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*onderingmind17
writes:Okay i have this boyfrend and i love him oo i love him so much hes the one i've been looking for but idk it seems that he dosen't care about ALL my feelings just the ones he wants i want to stay with him but i dont wanna fight about something so dumb so what do i do about him.. keep in mind that i dont wanna breake up i just want him to apperciate me a lil more.!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Timeslikethese  +, writes (24 January 2008):
You don't give very much information, perhaps elaborate on what it is that he isn't doing and examples of what is upsetting you to allow for more constructive advice.
Nevertheless, from the information you do give I feel that you are, perhaps, a bit too young to be seriously contemplating spending the rest of your life with this man, particularly as you feel he doesn't care about your needs. Relationships at your age are very intense and, although some do last, they are very unlikely to stand the test of time.
Put it this way, if he isn't treating you with the love and devotion you deserve so early on in your relationship... what will he be like in 20 or 30 years time? Think about this as all relationships undergo very stressful times and you should only commit to somebody who supports you and you feel will be there with you, investing as much as you are, through the lows and the highs.
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reader, maria14r +, writes (23 January 2008):
there will have to be a break up because he wont realize what he had until he looses it. he wont appreciate you until he thinks that he lost you. think about it. either way you dont need that. you should be treated better and with respect. it doesnt matter if he just got off a 3 year relationship. if he wants you he will treat you rite.
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