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I've asked a girl out but I don't know what to do with her. Any ideas?

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Question - (23 January 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 January 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *geek writes:

hey I just asked a girl out she's 15 I'm 17 and I have no clue how to act around her in school.......like when do I hold her hand. kiss her.....and what other thing do u do? and when do you do them?

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A female reader, Addie United States +, writes (23 January 2008):

Addie agony auntWell, just do whats comfortable for you. And like someone said ask her before you try to kiss her we like that, it lets us know you respect us. And just reach out for her hand if she takes it great, if she doesn' you'll know she's not ready. Hope this helps.

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A female reader, maria14r United States +, writes (23 January 2008):

ok well first if you want to take her out then take her to the usual, a movie and dinner. thats wonderful. you kiss her and hold her when you feel that your ready. if you dont feel confortable then you wait. also you can ask her if you can kiss her. girls always like that. its more respectful.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008):

Well you don't have to do anything you don't feel comfortable with. I don't think she expects romance and kissing immediately; these will follow naturally. Talk to her, maybe hug her goodbye - no need to rush anything! There'll be plenty of time to do other things, don't think that just because films show couples walking hand in hand immediately after getting together means you should do the same.

Seriously, she'd think it weird too if you suddenly jumped on her with no warning, even if she is your girlfriend!

Take it SLOW. :)

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