I mean, using ur tongue to taste the food. Candy is an awesome workout for ur tongue, especially the hard jolly rancher candies, ull be wotking out the muscles in ur tongue without even ... (read in full...)
I've been lying to my online lover about EVERYTHING
Q. im 29 and married for 8years.a few years ago i started chatting with a very nice man.but lied 2 him about everythn,my race, marital status and so on.i managed to never snd hm pics.we fell in love in the virtual world.nw he wants to meet me and i cnt ...
A. 4 September 2009: Well I can relate, I have done this to once and it was really a fantasy for me to live for awhile, to kinda get away from my current life. I'm tempted to think that this is sumthing you experienced while you did it. Perhaps ur not happy with things ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my wife or not?
Q. I'm not sure how far to push this, or if I should leave my wife or not. I'm really pissed off, not only at what she did, but her attitude that it was no big deal. That just makes me think she will do something like this again. We got married, and...
A. 17 August 2009: Dude, get rid of the dead weight, she's all used up anyway and your well within your right to leave her. What she did was not cool by a long shot. She may as well have had sex with him and maybe that's all she told you she did.... (read in full...)
Was she a virgin? or did my ex b/f take it from her?
Q. I need to know if my girlfriend is a virgin. She claims she is, my friends say she is not, i don't know what to think. Before we started dating, her ex bf (my best friend) and her were in her basement drunk and naked making out. He was on top of ...
A. 17 August 2009: You have a weird selection of friends that you allow in your company. Personally I wouldn't even be friends with the loser once I found out that shyt. Sorry, but he violated her. And he did take her virginity, that's another thing, you said he told ... (read in full...)
She just told me she was forced to go down on a guy, how long do I have to wait to ask her to go down on me again?
Q. Over the course of our 13 month relationship my GF has gone down me maybe 10 times, and only once did she stick it out til I came. She swallowed, and it was glorious. When I ask her to do it, she usually obliges, but rarely initiates it her...
A. 17 August 2009: Don't ever ask her again, be sensitive to the fact that she's been abused. Don't even expect it in my opinion. You need to be considerate of the fact that she even did it for u in the first place considering she may have had resevations. You need to ... (read in full...)
Guys, would you date her and kiss her? She was forced to perform oral sex by a previous boyfriend.
Q. If you see a beautiful girl that you really like and she also attends college. But she tell you that she was force once in the past to perform oral sex by a guy she was dating. she said she end it with the guy immediately after that. These are my ...
A. 17 August 2009: First off the fact that she was forced would make me find him and lash him in the groan with a steel chain until I get tired and leave him there naked. Second, the fact of what he may say is last priority my friend. Regardless she was forced and him ... (read in full...)
I'm a 23 year old virgin with a 5.5 inch penis. I feel shy about having sex...help!
Q. i am 23 old virgin and i have 5.5 inch penis .should i feel shy from having sex ? i feel shy :(...
A. 17 August 2009: I really can't believe how many responses this one has gotten. Come on fellahs, have some pride in what you do have. Look I'm not here to brag or anything, but I have a considerably large(length and girth) dick, last time I measured it was 9, but ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend asked me how big/small his penis was compared to my exes. Does it really matter?
Q. My boyfriend asked me how big/small his penis was compared to my exes. when i said i didn't remember he said i was lying. so then i said fine, they were all smaller, then he was angry that i remembered what their penises looked like! why is he doin...
A. 17 August 2009: He's got inferiority complex. He wants to feel like he's the biggest you have ever had inwardly though he may not say it. He wants his ego stroked and he want you to do it. If you really care for him, go ahead give it a few rubs here and there, ... (read in full...)
How do you go again after cumming once with no help from the girl?
Q. My girlfriend and I just had sex for the first time, we both lost it to eachother and after the first time I cum'd which was really quick as in a couple of minutes, I tried to get hard again but she didn't want to give me a blow job or anything so I ...
A. 17 August 2009: Take your time and relax, your in whats called the refractory period, the momen right after ejaculation when it sensitive and goes flaccid. This is normal and it happens to all men. Try to refrain from masturbating ever again before u have sex with ... (read in full...)
In her 6 year relationship, she never climaxed: Is this due to an inability or her tensness?
Q. hi. im not sure if this is the right type of question for this site but im gonna write it anyway. Ive started going out with a girl that ive been close to a long time. We had sex last night and she did not orgasm. I mentioned it after because I ...
A. 17 August 2009: Good heavens, 6 years without an orgasm, dude I would lose my mind of I couldn't cum, seriously. Man, talk to your women. Encourage her to masturbate, masturbate her for her, she's wayyyy too backed up. Lick that pussy, however long it takes, do it, ... (read in full...)
She's had more sex experience than me and I'm still a virgin, could we just keep it platonic?
Q. Hi, I'm 17, and I've never really had a proper gf until now. I'm a very innocent virgin, but I've met this girl who's 17 too and I think I'm madly in love. But she has so much sexual experience; long term relationships, casual sex, same-sex se...
A. 17 August 2009: Young man, young man. Let me share something wth you that is the honest truth, if you should get to the point where u give in to her advances, know that once you get inside, your not going to last long. Accept that now. As far as pleasing her, dont ... (read in full...)
What makes a woman want to do that for her man?
Q. This has happened to me on more than one occasion, the chick I could be with, goes down on me, and I'm thinking(assuming really) that she knows what she's doing. It starts off nice, it feels good, I get into it, annnnnd. TEETH. SCRATCH. SCRAP. CHEW ...
A. 17 August 2009: Thank you ladies, and for the record, I'm single but this was a previous experience. Thank you all who respond.... (read in full...)
Is masturbation ruining my sex life?
Q. Hi all, Lately I have been in a relationship with a 41-year old woman. I have known her for a few months already and we get along wonderfully, there's a lot of chemistry and fun being together. We have great compatibility too and want more or les...
A. 17 August 2009: Go do porn my friend lol, their looking for guys like us with "longevity" in the package. And consider it a good thing, your able to please her multiple times, do you know how many guys wish they could say that? Have her give you head and handjobs ... (read in full...)
Should I lost my virginity? Should I just end it?
Q. So I started liking this guy months ago. At first he didn't know if he liked me back or not but then he started liking me and we've had a thing for 9 months on and off now. When we do have a thing, it's always me and some other girls. Well just ...
A. 17 August 2009: Baby, let me tell you, hold on to your vcard as long as you can lol. I'm sure a beautiful yong women who is getting tired of the wait and yurning to be with that one and only, I was there so I know how u might feel. With that said, make sure ur ... (read in full...)
Would these be signs of an orgasm?
Q. Sometimes when I masturbate I get this rush of blood over my face and body, My muscles go really tight, I feel like I'm going to pee, my uturus goes warm and expands and my heart pounds really fast. Would this be the signs that I am having an ...
A. 17 August 2009: Yes, its perfectly normal to feel these things while youu masturbate. You were approaching an orgasm. Here's the key: don't stop until you get way sensitive, this happens after and orgasm and you'll know when that hits you lol. Next time, don't stop ... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any tips for giving good head?
Q. tips for givin good head?...
A. 16 August 2009: Well this is all just making me horny, but I haven't yet read any response on anyone just saying to just ask the guy what he likes, everyone is listing their experience, but not all men are so easy to figure just by his penis. Ask your man what he ... (read in full...)
Should I meet only women who can handle me in bed? And if so, how should I treat her in bed?
Q. My post this time really isn't a problem, its more of a brag, but its not intended to be. See I have a very high sex drive, I haven't ran across many women can stand it, longevity is what I like and what I practice when I have sex. I believe I'm ...
A. 16 August 2009: Lol... (read in full...)
How big or not big do ladies like him to be?
Q. Yes this is a freaky question but I'm in the mood so here it goes, ladies, when it comes to the cut of a penis for you, what's your preference. Yea we got all these topics about "I'm too small" or "I'm too big", but not too much on " what she ...
A. 16 August 2009: @ troubledtoomuch lol the 11 inch was just a throw off. No guy really has a normal 11" penis, that's just surgery.... (read in full...)
How big or not big do ladies like him to be?
Q. Yes this is a freaky question but I'm in the mood so here it goes, ladies, when it comes to the cut of a penis for you, what's your preference. Yea we got all these topics about "I'm too small" or "I'm too big", but not too much on " what she ...
A. 16 August 2009: Awesome... (read in full...)
My ex wants to be next in my life
Q. Here's the deal, several years ago I was heartbroken by an ex that tore out my heart and threw it in the trash:(, so sad I know, but moving on I've moved on since then, I mean my God that was high school lol. But I think about her here and there ...
A. 16 August 2009: Thank u ladies, ur awesome.... (read in full...)
Do any men like giving oral?
Q. I have only ever been with the one man in my life and he does not enjoy performing oral sex on a woman. He claims that men just DON'T like it at all. This may be a stupid and very obvious question I should know the answer to, but because I have o...
A. 15 August 2009: First let me say that your man is not enjoying the full package until he's gone down. He's missing out on something that most men would love to be in all day, like myself for example, I love eating a woman out. Its the natural taste, the smell the ... (read in full...)
Dating someone who has been sexually abused..how do you go about it?
Q. hey, this might be on the edge of what this site is for but here it goes: There's this girl that really likes me and i really like her, i'm one of the very few people she has trusted enough to tell that she has been sexually abused by her un...
A. 15 August 2009: Well my friend tread lightly on this one. She's been hurt by a man that she trusted would never hurt her, so the fact that she told you says a lot. She's hurt and you should go about a relationship with her very very VERY carefully.... (read in full...)
After strip club experience I can't think of being with women now
Q. I got a question, whats so great about sex all my freinds talk about sex all the time that and how to get more money im so tired of hearing it they make it seem like its the best thing in the world basicaly they make it sound liek water or air. ...
A. 15 August 2009: Lol well this is an easy one, look bruh, don't put so much emphasis on being traumatized by that encounter, understand that not all women are doing those things and you shouldn't hold it against every woman just because of one who strips for a ... (read in full...)
My wife finally confessed about her affair, do you think we could ever be happy again?
Q. i am married for the last twenty two years to a beautiful woman who i taught was my soulmate for life. for the first fifteen years we had a wonderful marriage and have five beautiful children. seven years ago my wife started a new job and everything ...
A. 15 August 2009: My friend forgiving her is a must and that's the most of what you owe her. Forgive her in your heart and you have the choice to forget her too. Morally she's as wrong as dirt and you don't owe her a second chance, also her saying that she didn't ... (read in full...)
Squeezing during sex?
Q. I normally squeeze my vagina during sex,is it safe for me and does my patner feel it....
A. 15 August 2009: Oh yes, it's safe, and he feels it. I love it personally, it lets us know we're doing something right. Keep it up unless he's a quick cummer, then take it easy with the clenching... (read in full...)
My vagina gets extremely wet when I'm doing anything sexual. Anyone else have this problem?
Q. I am curious if anyone has a similar problem? My vagina gets extremely wet when I'm doing anything sexual. An ex said he's never seen anyone get that wet before and he used to have to pull out occasionally during intercourse to dry me off with a ...
A. 15 August 2009: Personally, I love a woman who gets drippy for me, I tend to get that response when I go down on one anyway, but yes, your exes are stupid, and maybe they're not big enough either, a wide shaft adds to pleasure, despite the wetness. Don't worry ... (read in full...)
Why do men during sex sometimes cum fast and sometimes hold off longer?
Q. Why do men during sex sometimes cum fast and sometimes hold off longer?...
A. 15 August 2009: It goes like this. The pc muscles in the guys dik r weak. The pc muscle is located between the anus and the strotum and it need to be strengthened to increase stamina. Have ur man practice kegal excercises(google it) and have him get in the gym, ... (read in full...)
He says he's too big
Q. me and my boyfriend tried having sex for the first time except it didnt work. hes trying to tell me his dick is to big for my hole. i dont believe him. should i? im also afraid after haveing sex for the first time our relationship wil...
A. 15 August 2009: U can fit a baby through ur vagina. So not he's not "too" big. Lots of lube should do the trick.... (read in full...)
She lied to me and cheated! Should I stay or should I go?
Q. I’m a 34 year old blk male I’ve been with my girlfriend for about nine years I ask her to marry me about five years ago she said yes but she started cheating on me. for about a year and a half till I found out she said she would stop but she kept ...
A. 15 August 2009: Yea, it sounds like u r wasting ur time there guy. Look a relationship is a 50/50 thing, ur putting in and not getting anything out, she knows what she's doing, she's not oblivious to the fact that she's cheating. Its on purpose guy and she going to ... (read in full...)
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