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writes:My post this time really isn't a problem, its more of a brag, but its not intended to be. See I have a very high sex drive, I haven't ran across many women can stand it, longevity is what I like and what I practice when I have sex. I believe I'm well endowed, above average at best, I weigh in at 9 inches and the past few relations I was in, the women weren't too happy with my tactics lol. Don't get me wrong I'm gentle as can be, but I can be rough if needed, long strokes, back strokes, tongue strokes:p, any position really, but like I said, many of the women I've been with couldn't hang. Now you don't hear about this too often, infact I have heard of it at all. Men lasting longer than women. But oh well, it is what it is and I'm happy I can satisfy. I guess my only viable question in this "bragfest of sex" is, if I should meet a women who can handle me in bed, how should I go about the actual act with her, should I just jump the sack? Should I take my time and be sensual? I know there r many women with different feelings and not every woman is the same, so how should I go about. And even if I don't meet a woman that can "tame" me, but one who isn't ready for what I can give, how should I treat her sexually? Or should I just go do porn? P.s. I am being serious despite the nature of this post:p
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (17 August 2009):
 The best erotic story that I read was an ode to what women love about a man. The story was written much better than I can write here, but the gist of it was that men tend to think that their sexual prowess and there size and girth are the be all and end all for a woman.
The things that a woman wants and fantasizes about are multifold, and most of them aren't pertaining directly to a penis; "not that we don't enjoy the pleasures that a well-trained penis can bring" {paraphrased}.
We are much more involved with a man's eyes, his hands, his touch; his lips and the words that he speaks to us! We love to be needed, being wanted and having a man desire us, which is something that ALL men want their lives! To feel truly desired by the woman that they are with! WELL, so do we!
Women are fairly intuitive and any lack of sincerity and 'being in the moment' will definitely be picked up by a perceptive woman, so if you aren't really close enough to truly be totally *intimate* with them, they might show their obvious displeasure by way of not quite being their with you went you are with us in bed. We are just built that way. 100% focus on us, as a couple, and our mutual pleasure is a must for a women to be in the moment and get there.
In any event, after a certain period of time, women get chafed as well. So either way, you need to behave like a gentleman and pull in the reins a bit, I'm thinking...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): If they are not happy with your tactics, then are you kind of jerky. I mean, do you flow?
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reader, \m/J.D\m/  +, writes (16 August 2009):
 I have to say im in agreement with baby duck on this one... there are girls out there who will openly talk about sex with their partner, after all its not all one sided its about what makes you BOTH satisfyed. find out what SHE wants... give it to her its that simple =P
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reader, meganutts +, writes (16 August 2009):
meganutts is verified as being by the original poster of the question Lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): Well when you say you like "longevity"... what are we talking about here? I had a BF once who typically took over an hour to come, and for a woman that gets really old, really fast. First a woman can only produce juices for so long then she dries up and she gets physically chaffed and sore. Second, sorry dude but f**king for an hour straight just gets plain boring. After 40 minutes, I used to stare at the ceiling praying he'd be done soon, while sort of absentmindedly going "ooh baby yeah baby". It got to the point where if he started initiating sex at night I'd look at the clock and calculate how long it would take and if he was going to keep me up too late. I think some men have this issue because somewhere along the line they got it in their heads that the longer they can last the more manly they are. But going at it for an hour without coming is not machismo or "being able to satisfy"... it's a medical condition called delayed ejaculation. The norm penis size for a man is around 6" and time for a man to achieve orgasm thru intercourse is 2-6 minutes. If you are significantly larger and take significantly longer than that - then you are going to be very challenged to find female partners who can "hang" as you say. Large and long may sound very studly... but if you keep chasing lovers away you may want to consider "taming" yourself and getting some medical/psychological help to get off a bit faster (so that maybe you can have a real relationship).
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