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*heamymdaen
writes:ok so the problem is my penis is a bit bigger than average and my girlfriend is fairly tight and we had sex for the first time a couple of weeks ago and when i tryed to put it in her she said it was stretching her which i figured was normal but after i got about an inch she said it was starting to hurt which i just figured was her thing breaking like it normally would as well but then she told me it was starting to become unbareable and was to much. is there some wrong with her down there?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 October 2009):
It was because she was a virgin. It'l hurt her a few more times yet, so be gentle and patient with her. Spend lots of time on foreplay and make her feel relaxed.
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reader, jheamymdaen +, writes (3 October 2009):
jheamymdaen is verified as being by the original poster of the questionjust by the way she was a virgin before we did it and i did stop when told me it hurt
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reader, meganutts  +, writes (2 October 2009):
 Dude, u gotta go slow with it, and I'm not just talking straight sex, u gotta build here up and make her boil first, I'm sure u know this so I won't go on with that any further. But u gotta get sum more lube in there man, u gotta spend sum time fingering her, bring sum dildos in there if ur comfortable with urself enough. patience.
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reader, curiousgirl32382 +, writes (1 October 2009):
 No matter the a man size sex can be uncomfortable with out lube, she may not be making enough of her own. Try buying some and using it. After a couple of time she should be able to have sex with you comfortably. Foreplay is a really good suggestion you have to get her aroused to make her wetter. Ask her what drives her crazy and add that in to your foreplay. Adam and eve is a website that sell tons of different lubes try it out they are also very reasonable. And if none of these suggestions help and it is something that just isn't going to happen there are other ways for a couple to be sexual with out actually having intercourse. Strickly foreplay, touching, massaging, and even oral sex. It sound like yous have only had sex once give it time you both have to be willing to work at it. And Im not sure but if it was her first time it might have been very uncomfortable keep trying.
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (1 October 2009):
 How experienced was she before you? Women are built to stretch (child birth).
I'm not a doctor, but presuming she is just like every other woman on the planet, if you spend time on foreplay and take it slow, she should eventually be able to accommodate you.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 October 2009):
Try spending more time on foreplay, so she's ready. Also, you might want to try positions the enable her to be in control of how deep you go (her on top). Talk to her a bit and see if there's anything you can do to make it easier for her. There's nothing wrong with her, she's a normal woman. And make sure yoou don't make it sound like there is something wrong or she will blame herself and become even mor self concious. Just spend time getting to know her body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009): Breaking like normally? What the..? Is she a virgin or? Or do you normally "break" girls? If she tells you it hurts: stop! Dont just keep pushing, thats very inconsiderate. And no, nothing is wrong with her down there. You said it yourself, you are big, she is tight. Girls come in sizes too. My advice to you though is to take it very slow. Make sure she is really wet and ready. And let her control the pace. Let her decide what positions you try. Usually the missionary position is the easiest for girls who are tight with guys who are large. I will also advice you to use lubricant.With time she might get used to you, as in her vagina stretching out to fit you better. It can be a painful process for her though. And Im sorry to say so; but if she keeps hurting, it's grounds for you to break up. Getting along sexually is important for a relationship, and some people don't match in bed. No matter how much you like each other, if you are too big for her, there's nothing to be done.
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