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*aria14r
writes:ok so many of you might remember my situation from like a month ago. my ex is my baby's dad. i just recently found out that he did cheat on me when i was pregnant and before. i feel like i love him and i hate him. i dont want to get back with him because i need someone better in my life. when i was 8 months pregnant he gave me an STD because he cheated on me. he still hasnt gotten cured for that so he gave it to me again. i didnt know that wat he gave me was an STD so i didnt really think of him cheating on me. Just 4 days ago i found out that it is an STD and i confronted him about it and he had this face like he was hiding something. after he read the paper he tried telling me some stupid thing like he got it through bodly fluid when that an STD. you cant get it by kissing or hugging someone. it said it clearly so he didnt know what to say. He hurt me bad because he accused me of sleeping aroung when really he was the one doing it. I left him when i messed with the other guy and it was because my ex was locked up and i didnt care for him. he was in there for 1 and a half years. i feel like i want to forgive him but he kept this secret for 3 years wat else is he keeping from me? i hate that. i opened up to him thinking we were having a honest relationship when he was hiding things. i told him what i did and when we fought he alway brought it up. and he has secrets. man i'm soooo mad.
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reader, maria14r +, writes (28 May 2008):
maria14r is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much for you answer and good thing you left that jerk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): Sweety sounds like a situation I was in before. I had contracted an STD from the father of my unborn child who was 10 years my senior, I was 15 at that time and he was 25 but I didn't know he told me he was 18 and I was nearly 16 so I thought that wasn't bad. Our whole "relationship" was based on lies. When he got me pregnant he forced me to have an abortion and then left me. A few days later they called me to let me know the results of all the blood tests I took and I found out I got chlymidia(which is curable thank GOD). I hadn't heard from him in weeks and suddenly one day I bumped into him and he was telling me how much he loved me and how much he wanted to keep that baby but he didn't wanna ruin my life etc.(which is BS) then when I told him that he gave me an STD he accused me of cheating on him and being a hoe..... basically the moral of my story is that he's not worth it I know it's hard but you shouldn't be woth him anymore, if he could sit there and lye straight to your face about something as major as a disease, imagine what more he has in store for you.. Be careful my love and PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF.
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