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How big or not big do ladies like him to be?

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Question - (16 August 2009) 19 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, *eganutts writes:

Yes this is a freaky question but I'm in the mood so here it goes, ladies, when it comes to the cut of a penis for you, what's your preference. Yea we got all these topics about "I'm too small" or "I'm too big", but not too much on " what she likes". So I'm asking, short and sweet, how big or not so big do you(women) like for ur ideal man to have. Be honest. Oh and say u were given the choices of A. 6" B. 8" or C. 11". Why and why not.

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A female reader, dr.2.be United States +, writes (17 August 2009):

dr.2.be agony auntIm not too picky on sizes. I am rather petite and I find that a larger penis can be uncomfortable in some positions. I am currently dating someone who is 9 inches and we can't do doggie or have hard sex since it hurts me too much. I like the average size. Not too big and not too small, just right. :-)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009):

Size does matter to a certain extent. I think anything less then 5, a lot of women won't like, but most women couldn't handle anything over 7. I myself am 6 (slightly over on a good day), and I'm fairly happy with that, but I won't lie, I wish I was bigger.

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A female reader, Stellablue United States +, writes (17 August 2009):

The bigger the better. I can teach but only if there's good working material. So 8" and up and no skinny mini's either!

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A female reader, pepper27 United Kingdom +, writes (16 August 2009):

pepper27 agony auntlol! behave...

Its not the size, It has never entered my head.

when Im with someone I love and care about, Thats all that matters. Saying that my first husband was rather large and it could hurt, So the problem there was not as much sex as we could have had I guess. Everyone is different you wont get one answer to satisfy here. (no pun intended) but its true some like apples some like bannanas and some like carrots so I say not to worry just enjoy who you are and who you are with :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009):

Question: Do you know why women don't make good mechanical engineers?

Answer: Because they have always been told that the length of their index finger is 6 inches. :D

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009):

Well i always thought size doesn't matter and it's all about how u use it and what u do with it, but last nite my boyfriend and i were busy , i sucked him but then realised his true size before he get's hard . It was real small but when he got hard i got some satisfaction .

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A female reader, purple_butterfly Canada +, writes (16 August 2009):

When a girl likes a guy, or loves him..thats like the last thing shes even guna think or worry about.

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A female reader, haley92 United States +, writes (16 August 2009):

honestly not many women care about size. its how its used!

it aint the size of the ship, its the motion of the ocean!

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A male reader, meganutts United States +, writes (16 August 2009):

meganutts is verified as being by the original poster of the question

meganutts agony aunt@ troubledtoomuch lol the 11 inch was just a throw off. No guy really has a normal 11" penis, that's just surgery.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009):

Guys, the average is about 5.5 inches.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Penis_size

http://www.thundersplace.org/forum/printthread.php?t=33870

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A female reader, pepper27 United Kingdom +, writes (16 August 2009):

pepper27 agony auntA...Fine B...Fine C...Run

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009):

But can most women even accurately call the size of a dick that's been in front of them?

IMO most women won't call it right, they usually over-estimate it more than underestimate it, and if they ask the guy he may very well cheat the number upwards a bit too.

I think this has something to do with the wide discrepancy of 5-6 inch dicks being "average" according to science. Yet when the polls are tsken the smallest dick that every woman out there has ever had in the past always seems to be 6" or more.

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (16 August 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntanonymous, i dont think you under stood the question. The poster wants to kno what size women like or preffer it has nothing to do with ho much they like the guy.

Using your breast analogy this is what he meant, what size breast do guys preffer let say its a 33b does that mean he will not like the girl in a training bra no but the 33b is more satisfying.

And to some women SIZE matters.

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A male reader, joe26 Hong Kong +, writes (16 August 2009):

joe26 agony auntsorry this is just women's opinions but i would like to say something, anything bigger than 7.5 or 8 inch complete waste. I don't think woment can take 9 inch penis all the way in. maybe its good for oral or i don't know. Why would man or women want freaky sizes 9,10,11? as i am pretty average 7.2 inch never have any problems, its all how u use your tool and how long u last and how you treat your partner in the bed. Be happy with what you got. Love him/her who they are not how small/big they are.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009):

It's interesting that all of your choices, A, B and C are all above average. Where did you get the 11 inches anyway?

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A female reader, EbonyBlossom United Kingdom +, writes (16 August 2009):

EbonyBlossom agony auntIt really depends on what she likes to do in bed. There are loads of factors involved e.g. if her g-spot is really high she probably prefers a guy with a long cock, but if she's really tight it might heart if he's well endowed girth-wise. It also depends on which she prefers out of penetration and oral, because if she's mad for oral but not for penetration, she probably doesn't really care!

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A male reader, meganutts United States +, writes (16 August 2009):

meganutts is verified as being by the original poster of the question

meganutts agony auntAwesome

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (16 August 2009):

I disagree, size does matter. Too small like smaller than average kind of grosses me out and the "motion of the ocean" doesn't really matter when it's below average. Too big can hurt and be a little scary. So yeah, gonna have to go with average or slightly above.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009):

lol im going to be honest girls don care about size whatsoever. size doesnt matter to us girls. we dont understand why guys worry about it so much either. most girls like a guy before and after they have seen there penis no matter what the size is. its kind of like guys and boobs if the guy really likes the girl for who she is he wont care how big her boobs are.

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