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writes:I'm sure this is a common problem but I need help, I am deeply in love with my fiance but I do not feel we are sexually compatible. I have all of the sexual energy in the world and he just doesn't, he's not into it and never has new fantasies or desires and when we try s and m or bondage he can't keep it up because he feels bad that I'm tied up. Don't get me wrong, he tries, but its just not working and I've only had an orgasm once. He has a back injury and I know that limits his movements and ability but he promises sex will be better once he heals, but who knows how long that will be. Any advice? Should I stay or is there no hope for the situation? I've tried vibrators but its not the same...
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell...to be honest...I do everything. I mean EVERYTHING, so I am not thinking I am the problem. I just wonder how things will be after he heals...I wonder will I be satisfied? Emotionally I am 500%.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat's the problem, I don't know how to work it out. We've discussed it so much that I'm afraid to bring it up again because I fear it is damaging to his self esteem. He probably thinks its his skill, which its not. But this is my only doubt before marriage.
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reader, joe26  +, writes (5 September 2009):
 i agree back pain limits sexual performance. I was in a same situation few years ago and still hurts sometimes pretty bad. Get him to do some therapy or bring him to see orthopedic specialist near your place if any. Reassure him that everythings going to be ok. Take the things slow. Ask him what are the biggest turn on for him. Try to spice up things. It's hard for man to keep it up when they have back injury especially if its related to spinal cord. Its really pain in the azz lol.Hope it helps
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reader, Chippy2 +, writes (5 September 2009):
I would suggest that you do not make plans for the wedding until this is worked out!
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