Another guy instead of my boyfriend gives me butterflies. Is the allure just that the other guy is a mystery to me?
Q. Here's to hoping you guys can give me some opinions. I've never been in a serious relationship before the current one with my BF. We've been together for 9 months. Before him I always chased the guy, getting all excited if my crush talked to me...
A. 30 March 2010: this world is not quite perfect...it seems your bf is a nice guy, he loves and care about you thats more importent being in the relationship. But, as you said you aren't attracted to him but another guy. well, it could be a fantasy? if you love your ... (read in full...)
Who do I choose, my husband or my lover?
Q. I'm married but start loving to anish my boyfriend.My husband also love me but i never like his attitude and arguments ? I can't divorced with my husband because our family not permitted this they try to solve the problem between me and my husband ...
A. 29 March 2010: agree with all the readers above and, 'domo kun' is absolutely right about it. you shouldn't cheat on him behind his back emotionally. You betrayed him, and he still doesn't know your dirty secrets between you and anish, the face is that he still ... (read in full...)
Loose? Or control issues?
Q. Ok...I have visited this site on several occassions with the same dilemma...my boyfriend complains about sex with me. He says that my vagina and anus are loose and I do not feel the same way I did when he met me one year ago. The anus I can ...
A. 17 March 2010: this guy is abusing you way too much. Get out of this relationship asap, longer you stay with him the more you suffer. Next time when he says this, tell him dickless man got small willy...ask him to get implant something to enlarge it. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't want sex, does this mean he finds me unattractive?
Q. hello im 19 and my boyfriend doesnt want sex does this mean he find me unatrative?...
A. 17 March 2010: hmm more details would be great to answer your questions. there could be some factors that causing him not to have sex with you. 1. heavy work pressure 2. poor diets and rest 3. womens sex drive higher than man 4. porn addiction and frequent mat... (read in full...)
I lost my erection, now she thinks I'm not attracted her!
Q. Hi, I have a bit of a problem. Last night while in bed with my girlfriend, she started trying to arouse me. It worked, I got an erection and everything, but then we had some trouble with penetration. She was on top, and after a minute of her ...
A. 23 October 2009: its completely normal for a men to suffer from keeping it for long...she should understand that by acting like that only make the whole thing hard to resolve. I would say you're probably nervous or tired for some reason but it doesn't mean shes not ... (read in full...)
The day I was going to ask her to marry me she told me she had cheated on me
Q. My gf of 4 yrs went on a all girls trip south and when she came home she told me she hooked up with another guy. She claims they never had sex just made out and did alot of touching. The day she came home I actually had plan to ask her to marry me. ...
A. 28 September 2009: well, if she is telling you all this then you have to know its true..she loves you somehow and didn't want to cheat on you either. Probably it was all drunken mistake but you still need to sit down with her and talk about it to makesure everythings ... (read in full...)
I gave him bj but he couldn't stay hard and didn't cum
Q. hey i have this boyfriend.. we have been together for 2 years and we havent had sex till now... i am not quite ready for it and well my guy hasnt pressured me either... which is nice. we are both virgins and we are both 23. yesterday was ...
A. 21 September 2009: probably he was a bit nervous having you to do that or he masturbates alot. just take the things slow next time when you go down, more cuddling and kissing before going down. Sometimes guys likes gentle and long stroke while performing oral. And the ... (read in full...)
Not even married yet and the sex is gone
Q. I'm sure this is a common problem but I need help, I am deeply in love with my fiance but I do not feel we are sexually compatible. I have all of the sexual energy in the world and he just doesn't, he's not into it and never has new ...
A. 5 September 2009: i agree back pain limits sexual performance. I was in a same situation few years ago and still hurts sometimes pretty bad. Get him to do some therapy or bring him to see orthopedic specialist near your place if any. Reassure him that everythings ... (read in full...)
I'm away for long periods of time, is she cheating?
Q. I am the same guy who asked this question on August 31st: "Her past has been eating me inside as my mind can't accept it, please advise." Thanks ever one. I never wrote as to why her past has been bothering me more now than ever. Due to my ...
A. 5 September 2009: being away for the long period of time from your wife definately making her feel lonely and distant. You need to reassure her everythngs gonna be fine and work on getting back together with your kids. Tell her how special shes in your life. How ... (read in full...)
I want to talk after sex, he doesn't!
Q. when i have sex with my boyfriend i love it but when we get done he is always tired and it seems like he never wants to talk after we do and i love to talk after im a romantic girl that likes to talk about it after its over. he is always tired i ...
A. 5 September 2009: well some people don't like to talk after sex others do, just talk to him nicely when hes on good mood before you engage into sex.... (read in full...)
B/f constantly accuses me of cheating but I'm not!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 months now and we jus recently broke up and got back together bc he thought I was cheating on him and I've gave him my email address and password give him my phone everything jus to prove to him ...
A. 31 August 2009: hes so controld freak...if i was you, wouldn't stay in this kinda relationship you know. If you stay longer you will suffer more pain in the future. So, i would suggest cut the tie loose and move on. You deserve so much better sweetie..rmb there ... (read in full...)
How often does it happen where a man can't get it up?
Q. Can I get the opinions of guys out there - how often do you have problems with not being able to "get it up"? The other night a guy I have just started dating and I tried to have sex for the first time. He's about 27. We were both very comfortable...
A. 31 August 2009: some man find very hard to keep it up esp when they're nervous. It's all mind thing, can happen onces in a while to any man out there. Try to take the things slow, next time creat a new atmosphere in the room and spice up then things will help. ... (read in full...)
I am getting so sick of this guy...should I let him go?
Q. I am so sick of this dude ive been talking too he pisses me off all the time but i just cant let him go,even tho we aint togather i think i fell in love with him i just dony know what to do....like today we were supposed to go watch a movie togather ...
A. 29 August 2009: he doesn't care about your feelings, so don't waste your time being in this relationship. You deserve much more better than that. remb theres plenty of fish in the sea, don't worry just move on.... (read in full...)
How big or not big do ladies like him to be?
Q. Yes this is a freaky question but I'm in the mood so here it goes, ladies, when it comes to the cut of a penis for you, what's your preference. Yea we got all these topics about "I'm too small" or "I'm too big", but not too much on " what she ...
A. 16 August 2009: sorry this is just women's opinions but i would like to say something, anything bigger than 7.5 or 8 inch complete waste. I don't think woment can take 9 inch penis all the way in. maybe its good for oral or i don't know. Why would man or women want ... (read in full...)
Will my 'bent penis' affect my ability to have sex in future?
Q. Have had a normal sex life as a maried man. Lost my wife about 10 years ago and apart from masturbation have not had a partner since. Recently I noticed that my penis is bent almost at 90 degrees when erect. The more erect it becomes the more it ...
A. 16 August 2009: shouldn't have any problems having a curv penis as long as its not severly deformed,actually some women loves it coz it can hit the g-spot during intercourse.... (read in full...)
My husband took me back after I cheated, but I don't want to be with him.
Q. I have been married for eleven years now. We have a five year old daughter who is my world. In the past two years my marriage has been on very shaky ground. I do not respect my husband because he has made selfish decisions and has not included me ...
A. 5 August 2009: why such a big punishment?? becouse your hb is selfish? criticized about your family members? is that the reason to cheat on him behind his bk? how pathetic are you! if weren't happy you should be honest and tell him about your feelings instead of ... (read in full...)
Should I let my husband have sex with my best friend?
Q. Is it wrong that my husband wants to sleep with my best friend and wants me to join with him we have been with another man but I don't like that fact he wants his turn with a female now we love her both very much she is very close to us like family ...
A. 2 August 2009: sorry you can't just take, its give and take..you shouldn't have done with the guy den, its not fair for your husb as you both agreed to have a threesome at the first place? and, now you don't like the idea of having threesome which might cause some ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is obsessed with licking my toes!
Q. my boyfriend has this weird obsession with licking my toes and it kinda creeps me out when he licks my toes but im afraid that if i don't let him lick my toes he'll break up with me and go out with some other girl who will let him lick their toes ...
A. 2 August 2009: hes trying give you more pleasure coz he knows it really turns women on in some cases. nxt time when you want to do it just makesure you take bath first shouldn't be problems and if you don't like it doing this just tell him your not into it he ... (read in full...)
How can I make my boyfriend orgasm during dry sex?
Q. hey there, ok so when your boyfriend doesn't orgasm during dry sex, does that mean that he's not getting any pleasure ??? how can i make him orgasm ?? thanks so much =]...
A. 2 August 2009: more foreplay before you engage in sex will work, or ask him how does he like to be touched, what most turns him on?? hope it helps.
cheers... (read in full...)
After 16 years I kicked him out, now what?
Q. if a husband cheated in the past, would he still cheat in the future? he also lies a lot to cover up , and also he dosen't show love or caring. he loves to talk about others problems never want to face his, he also like to blame everything on me it ...
A. 18 July 2009: one time cheater is always cheater..so, cut him lose and move on. why would you waste your time being with heartless man?? he has no respect for you and will put thru alot more if you stay with this guy. you deserve far better.
hope it helps
cheer... (read in full...)
My ex keeps popping up in my mind
Q. Hey guys, Well i have a bit of a problem on my hands and desperately need a bit of help!! Sorry if this post is a bit long, so bare with me!! I am 21yrs old, I am bi-sexual, and I have a girlfriend who is 24yrs old, who i have been with for ne...
A. 15 July 2009: it seems your ex is a nice person. After you've dumped him for your current gf , he still wants to take you back coz he loves you to bits...you said both were happy and theres nothing wrong with your ex, why did you break up with him at the first ... (read in full...)
I wish this guy I was dating was black.
Q. Hi, well im 14 and ive always dated black boys. im white and recently im dating a white boy, we're "in love" but i dont love him a lot because he is white but when i date a black boy i always love them so much but they play me. I don't know wha...
A. 2 July 2009: why only black mans?? you should pay more attention to the personality of a person not the color of the skin. theres nothing wrong being with this cool white dude if he treats you better. and ohh dont always think all the black mans are well ... (read in full...)
What made my b/f think he had the RIGHT to cheat on ME? Why do cheaters think they can get away with it?
Q. What I would like to know is what makes people think they have the right to cheat on their partners and think they can get away with it...i mean where the hell do they get off!!!! My boyfriend of 8 years cheated on me and gave me an STD the dirty, r...
A. 2 July 2009: i hate being in those situations..sorry feel bad for you! i would say only one thing is "move on" definately theres someone who can give you all the respect, love and care everything that you want.
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Feel guilty for hanging out with another guy, was it wrong?
Q. okay, so i've been going out with this guy for a little over a month now but he's liked me for 2 years. i guess i don't like him as much as i thought i did but he's so good to me and i just cant bring myself to break up with him no matter how bad i ...
A. 29 June 2009: don't do that unless your in an open relationship. Things will get worse if you don't tell the person the truths. It will be consider cheating anyway. Just call it quits and find someone you like to be with. ... (read in full...)
She's trying to win my trust again, but this feeling is eating me alive from the inside!
Q. I have to start by saying that i can't believe i'm doing this. But i can't sleep, so i need advices... I've been with this girl for almost a year now. And we love each other so much and want to have a future together. But as with any relation...
A. 29 June 2009: if i was in your situation, i would leave her alone and move on. nobody like to play game when come to relationship...she has cheated on you and probably planning to attempt again if you pick couple of fights.... (read in full...)
Sexual frustration!
Q. I am having problems with my bf sexually and its really getting us down. At the beginning of our relationship he managed to make me come on a couple of occasions which was really good and he seemed really proud of himself. Then had exams and stuff ...
A. 21 June 2009: more foreplay before intercourse can help..just take the things slow especially him. sex can be pleasurable if you both know what you're doing hope it helps
cheers,
xx... (read in full...)
I think she cheated, she won't admit to it..just leave her?
Q. I have been with the same girl for 3 years. This is the longest relationship I ve ever been in. The main reason why I got with her because at the time I knew for A fact she could be faitahfull and so could I. All my other relationships ended either ...
A. 15 June 2009: definately shes entile to have her own privacy but she is going out of line.... i think she cheated on you and planning to cheat again. Confront her while shes doing this and that....dump her if she continues to doing all this stuffs. find someone ... (read in full...)
How many couples have sex when the woman in on her period?
Q. Hi everybody, I am wondering how many women or couples out there have sex when the woman is on her period? I have to do it with my boyfriend everyday no matter what and I am not about to skip the sex because of my period. I don't see the problem ...
A. 15 June 2009: if you're doing this very first time then its gonna be a bit scarrry lol just go to bath do it in running water.... (read in full...)
How can I move on completely?
Q. I broke up with my ex girlfriend about 6 months ago. I'm 25 now and she is 21. I went out with her for almost 3 years. Our first two years was the best time on my life, we were so romantic and so on. We have so much in common and I loved her so much ...
A. 13 June 2009: sorry to hear that buddy...but the only way is to forget about her and move on. I know its hard but you gotta do it for you own good...she seems completely over you and decided to be with someone else. Don't be sad this is not the end of the ... (read in full...)
He covers my mouth and talks about other women during sex!
Q. Self Centered In Bed My boyfriend of 9 yrs is 16 yrs older than me. Im 25, he is 42. Throughout the 9 years, 90% of what he does in bed is cover my face with a pillow and have sex with my mouth taking about other women. The othe...
A. 13 June 2009: the more longer you stay with this guy the worst it will be so cut him off and move on...you deserve to be treated better and you will find someone who can make you happy.
hope it helps
cheers.
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He doesn't want to see me any more, but I know he cares?
Q. i have been seeing a guy for the past 4years.its had its up and downs. he has felt that i have put constant pressure on him and am probably guilty of it. when we are together we normally get along fine. lack of time is the problem and i put pressure ...
A. 5 June 2009: agree with baby duck. It's the best for you to move on as he decided to move on...definately there will be someone who can give you all what you wanted. ... (read in full...)
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