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writes:im 16 but about to be 17 in about 3 months and im still in love with my ex but thats not the half of it i want to lose my virginity to him but he had a girlfriend and i dont know if he still goes with her or not i want to give myself to him because i trust him but i really dont like the way i look with out clothes and i dont want him to feel the same way and plus im scared lets just say i know what hangs between his legs can you help me???? please
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (24 January 2008):
 You will just be another notch on his holster, so to speak. When I was in college, I knew guys who kept girl's panties and would hang them on a wall that newer girlfriends would not see. I didn't do that, but must admit that I don't even remember them all now that I am a much older man.
Ever heard of "he's sowing his oats?"
That's what almost every guy I knew in earlier years was doing - some girls were "sowing" theirs too.
But really, you are too young to want to "lose your virginity," especially to someone who has moved on now. If you are just wanting sexual satisfaction, which is understandable, there are other ways a man (boy) can do that for you if he knows how. Learn about "cunnilingus." Works without pregnancy or losing something you need not yet lose at your age. And if he's that big, yes it will probably hurt you.
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reader, maria14r +, writes (23 January 2008):
yes i could help you. first of all why would you want to loose your virginity to someone your not even with and he has a girlfriend. it doesnt matter if you were with him. you should save it for someone your going to be with and he's going to be with you. he might jus want to take your virginity and then leave you. thats what most guys want especially if they know that your a virgin. dont do it. for real. i regret my first time. it wasnt romantic. you dont want to feel like me
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