How do I talk to my girlfriend in regards to her behavior after an accident?
Q. My apologizes for the long story. I am 26. My gf is 25. We are both Asian. My gf’s younger sister and brother were also there and a friend of her. We sat together at a table. The tables were arranged in rows with chairs facing back-to-back wit...
A. 13 August 2011: Wow!! She realy over reacted!! I don't even know how u could want to stay w/her cause obviously this is hers and her families true side. If she's reacting like this over something this small I can't even imagine how she would react to something of ... (read in full...)
I'm engaged, he's married but sometimes the way he looks at me I think he has feelings for me
Q. I am here to get some opinion on where you think I stand in my male friend's eyes. He is married and I am currently engaged. The confusion stems from some actions of his and some words he says. Maybe I over think it, but I would love to have your ...
A. 6 August 2011: To be honest w/u. I think there's feelings from both sides towards eachother. I wouldn't go forward w/anything because he does have a family but I think there's nothing wrong for having a crush you guys are only humans it sometimes develops before u ... (read in full...)
My mom thinks that wet bath mats and talking loudly are deal breakers! How do I get her to accept my relationship with my fiance?
Q. I was so worried to tell my mom I got engaged to my boyfriend. We went back to my hometown to tell her in person and I was so relieved when she seemed to take the news well (ish) that I cried. But my partner went home a couple of days before me, and ...
A. 30 July 2011: Honestly I would never tell him what your mom said because that stuff that she says is wrong w/him are the dumbest things I've ever heard and that could scare him away. Btw if anybody is controling anybody its your mom controloing your life. She's ... (read in full...)
Why is she trying to break us up? We don't even know her. Help!
Q. I've just started dating a girl and a complete stranger to both of us has just started emailing my girlfriend telling her I'm a fake and that I'm not genuine, I'm really confused because I've never spoken to this person before and neither has my ...
A. 7 June 2011: Gigilojone is exactly right. That's what's I was going to say!!! This person must have a crush on u and can't stand u guys being together! Your girl should tell them off! And so should u!!
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My sister wants to go back to this horrible man and I'm terrified for her!
Q. My sister moved to the another country many months ago where she met her current boyfriend and I recently went to visit for a week. In my time spent there I quickly realised that she was in an abusive relationship. My sister is only seventeen and it ...
A. 1 June 2011: U have to pretty much let her know your place is always open for her. Its not easy tob leave an abusive partner and no she is not a fool its called feeling guilty u always care a lot for your abuser I know it doesn't make sense but it does happen ... (read in full...)
Do you tell your partner when you get hit on, find someone attractive, or have a crush?
Q. Do you tend to tell your partner when someone has hit on you or find them attractive? Does the situation make a difference? For example, if your coworker is hitting on you versus the girl in line with you at the checkout? My girlfriend ...
A. 27 May 2011: Honestly. I think things like that should be kept to yourselfs. Maybe once in a while let her know that u got hit on but u didn't like it ofcourse. Just to show her people are still intrested and she doesn't have somebody that nobody wants. My ... (read in full...)
He left me to be the 'good son' of his parents...he will go through an arranged marriage
Q. We're both from the same cultural and religious background, except his parents are conservative and very traditional. We were in an on/off relationship for 5-6 years. Now his parents have recently started talking about finding a girl for him. I ...
A. 16 May 2011: Omg! You poor thing!! I think u should let him go even though its gonna kill u. If this is how he's gonna act and not stand up for u w/his family now then can u imagine him in the future if u guys stay together. He will blame u forever for going ... (read in full...)
In-laws control my wife and are ruining what could be a good marriage!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been married for 2.5 years. Before the wedding we had a great relationship. I just recevied my Masters Degree and started a great job after being jobless for 2 months. The wedding was beautiful. Ok now imagine the sound ...
A. 16 May 2011: Wow!!! U have crazy inlaws!!! Who the hell do they think they are to speak to your father like that! U realy need to stand up for yourself and family. They don't have to like him but damn just to respect u they should keep their mouths shut. What's ... (read in full...)
What are the effects of shea butter on stretch marks?
Q. Hi every one, pls does any one knows the effects of shear butter on the skin? I am battling with stretch marks and i was told that shear butter works, but i want to know more about it. Pls help me, i'll be grateful if u do....
A. 24 April 2011: I used it also when I was pregnant. It does help but its not a miracle worker u will still get some but just not as much. It doesn't make them go away it only prevents new ones from coming. ... (read in full...)
He told me he enjoys staring at sexy girls, is this normal or is he doing this because he is bored of us? Or is he just trying to make me jealous?
Q. i am in a committed ldr relationship since 1 year and 9 motnhs.i and my bf love each other like hell.recently my bf has gone to a new place to travel and to give exams with his friends.yesterday night he told that he enjoyed roaming at the malls and ...
A. 18 April 2011: First of all he's direspecting your feelings by telling u all of this. Yes its normal to check out others but he should keep it to himself. I think he's testing u to see how much he could do w/out u breaking up w/him. Now he prob thinks its ok to ... (read in full...)
The only person that makes my twin sister happy is her best friends ex!
Q. Hiya there. I need your help. My twin is stuck and she isn't a member of this site so I said I'd let her write it on mine. Well first off, about 3 years ago she was in love with this boy called 'R'. They had a thing going off for ages. They would...
A. 14 April 2011: Omg I agree w/u!! Her friend didn't care that your twin was hurt when they started dating. So I say go for it. Your friend will understand. The only thing is won't it be weird knowing he was w/her friend? I can't picture my friend w/my man that ... (read in full...)
We've broken up, but I would regret not wishing him a happy birthday. Should I send him a card?
Q. Well, I have a bit of a situation. I finished my relationship with my ex, about a month and a few weeks ago. To tell you the truth, I didn’t finished things because I stopped loving him but because his actions showed no love for me. I was with him ...
A. 13 April 2011: No! Don't send him a card. He didn't regret not having anymore love for u. So screw him save your $. You will look desperate if u send it to him. Its over move on to the next 1. ... (read in full...)
I feel as though I've been cheated on and just don't know what to do
Q. My husband and I have been married for a year and our relationship, sex life was great or so I thought. I recently went out of town with some girlfriends and left a book of sexy pictures of myself out for him to enjoy while I was gone. When I came ...
A. 11 April 2011: Whow do u know he masturbated while looking @ her pics? Maybe he was just going through some of her pics. U should confront him and see what he says and if u still feel like this I think u guys should atleast take a break and I think u should think ... (read in full...)
BF took money from daughter's room. I am not sure what to do about this relationship. Please help.
Q. here is my dilema...my boyfriend of 5 years is lazy , has lied a lot in the past, I found out last year that he got oral from another man when he was in his teens .. i have been thru a lot with this guy.. but i am the kind of person that sees the ...
A. 9 April 2011: Omg. He doesn't feel bad about anything. Btw how do u expect him to put the money back if he doesn't have a job. So what good is this guy doing for u and your daughter besides driving u crazy and stealing money,and drinking all day. Its time to stop ... (read in full...)
My 8 year old daughter is telling people she has a brother when she is an only child, how do I deal with this situation?
Q. I have just got back from having a chat with my daughters teacher.My daughter is 8yrs old.The teacher had mentioned about my daughter being tierd one particular day.She had told her teacher that her young brother had kept her awake most the night. I...
A. 5 April 2011: Like eyeswideopen said kids do have a huge imagination. But I have an 8 year old they now should know what the difference is from make believe and what is real. U should prob try getting her a puppy or some kind of pet. My nephew is an only child ... (read in full...)
My husband cheated while I was pregnant. His family knew too. How can I get over his betrayal of my trust?
Q. I have been married for 2 years now, and we have a one year old daughter. Before we got married my husband cheated on me, I didnt know, but his family did. No one told me I found out when I was 3 months pregnant, it still hurts and I cant get over ...
A. 1 April 2011: I understand why the family didn't say anything. They didn't want to get involoved. If I knew my bro was cheating on his wife it would kill me but I would never tell on him. I would be realy mad @ the boyfriend if it doesn't change try taking a ... (read in full...)
Have to see Ex-BF tomorrow and not sure I'll be able to control my anger. Help!
Q. Your Open Question: How should I act when I see my lying cheating ex boyfriend? ? My ex boyfriend lied to me, cheated and dumped me. I knew something wasn't right cos he said he doesn't want a relationship. I found out he was sleeping with s...
A. 30 March 2011: Don't give him the time or day! Don't even get and explanation for what? Tell him your over it. Meet up w/him for the personal reason and tell him u don't even want to talk about it cause your over it. Once u let him start talking he's got u back. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't seem to appreciate me sexually... is he just being friendly?
Q. I know I should be asking him this but wanted your opinion on it. Its about my boyfriend, we been dating for 3 months. I just don't feel like he likes me, sexually. He does do a lot of nice things for me like a friend would do, like help me if ...
A. 30 March 2011: You need to go out and get really nice loungerie, good wine,strawberrys, chocolate, and have some fun. U need to let show him how amazing of a girlfriend u are. Everyweekend u need to do something new. Suprise him everytime. Maybe its the samething ... (read in full...)
Inlove with my boyfriend's cousin
Q. Dear Cupid, for some time now, about 7 years, I've been with the same man, we had a baby very early in the relationship because I just wasn't damned careful enough to use more than a condom to prevent pregnancy. We had a son, whom I adore, he...
A. 28 March 2011: Omg! I know exactly how u feel. I feel the same except its his brother not cousin. Honestly because there is a child involved and they are realted u really can't be selfish about this. I know how hard it is for u not to just get that 1 kiss or 1 ... (read in full...)
Why am I hurting over him?
Q. Dear Cupid ... Im hurting. I wish if you can say something to make me feel better here is my problem, i filed for divorce almost 6 months ago even tho i tried hard to make my marriage work but there were too many issues that cant be solved and Lo...
A. 28 March 2011: I do feel bad for u,but u pretty much did need this to wake u up. Just because your not inlove w/him doesn't mean u don't love him as a person and a good friend. That's why I think your hurting so bad. They say u don't know what u have until u lose ... (read in full...)
Is a week too early to have sex?
Q. Ok i have a boyfriend and weve been talking for a week now...I want to have sex with him real bad but i dont know if its to early i dont want him to think im a whore...
A. 26 March 2011: I would take my time just a little. Especialy if u like the guy. But if 1 things leads to another and u guys r feeling it. There realy is no stopping it. Just do what feels right to u. When it happens it happens. Good luck and enjoy!... (read in full...)
Is a week too early to have sex?
Q. Ok i have a boyfriend and weve been talking for a week now...I want to have sex with him real bad but i dont know if its to early i dont want him to think im a whore...
A. 26 March 2011: I would take my time just a little. Especialy if u like the guy. But if 1 things leads to another and u guys r feeling it. There realy is no stopping it. Just do what feels right to u. When it happens it happens. Good luck and enjoy!... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't want sex to get in the way of our relationship!
Q. Please he doesn't want to have sex w/ me anymore. I am about a size 14-16 and work out frequently, keep my hair and nails done and legs shaved, lol! He is good to me but since we became engaged he avoids any situation that might turn sexual. I have ...
A. 25 March 2011: I don't think something is wrong w/u. He pretty much proposed while u were this size. Btw I'm the same size :). He should be adoring u right now your his fiance. What's gonna happen when u guys get married and have kids. if he can't handle it now. ... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't want sex to get in the way of our relationship!
Q. Please he doesn't want to have sex w/ me anymore. I am about a size 14-16 and work out frequently, keep my hair and nails done and legs shaved, lol! He is good to me but since we became engaged he avoids any situation that might turn sexual. I have ...
A. 25 March 2011: I don't think something is wrong w/u. He pretty much proposed while u were this size. Btw I'm the same size :). He should be adoring u right now your his fiance. What's gonna happen when u guys get married and have kids. if he can't handle it now. ... (read in full...)
She didnt respond when I proposed to her, how can I tell her that I love her?
Q. i met a girl in my school and i fell in love with her and i proposed her and she didn't gave response but i still love her but she doesn't. how can i tell her that i am in love with her...
A. 24 March 2011: Hi! Ok I'm gonna be honest w/u. I think u freaked her out and she thinks your crazy now. U need to act like it was a joke. I think u giys r way to young to get engaged. R u guys even dating? If not she probably is thinking it was to wierd for u to ... (read in full...)
How do I stop my relationship with my Mom, with whom I used to be so close, from deteriorating?
Q. Hey, I really hope you guys can give me advice! My relationship with my mom, as a daughter, is going from bad to horrible. When I was a child, we did everything together from shopping to swimming. I miss that. I've become so, so horrible in terms of ...
A. 22 March 2011: Omg! U poor thing. I think u are acting out cause now your older and understand that you've been adopted and u have a lot of anger in u. I think your taking it out on the Angel who saved u. She gave u something that was takin from u. If u need to ... (read in full...)
How do I best maintain my relationship with my teenage son when I start dating after divorce?
Q. I would like advice on how to make my relationship with my 13 y.o. son the best it can be after divorce. His Mom and I parted over a year ago, and were recently divorced. We have both moved on with new partners, and while I wish we could have ...
A. 21 March 2011: I think this is normal for a teen to act a little distant and closes down sometimes. I don't think it realy has to much to do w/the divorce. I think your doing a wonderful job witch is still being in his life and showing him that his feelings also ... (read in full...)
I cant get hold of him to find out if it is over or not! Should I email his baby's mother to find out? Or shall I just wait and hope that there is still a chance? Or simply move on?
Q. hey, this might be a bit long so sorry in advnce. my life is a mess at it all started when i met "my boyfriend" everything was ok for the first 3 months and then everything started to become confussing. it first was his ex girl friend sti...
A. 21 March 2011: Omg! How many more red flags do u need!! Yes girl he is playing u!!! Why is she soooo important to him? I understand she's his babys momma but why doesn't he want her to know about u. Obviously he's gonna say No what else is he gonna say Yes honey ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's ex text him at 3am - should I let this go and if so, how do I do it?
Q. I checked my boyfriend’s phone about a month ago and there was an indication that he had received a text from an old f**k buddy at 3am. We have been going through a difficult time recently and I had been feeling very insecure in the relationship ...
A. 21 March 2011: I honestly think u should let it go. The reason I think u should is because its not his fault she texted him. He can't control what she did. I don't think he was expecting it from her. As long as he told u that nothing happened u shouldn't have ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants me return or exchange a foster child, but I would like to adopt
Q. I fostered a three year todler, with a view to adopt, against my boyfriend's will last year. We are now engaged to be married in next few months. he is still not for the idea of the boy being around. He is an active boy, and like any other child can ...
A. 21 March 2011: I'm sorry! But what does your man not have a heart. This child is not a pet or some type of clothing that u could just return or exchange! This poor little boy finaly has someone that loves him. Your man should be excepting of this child. He is now ... (read in full...)
It's been one week and I still haven't heard from her
Q. Me and my ex broke up one week ago and I still havent heard from her at all. I miss her so much and dont know what to think about it. I leave for school today an hour away from where she lives, my small home town. Im going to wait a week more or two ...
A. 21 March 2011: I think if u do miss her that much u should call her and talk. Why would u wait for her? A girl likes it when a man takes control of the relationship sometimes to. I don't know why u guys broke up but if it is because of something u did please make ... (read in full...)
Are my ex's family being inappropriate?
Q. My son's bio father, we will call him Cord, his family randomly called me the other day over and over and over and over. WHen I listened to the voicemail it said,"Wow you sound really down on your voicemail. You need to call us. (pause) I need a...
A. 17 March 2011: Omg!!! How dare she talk to u like that. She's pretty much demanding u get her a job. I would call that women and tell her the truth and say I don't apreciate u speaking like that to me. Omg she's lucky that call wasn't made to me. It would have ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend had a child and I haven't told my parents yet
Q. My girlfriend gave birth 3 months ago. We study abroad and were able to hide it from our parents. She managed to tell hers though when she was half way through her pregnancy. The thing is our parents don't really approve of the two of us being ...
A. 15 March 2011: I think u should open up to witch ever parent u feel more comfortable with. If u come out to both parents @ the same time they will both feed off of eachothers anger. So I think u should do it 1 @ a time. I realy wish u the best. U realy need to ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend had a child and I haven't told my parents yet
Q. My girlfriend gave birth 3 months ago. We study abroad and were able to hide it from our parents. She managed to tell hers though when she was half way through her pregnancy. The thing is our parents don't really approve of the two of us being ...
A. 13 March 2011: I think once your parents see there 1st grandchild they will be supportive. They realy don't have a choice now. I think they will be more mad in the future when they missed out on all the fun part of the baby. U need to stand up and not act like ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend lied to me about being a virgin and its really eating away at me now
Q. Hello all, I am in a comiteed relationship from last 4-5 years. When i had sex with my girlfriend for the first time i knew that she is not virgin, i often used to ask but she always refused, but some time back because of my forcing she told me ...
A. 8 March 2011: I think as long as u guys love eachother that's all that matters. When she lost her virginity she didn't know who u were she didn't know it was gonna upset u. So I'm pretty sure if she didn't do it to make u upset. That's why they say leave the past ... (read in full...)
Unexpectedly pregnant and not sure if I really want a termination....
Q. Ok so here goes. Im in a relationship with an amazing man. he's 22 and im 26 We've been together for just over a year and i have fallen unexpectedly pregnant. We have discussed it and decided the best option in a termination ( I don't want you views ...
A. 7 March 2011: The decision is not yours alone. He has the other 50 percent right over this child. I think before you do anything you should have a conversation about this. You don't want to do something that he's going blame you for later on. I'm really against ... (read in full...)
Married at 22, been trying to fall pregnant for 8 years now, please advise
Q. i need advise urgently.i got married when i was 22 ive been trying to fall pregnant for 8 years!is it possible that i may not have kids i am cying day and night i dont know what to do pls help me...
A. 5 March 2011: Make sure u go to a fertility doctor to check your tubes make sure its clear. Also check your horomone level. It took my sister 7 yrs to finaly get pregnant and have a baby. It turned out her horomone level was to high. The more u stress the less ... (read in full...)
My Bipolar Mother Dislikes My Boyfriend. Now What?
Q. This is kind of a two-part question. The first part is what do I do about my parents not liking my boyfriend for a reason that isn't true, and the second is am I living in an abusive situation? My boyfriend and I are really close. We are be...
A. 2 March 2011: Omg! U poor thing. I realy feel bad for u. I don't think your parents r doing this to be mean. Your mom is on meds for being bi-polar so its still not upto her how she acts sometimes. Meds don't always work,and I think your dad acts this way towards ... (read in full...)
I can't control my feelings towards my brother-in-law!
Q. I have a Huge crush on my hb brother. I don't know what it is about him he just makes me go crazy. We don't flirt much,but we always catch eachother staring @ eachother. I don't want to have an affair w/him because I'm against it. I can't help my ...
A. 2 March 2011: I have been trying to avoid him. This has been going on for 4 yrs now. It just kinda happened out of no where. My hb and his brother are very close so they always hangout. I can't tell my hb not to bring him over cause he's gonna ask why. Btw he ... (read in full...)
My friend's boyfriend is messing around on her. Should I interfer?
Q. Hi, I'm Pink. I'm 18 and I have a boyfriend. My problem is not about my boyfriend, though. It's about his close friend Ralph, whom he also shares an apartment with. Ralph is 17, loves to talk, and, to hear my boyfriend say it, has a complica...
A. 1 March 2011: The answer to this Q is NO! That's his and her business. She knows he's not a good boyfriend and she's still w/him. Also it will prob cause problems between him and your man then u and your man will have problems. Worry about only yourself trust me ... (read in full...)
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