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writes:hi me an my boyfriend have been together for about a year and a half now. we are happy together but not inlove yet! is that strange?i care about him so much though and i know he would never take advantage of me and he respects me so much!a lot of the time when he comes round my house we end up on the bed kissing for most of the time he is here. we both really enjoy it and whenever i see him i just wanna kiss him and stuff :P we havent had sex yet cos im not ready for that and he said he would wait forever and i just know he would!!so a lot of are relationship is based on that kissing on he bed, is it ok to be in a relationship like tht?
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reader, maria14r  +, writes (23 January 2008):
of course its ok. if he really loves you and cares for you then he'll respect the fact that you want to wait.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008): There is absolutely nothing wrong with a relationship without sex. My boyfriend and I have been together three and a half years and to this day, we have not had sex. I have come to realize that a guy who doesn't pressure you to be intimate with him respects you more than the ones who "can't wait." True love waits. Many people decide not to have sex in a relationship for a long time because they believe that sex is something that should only be shared between lifelong partners. However, that is just a personal choice that everyone must make for themselves. All relationships are quite different and not everyone is ready for sex. So you get to decide to be intimate or not, and either choice is just fine.
And even though you say that you spend a lot of time kissing on the bed, that isn't all that a relationship is about either. You have to have to emotional attraction as well as the physical. I am sure that you will make the best choice possible.
Best of luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008): perfectly normal. you don't have to follow the endless crowd of couples who have just sex on the mind, and have already racked up a handful of failed relationships. Take your time and you will know when/if the time is right.
Good Luck
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (23 January 2008):
 nothing wrong with a sexless relationship. and nothing wrong with being togehter and not being in "love" personally love should be something that talkes a while. love is trust and respect.
most people who fall instantly in love after a week are usually confused with lust
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