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Do you think she is testing me to see how far will I go to get her back?

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Question - (20 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, *aotik818 writes:

Question of the day !!! Ok my ex girlfriend and i were together for 5 years and we broke up 6 months back. WE have a 1 years old son together. I want to make things work and get her back. I have cheated on her before because of my own insecurities which led to us drifting apart. She knows that im a changed person and im trying to better myself in every aspect. She tells me that she feels nothing at all for me but i feel like she is just protecting herself since i've hurt her before. 2 nights ago we finally made love after like 5 months. She said she just did it because she was horny and i feel like she did it because she still feels something. Their are alot of small details about our problems but my question is do you think she is testing me to see how far will i go to get her back? or do you think she is really being honest when she said she is over this?

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A female reader, raiders United States +, writes (20 May 2010):

raiders agony auntShe could have been honest, she was probably sexually frustrated and was comfortable approaching you for sex.

If your really want her back than its time to do some major ass kissing. Show her that you have change, and don't cheat again ever again.

Good Luck!

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A male reader, TimmD United States +, writes (20 May 2010):

TimmD agony auntI don't think it is a test. Most likely she was just horny and is comfortable enough with you just to have sex, but there is a small chance she still has some feelings for you. But again, I don't think this is a specific test from her.

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A female reader, maria14r United States +, writes (20 May 2010):

it sounds to me like shes being honest but you never know unless u really sit down and have a serious talk with her. tell her how you feel and what changes you have made for your relationship. after you talk to her if you see that she wont change her mind then shes being honest and the next best thing is to move on. GOOD LUCK!

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