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Is it my place to spill the beans?

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Question - (23 January 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 January 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *playdrums24 writes:

I dated a girl for my entire senior year in high school, and we broke up when I went away to college. She cheated on me twice during the relationship, and even though I knew that we remained friends after the breakup, and occasionally hooked up. Several times after the breakup, she told me she still had feelings for me but nothing ever came out of them. I recently found out that she had sex with someone who she not only, 1. doesn't like 2. is a jerk and 3. has a girlfriend. I took this hard because she has always been very protective about her sexuality with me, and I never would have though she would do something like that. We haven't talked since I found out. My question is, should I tell the guy's girlfriend that he cheated on her with my ex, or is that not my place?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2008):

You could tell but then he may end up with your ex permanently. You need to move on.

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A male reader, Uncle Trev United Kingdom +, writes (23 January 2008):

Do you tell or not?

It depends how spiteful you are and you are the only person who knows the true answer to that.

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A female reader, maria14r United States +, writes (23 January 2008):

i really dont think thats your place to say anything but i also think that she dont deserve that. you should tell her.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008):

Your clearly jealous that he slept with your ex. She does like him, thats why she slept with him and he's a jerk? says who? you?

I think its non of your business who she sleeps with.

Good luck

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