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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4yrs we have 2 kids r relationship started badly we've always fighted hes constantly lying to me or he'll get mad and leave n I wont know where hes at n he usually comes home drunk.n than about 2 weeks after I had my daughter I found a phone in his car hidden under the seat he had been sending text messages to some girl he, met on a dating website asking her when was she going to meet up with her n he'll make her happy n some rated r comments soo i called her to find out who she was n she said she met him on a dating site I go to this website n theirs his picture of him I wasn't able to login but he had a couple of girls on their n he said some rated r comments.i called him he tried to deny it but than he started apologizing saying it was a joke that him and his co workers do wen their bored at work and that he was never going to really meet up with them n he promised to change n at first he did but now hes back to his old ways lying claiming hes working late but comes home drunk n never answers his phone he always tries to pick fights with me.i don't know wat to do n than he claims its me that cant be trusted HELP!!!!!
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reader, raiders +, writes (20 May 2010):
 I see things this way if he accuses you and says he can't trust you its his conscious, he is up to no good. Good luck and hope you don't get fool he is playing you.
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reader, maria14r +, writes (20 May 2010):
honestly i will tell you from experience that if he said he would change and he did but went back to his old self then i dont think there is hope for him. most men always go back to how they were. im not saying all men because some do change but thats wat happen with my baby's dad. he said he would change n i gave him like 4 chances and he never changed. he is now with some other gurl but still living the same boring unresponsible life. you need to either leave him or try again and when you see that its not going to happen then you have to do whats best for you. im not saying for your kids because wats best for them is both of you and you both will stll be there no matter if your together or not.
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (20 May 2010):
 There are a couple of universals truths you should trust: 1.) leopards don't change their spots. 2.) If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck, then odds are pretty good it's a duck.
Sweetie, I think you have one big quacking duck on your hands. That old "it was just a joke! we were only foolin'" line is so old it's amazing that it's still around and being used. Of course, it's all you, isn't it? YOU misunderstood, YOU took it the wrong way, YOU can't be trusted?? C'mon girl wake up, you know what you're seeing! How deaf and blind does he expect you to be? Were I you, the very next time he tried to come in drunk, he'd find the door locked and his clothes in a paper bag waiting on the front door mat. Better yet, do it now don't wait til he shows up sozzled, again.
Throw this one back, he's not a keeper.
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