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writes:I'm just wondering if this girl likes me or not, I'm pretty confused about it.We hooked up a couple months ago, and kept in contact since, and a couple weeks ago we went out, and the night ended up going not so well, we ended up having to goto a cokeheads house (it's a long story, we werren't there for drugs or anything), which didn't bother me, but she definatley wasn't too pleased about it.Later that night we wentto another friends house for drinks, because that's why we went out, to go drinking with each other, well we got there, she didn't drink anything, and barely spoke a word to me the entire night, and when I did talk to her I felt almost like I was being ignored... Then she left really early.We didn't talk for a week or so after that, then a couple days ago she asks me out of the blue if I want to go over herplace Saturday.It kinda got me by surprise, the vibes I got from her the ast time we were with each was that she had no interest in me at all, so why the sudden invite?
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reader, maria14r  +, writes (24 January 2008):
then you know what if she wants to bring a friend with her to your dates then she's shy or something because that i was when i was your age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNope, it's not that either, that's what I wanted, but she insisted on bringing a friend along.
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reader, maria14r +, writes (23 January 2008):
well i'm thinking that something was bothering her that night. she probably does like you but maybe she wanted it to be a date. youk now? just you and her....
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the respond.
I don't think it's the substances she's worried about though, we were both drunk when we met, and I did suspect she wasn't much of a drinker or anything, so I suggested we goto the movies, and she said no she wanted to drink with me.
I don't think she does drugs though, and I think she may think I'm on drugs after seeing some of my friends are cokeheads.
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reader, Jmo +, writes (23 January 2008):
 I used to hang out with a straight-edged guy (no drinking, drugs, etc) even though I'm a notorious drunk and did drugs occasionally back then. I could tell he had feelings for me even though he always gave me shit about my habits. Eventually, he got over it and we ended up dating for about 3 years. In my opinion, the girl in question may be kind of weary about chemical substances or even be strongly opposed to them altogether. However, because she obviously has taken an interest in you, she may not have wanted to voice her opinion and put you off. Her invitation could mean one of 3 things: 1. she really likes you but wants to be with you without the whole substance thing being an issue or 2. she's interested but suspects that you might show up messed up which will be a deal breaker or 3. she just wanted some ass. Regardless of the reason, my advice is to talk to her about it, you'd be surprised at how people react when you acknowledge their feelings (even when you don't understand them) Hope this helps. -Jmo
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