Is boarding school the right thing in this circumstance?
Q. Recently my wife and eldest daughter died in a car crash and i was left on my own with a 14 yr old daughter. her mum used to work at her current school and her sister went to the sixth form there and shes told me that she dosent want to go there ...
A. 25 November 2011: I'm just going to start by saying that I'm so sorry to hear about your loss and I know that you will miss your daughter if you both choose that it is the right thing for her. The best thing I can suggest is that you put yourself in her shoes an... (read in full...)
Ready to loose my Virginity, so whats holding me back ?
Q. Physically and emotionally, I'm certain I'm ready to lose my virginity. I'm in a relationship (albeit a long-distance one) with a man whom I care about very deeply indeed, and I know the love and trust I feel for him is reciprocated. Even if we ...
A. 25 July 2011: I lost my virginity at a really young age and I regret my decision, I wish I waited till I was really. I understand what you meant by the fact that you have something stopping you, listen to it this may be something that's telling you that your rea... (read in full...)
My GF wants me to remove a tattoo from my chest which spells my late sister's name, because my ex had the same name, and my GF doesn't want to be reminded of my ex!
Q. My twin sister died a few years ago in a car accident. I was really affected by her death. She wasn't just my sister but my best friend. I got a tattoo of her name on my chest so that she'll always be next to my heart. I have been seeing a...
A. 11 July 2011: O my god, don't let her be like that with you, who cares if your ex had the same name as your sister, she should understand how close you were with her and that it's not your fault that an ex girlfriend had the same name.
She is being really inse... (read in full...)
I'm battling cancer and boyfriend is on the internet looking at other women!
Q. Hi everyone. Im in a big problem, and I need so advice. I got with my bf around 1 year and one month ago. We loved eachother very much, to such an extent we'd never talk to another guy or girl even as friends. We were VERY possessive of one another, ...
A. 10 July 2011: Men looking at women is a natural thing, have you thought that he was doing it even when you didn't find out that you were ill?
At this time of need you will be more likely to rely on him and that could be the reason for you realising that he look... (read in full...)
Did he just break up with me? His Mother is against us. But I thought we had something
Q. Heyy .. My boyfriend of 5 months and I had some trouble, due to his mother over our whole relationship. he always fought with her to tell her to back off and leave me and him alone. Before we started dating me, both he and I and his mother were grea...
A. 10 July 2011: There is two reasons he could have sent that text, one the way he was with you before you left could have been his way to say goodbye as he has been left with his mother for a long time without you being there and she could have been driving him ... (read in full...)
How can I fix things between me and my friend?
Q. this isnt a romance question but does involve a close friend who i care about. our friendship has been rocky for a few months because when i first met him 2 years ago he was very vulnerable and needy and i enjoyed caring for him and pepping him up. ...
A. 10 July 2011: The best way is to treat him like any other of your friends now, you can't help what you did and if you say sorry he'll understand.
Go out, and if he offers to pay don't say 'No I will' this will make him feel bad again, just say you will both pay ... (read in full...)
Can't stop thinking about Sex toys stockist.
Q. hi i have a girlfriend but when we went to this studio place to look at what they sale thats miles away in a different city, the woman who runs it and the website is also gay and i really cant stop thinking about her. we been 2visit twice as didnt ...
A. 10 July 2011: That is a really difficult one as you say she is gay, and to be honest she'd probably be more into your girlfriend than you.
You could go again and befriend her, and meet up a few times and see if that will stop the feelings as you have only met ... (read in full...)
I like a girl that doesn’t like me. How do I get her attention?
Q. i really like this girl...who says to my friends that she doesnt really like me. We were kind of friends until she found out that i like her...after that she hasnt been interacting with me that much, compared to my friends. She has been playing ...
A. 9 July 2011: The best thing I suggest is to get your friends to say that you don't like her any more as she just treats you horribly and your fed up of always chasing her around. When she hears this will be more likely to find you more interest as it seems to ... (read in full...)
3 months after the baby is born and we still haven't had sex
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about two years we just had a baby. we didnt have sex for almost six months befor he was born. it has been three months since he has been born and he still has no desire to have sex with me unless he is drunk. we ...
A. 9 July 2011: Try spicing up things in the bedroom with roll play and costumes, or find out his fantasies and do them. It could be that he is worried that you would wake the baby or if the baby is in the bedroom then it would be a little weird for him, so you'll ... (read in full...)
How do I fix or get over these relationships?
Q. I admit I'm not the smartest one when it comes to relationships. I've tried to get her to talk to me when we argue. Its like talking to a wall when I call her over to talk to me. She doesn't like talking on the phone she txts all the time. I've been ...
A. 9 July 2011: If you keep feeling this then I think it isn't healthy for the both of you, as you keep getting upset and she keeps getting angry. I agree that you should talk to them, but be careful as this may put a strain on your relationship with the both the... (read in full...)
Is my bf not interested in me
Q. hey m committed and in ldr since 1 year and 10 months.recently my bf went to goa with his friends.he enjoyed a lot. but one thing that made me mad was that he took pic with bikini babes. he said he wanted to show all that he has gone to goa. i m...
A. 9 July 2011: Nothing is happening, I think your overreacting to a joke to be perfectly honest, by the sound of it he is not losing interest.
You have nothing to be upset about as it really sounds like nothing and it isn't like he'll ever see the girl again.
An... (read in full...)
I don't wan't to leave my wife, but I have very strong feelings for this other woman. Is it possible to love two women and not hurt anyone?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm new to this site, but appreciate everyone's candor and returns on their experience. I am and have been happily married for 20 years now with my french wife in Paris. I love my wife, we are close and loving and I am proud ...
A. 9 July 2011: Ask yourself this, if it was the other way around, would you like it if it was your wife that was thinking about cheating on you?
This could really hurt your family if they found out. It is wrong to have two relationships.
My uncle have been hav... (read in full...)
What does it mean if a man stops making love to you half way through??
Q. Hi What does it mean if a man stops making love to you half way through??...
A. 9 July 2011: It could be that your sex life isn't what it use to be, so maybe spice things up in the bedroom and see if that helps, or try asking him what is wrong!
If it keeps happening maybe it would be a good idea to consult a doctor as this can be a prob... (read in full...)
GF never lets what I do wrong go. What can I do?
Q. i need help with my gf its hard because she is constantly reminded of out bad past even after 2 years of beign together she still doesn't trust me she thinks i'll go behind her back and talk to some other girl when i wont at all!!!!!!! waht can i do ...
A. 9 July 2011: Well it's hard to know what to say when we don't know the reason for her being angry, but the fact that you say she still doesn't trust you apply there was another girl that she got a little jealous and worried over.
Talk to her and be open with... (read in full...)
How can l show him am attracted to him without telling him?
Q. l am a lady aged 26. I am attracted to a guy l work with. How can l show him am attracted to him without telling him?...
A. 9 July 2011: Talk to him and be a little flirty... but the best thing to really do is ask him out on a date.
What's wrong with just telling him? It isn't like he will eat you a live.
Hope I helped
Jay x x x... (read in full...)
Anytime my crush is around, I freeze up and can't talk!
Q. Hello, I have an important question. I met this guy (I knew who he was beforehand though) at church and immediately developed a crush on him. This guy is perfect, and I mean it. He has the best taste in music, books, and is a real man of God. My p...
A. 9 July 2011: Try inviting him into a conversation with your parents or your friends, this will help you gain confidence to talk to him more as he will not be waiting on what you are going to say and will be able to talk to every one, you'll be able to think ... (read in full...)
Why did she kiss me?
Q. Me and my ex [both 18] go out clubbing together a lot because we have the same friends. Last night we were out and were both quite tipsy, and I bought her a drink. She said 'thank you, sexy' and quickly made out with me, not too ferociously, ...
A. 9 July 2011: She may have felt confused and wasn't sure if she still liked you in that way, so she might have kissed you to see if she felt anything, and then realise she hadn't and moved on.
Or it could have been that she was just drunk and kissed you thin... (read in full...)
Does he not introduce me to his friends or go out with me at night because he is embarrassed of me?
Q. Me and my bf are in a distance relationship and only see each other one month at a time... the thing is that, we go out everyday...but to parks,movies,malls and things like this, but never clubbin, out to drinks, or romantic dinners. Sure we go to ...
A. 9 July 2011: He may just want to spend time with you and are worried that if he takes you out his friends may like you and he could be worried about losing you to one of them.
It may also be because you are shy and he might be worried what you think about his ... (read in full...)
After I realize I love her she says she got tired of waiting for me!
Q. Here's my story. A year ago, I met a girl that was a few years younger than me. Well I didn't really like her as a love interest then, but she was crazy in love with me. We hung out everyday and most people thought we were dating. Well that was ...
A. 9 July 2011: You need to start showing that you love her and make her realise how much you do, but you also need to start all over again with your relationship, make her feel like a princess by taking her out with just the two of you.
Buy her flowers and real... (read in full...)
I'm scared to hold hands or kiss with my boyfriend
Q. Okay , so me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a month now and we've already kissed and made out. He's 15 and I'm 13. And we don't see each other all the time, we see each other about every other week. And every time we hang out i get ...
A. 9 July 2011: You have nothing to worry about with that, you're young, I met my boyfriend when I was 13 and when he was 15 and I know what you are feeling.
Your probably getting scared because you're worried it may lead to something you don't want as you're with... (read in full...)
I want to look experienced even though I'm not, help !!
Q. Hey so I've got a difficult situation to deal with. I really like a guy, and he really wants to have sex. I'm a virgin, but he thinks I'm not. I think I'm comfortable with vaginal sex, but he has somewhat of an obsession with getting head. I've ...
A. 8 July 2011: I lost my virginity at the age of 13 and although I am still with the guy after two years, I deeply regret my decision. He was going on holiday and I was worried that he'd find someone else so I decided that I should, although I was not ready. I... (read in full...)
Do you think it's possible that she's nervous around me? I mean, do you think she likes me too?
Q. I don't know what to make of this. I am a 17 year old gay girl and I am madly infatuated with this girl who is in one of my classes. She seems very shy, talks to almost nobody in class (unless they talk to her first) and I always catch her sneaking ...
A. 8 July 2011: I think this girl does like you as she goes out of her way just to talk to you in class, if she is shy she would have never have done that unless she really liked you.
The fact that she is shy may be the reason why she seems nervous around you and ... (read in full...)
I miss the one that got away
Q. dear cupid. the boy i feel in love with is gone now and its been nearly 2 months since ive last seen him. i miss him. He doesn't use facebook or anything. i think i should move on and i don't know how to i just always wake up during the night...
A. 8 July 2011: If your really in-love with this guy then you need to do something to get him back, there must be away. I don't know what you mean by 'he is gone', do you mean he's moved away or doesn't want any contact? Otherwise you could start going out with t... (read in full...)
Hate is a strong word. But do you think it fits? considering how she is relating to me now?
Q. Does it sound like she hates me? There is a girl and we used to flirt a lot and were friends until I made her mad. She used to always say 'hi' and spend special time with me. Lately she avoids me completely and will greet everyone except for me. ...
A. 8 July 2011: Well that really depends on what's made her mad, girl's can overreact to things if you think it wasn't that bad. I think hate is too much of a strong word for this, you are right to try and talk to her, but if I was you I'd leave her to it for a wh... (read in full...)
This is my first relationship with a boyfriend. How do I act towards him when we go back to school?
Q. okay hey i just got my first boyfriend and i dont know how to act or what to say to him when school starts what will i do when i pass him? What will i do if he comes up to me. can someone please help me....
A. 8 July 2011: You don't need to act any differently if that's what you two would like, if he passes you in the halls then smile and just carry on, and if he comes up to you act normal, how you'd normally act around him outside of school. One of my friends ... (read in full...)
How can I create the right moment to ask her out?
Q. Hey guys so I like this girl but I don't seem to be able to ask her out. As most of you probably know you want to wait for the right moment but it just hasn't come, there has always been something in the way. So how can I create that moment? Also ...
A. 8 July 2011: I know you have asked for a guys advise, but I have learnt that men and women think very differently. So I maybe able to shine a light on the subject... Ask yourself this, if it was the other way around how would you get her to ask you out? Ju... (read in full...)
He talks to me the exact same way he talks to other girls. I thought I was special. What do I do?
Q. Well im talking to this guy that i met on a chat, and well hes sweet and we get along pretty well. He told me he likes me alot and i do too but he hasnt really asked me to be his girlfriend. But he talks to so many other girls too. I dont ...
A. 8 July 2011: He is probably only trying to make friends,but if you feel that way about him maybe you should not worry about everything else and tell him that you like him and see what he says? I know you will probably not like being told this but don't expect a... (read in full...)
Do all girlfriends steal from their boyfriends?
Q. My favorite soft drink is Mountain Dew and I have a Mountain Dew T-shirt. After my girlfriend came up in my room and when I wasn't in my room with her, I think she took my T-shirt. I'm not 100% sure she took it, but my T-shirt has been missing for a ...
A. 8 July 2011: A lot of girls I know which have boyfriends are always borrowing their boyfriends clothes like t-shirts and jumpers, it's just a comfort thing, it's probably because it smells like you and she thought that you wouldn't mind her borrowing it. Don't ... (read in full...)
2 years and no proposal..no love?
Q. My bf of 2yreas hasnt yet pr0posed and its seri0usly geting t0 me. im 18 and he 23. he never even bringz up the subject. cud it be that he doesnt l0ve me?...
A. 16 August 2009: Talk to your boy friend about this, tell him what you feel and he should understand. If he still hasn't brought up the subject don't be scared to bring it up yourself. Tell him you love him and he should repsond to this if not then you know where ... (read in full...)
I love my b/f but really like someone else too
Q. me and my boyfriend are both 19 and have been together for 4 years with about 2 months break with in them years. hes slept with a girl in one of the months we split what im getting over now. ive been talking to some other guy whos telling me that ...
A. 15 August 2009: I think you should tell your boyfriend what has been going on, if you do decide to dump him then he should have the right to know why, and he may be able to help you. Tell him that your not sure what he is feeling for you as he never tells you and ... (read in full...)
Three guys and I have feelings for all of them!
Q. I've been with this guy for 3 and a half years and I'm happy. I have two best guy friends that are just friends. The more I talk to them and hang out with them the more I start having feelings for both of them. All three boys are best friends. What ...
A. 15 August 2009: I think you should shold stay with your boyfriend and warn him that you have these feelings but ensure him that you love him and don't want to leave him and he should understand. Stay away from the other two a little bit and ask your self why do you ... (read in full...)
My ex wants to be next in my life
Q. Here's the deal, several years ago I was heartbroken by an ex that tore out my heart and threw it in the trash:(, so sad I know, but moving on I've moved on since then, I mean my God that was high school lol. But I think about her here and there ...
A. 15 August 2009: I know you will be feeling down that she hurt you and that you couldn't get over it and maybe you still can't, but time has changed and so do people. Maybe after her bad relationships she has relized that she hurt you, but hopes that you'll forgive ... (read in full...)
Help!!! I'm worried!
Q. My girlfriend cheated on me along time ago with the guy she lost her virginity. No sex, they just kissed then she walked away. The same thing happened at the beginning of our relationship. She was quite the party animal and used to drink a lot. We ...
A. 15 August 2009: I know how your girlfriend feels in a way of her getting jelous about you talking to other girls, but don't feel worried it ust means that she loves you and really wantsto be with you but doesn't want anything getting in the way. Has she ever been ... (read in full...)
I love two guys and it doesn't feel good!
Q. At the beginning of this year I got into a relationship with a boy i'd liked for ages, we lasted five months and througought that he cheated on me three times and put us on a break for two weeks, i broke up with him in june and the only reason i ...
A. 13 August 2009: I know what you are talking about because as soon as I started going out with my boyfriend my ex hated it and told me he loves me. But I ignored it knowing that I'm in love with my boyfriend and want to stay in his arms forever.
Soon after I told... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as too perfect a relationship???
Q. Basically before this guy, i didnt believe in serious relationships in your adolescence. i met him freshmen year and now we're going into junior year and still together, even though i switched schools. our relationship has been nearly perfect with ...
A. 12 August 2009: No this is not weird. I know how you feel as I feel the same about my boyfriend, he is always telling me about the girls he liked and the ones he find nice too but always tells me that he'll never love a person as much as he loves me. You shouldn'... (read in full...)
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