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writes:I am the same guy who asked this question on August 31st: "Her past has been eating me inside as my mind can't accept it, please advise." Thanks ever one. I never wrote as to why her past has been bothering me more now than ever. Due to my immigration related issue, I have been away from her for the last 2 years. During this time we did see each other along with my two kids. Both time she was very cold and we had many fights. I can understand her bitterness for being away from me. She used to be very warm and passionate but now she is like if I say I love you, she will say ok, she never replies. She is a very attractive woman and I know for a fact that she was wanted by many guys from very powerful families in my home country. Her ex was from a very prominent family and still around. She is not a typical girls of our culture. She was with him for 8 years and I wonder if she is still in touch with him, as she is quite most of the time around me and if I inquire, she try to change the topic. She gets angry as I asked her a quite straight question. Do u guys think she is taking refuge in her old contacts. please dont take me as a insecured/jeleous husband as I have never though like this about her. I have been away for long periods many time, but this time I could feel it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009): your worries are of not much of a base. be more romantic and be passionate. dont think about other facts.... it will just crush you.. . one eg: can you assure that if you were staying with her also she cannot see another guy?? she would be able to be with another if she wants. as the same way as you. so forget about such things, and always be a helping hand for her. support her and she will be yours and yours only.
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reader, joe26  +, writes (5 September 2009):
 being away for the long period of time from your wife definately making her feel lonely and distant. You need to reassure her everythngs gonna be fine and work on getting back together with your kids. Tell her how special shes in your life. How badly you miss her everyday. Give her extra care, show her how much you love. Things will get better when the time comes dont worry. About her past, you shouldn't worry too much coz its her past who dosn't..no one can change her past. She likes you thats why she has choosen you over her ex. If shes in love with her ex why would she leave her bf of 8 years? 8 years is quite long, not easy to get over or replace someone else in her life. Next time try to take the things slow. Hope it will helpcheersx
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