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writes:if a husband cheated in the past, would he still cheat in the future? he also lies a lot to cover up , and also he dosen't show love or caring. he loves to talk about others problems never want to face his, he also like to blame everything on me it is never his fault it is always me! after what he puts me through i got the blame, he like to act like a man just on me but he can't step up to other and defend him self. he use to come home telling me stories about one special girl he never stoped talking about her and her life what does he do how sexy she is and everyone sees her in his store they thing she hot but i never got complimented from him no matter how good i look i never hear good things out of his mouth i love to help other but his never there for me and the kids i am about to give up on him i kicked him out of the house 10 days ago what should i do after 16 years i need some help thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (18 July 2009):
 Generally speaking, once a married man starts cheating we are going to do it again. Maybe not for a while but once you've crossed that line it is going to happen again. That's why dogs that bite a person get put down. However, even putting the cheating to one side, this husband of yours just doesn't sound as if he is worth the effort. You are young enough to build a great life with someone else.
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reader, joe26  +, writes (18 July 2009):
 one time cheater is always cheater..so, cut him lose and move on. why would you waste your time being with heartless man?? he has no respect for you and will put thru alot more if you stay with this guy. you deserve far better.
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