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36-40,
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writes:Okay, so I am after this girl now. Shes 2 years older to me, shes really beautiful. Her sisters are also my sisters friends.. But I would just like to list down some of the things she done in the past weeks, which sometimes leaves me in a confused state.Okay, we had our first outing which was both of us alone which was just a chat in a coffee shop. After that outing she started to send me a lot of texts to the extend of her sisters like started to interact simultaneously with me,(sort of like teasing me and her). So at this point of time, I really was getting hyped up in a good way about her that she was like shes interestedThen when my classes started, and her break was also over, we couldn't really text a lot and stuff, but it was more of facebook chats. But throughout the next few months, it was like and up and down thing, such as sometimes when i tend to send her a text every two days. She would not reply me. So I give her the benefit that maybe shes more busy and stuff. And my buddies even adviced me not to go so desperately on her, so i had to like cut down on my texts to her etcSo I did that, and in the next two weeks or so, i get like missed calls from her and all of a sudden, from her sister which i don't text much. So it was like so weird at that point, like it got me thinking, whether its true enough that shes really interested in me????So then when I actually started to text her again, she was like so happy, and we had real like sleepless nights chats and stuff and planning a possible 2nd meeting which i was long waiting for. So my exams were coming up, and we both like told each other, after my exams she was going take me to her place and go for some outings.So as my exams were over I contacted her and said and it was her wish if she wanted to call me since she could be busy, so she said okay. But throughout the two weeks she started acting weird sometimes. Like she was playing this prank where she used the friends picture as her profile picture, and when i chatted with her, shes starts like asking me crazy questions on whether she can set me up with her and i said no in a good way many times (cause i know shes a crazy and fun girl), but it got me wondering like why would she do that...is that a bad sign...or was she testing me whether i like her???Then the last part was when it came to my third week. I thought she forgot about my outing with her, so i actually called her and told her that we should have the outing. She says okay on friday. And till friday, it seems she was moving to her new place, so she was kinda busy. But when it came on that day, our outing was cancelled by her. she said she still hasn't moved all her things yet.Ok so, the question is, now I know most of you are going say, that i should be open for other girls or go for others, well i am doing that, but my mind is always coming back to her again. Although i technically did not break out to her and say i love her yet, but i thought that she would at least get the hint that i like her and build the relationship progressively. So.......I really want to pursue her, but how should i still ask her again for the 2nd outing, meaning like how long should i wait to ask her again or...is she really liking me?, cause i am trying to think positively about her,...so please give me your opinions for me about her????? Thanks so much(SORRY FOR THE LENGTHY STORY, BUT THAT'S THE STORY, PLEASE ANSWER TRUTHFULLY AND WITH MATURITY THANKS)
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reader, la petite belle  +, writes (28 June 2011):
 hmmm,... I think that she likes you but sometimes we need you guys to finish the deal. I used to go out with a guy, he used to text me, call me and I would reciprocate but he never asked me to be his girlfriend so I stopped contacting him. We had gone out for about 2 months and nothing had happened, so I told myself that I didn't need to waste my time on him... maybe all you need to do is ask her... it could be that she's waiting for you.
About the cancelling... I think she was being honest... I would legitimately do the same, specially after moving!!! which can be soo hard!!!
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