Sometimes I wish she would just yell at me so we could make up!
Q. Well it's been awhile since I got divorced, thanks for the help Aunts. I now have a new problem. I started dating a wonderful woman last October and things were wonderful. Having been in an abusive relationship though I have had a lot to learn a...
A. 31 August 2012: Well a couple of weeks ago I told her I could not be just friends right now. She stated I should date other people "BUT NOT GET SERIOUS WITH THEM". What the HELL does that mean?... (read in full...)
Sometimes I wish she would just yell at me so we could make up!
Q. Well it's been awhile since I got divorced, thanks for the help Aunts. I now have a new problem. I started dating a wonderful woman last October and things were wonderful. Having been in an abusive relationship though I have had a lot to learn a...
A. 21 July 2012: Actually that is what I was doing prior to the breakup. LOL I know yelling at me won't fix things that was actually sarcastic humor. I've offered to take her Mom and daughter out in the evening so she can study but she hasn't taken me up on it. ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I wish she would just yell at me so we could make up!
Q. Well it's been awhile since I got divorced, thanks for the help Aunts. I now have a new problem. I started dating a wonderful woman last October and things were wonderful. Having been in an abusive relationship though I have had a lot to learn a...
A. 21 July 2012: Just to clear it up. We don't yell at each other, but sometimes I just don't know what to do when I feel like she is criticizing me. Even though she is not, sometimes it feels that way. I can become defensive and I'm not sure how to get past that.... (read in full...)
I feel like I have failed as a parent, please help!
Q. I am a mother of a 14 year old daughter that persists on having sex with older boys/men. She's already admitted to having sex with a 27 year old and now she's aiming at 17 year old's. At the beginning of April 2011 she went off with someone from ...
A. 7 June 2011: For starters file charges against the child molester she had sex with. ... (read in full...)
Can a man really be too sore for some "morning loving" after an evening of sex?
Q. So last night me and my boyfriend (together a few months) had a date, came back to mine ended up in bed and had some really great sex. Super! This morning when we woke up I was still feeling horny and started nuzzling in, stroking him and being af...
A. 7 June 2011: Uhm YES... (read in full...)
Can I believe him when he says he didn't cheat after he already cheated twice before?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for two years. We have broken up twice. The first time we broke up it was because he cheated on me. I had a feeling he did and after asking a him a couple of times if he did he finally told me he had cheated, but he ...
A. 7 June 2011: No, he sounds like a seriel cheater.... (read in full...)
Which is worse, her cheating or my looking at her email?
Q. Long story short, girl I was seeing I found out was having sexy liaisons on the Internet with a couple of guys she knows. They didn't have sex or were intimate (I don't think, anyway) but exchanged a bunch of messages like "I miss you" or computer ...
A. 7 June 2011: I won't bash you, if you didn't have a reason to check up on her you wouldn't have snooped. I had the exact same thing, that's how I found out my wife of 21 years was cheating on me. Of course I'm the Ahole because I snooped on her. Dump her ... (read in full...)
I am wondering wh he takes his cell phone to the bathroom with him? Other females? Am I over-reacting?
Q. Am i being paranoid? My bf's friend was calling to see if we wanted to go eat. The the friend said he would call back. A few minutes later my b/f says i am going to the bathroom and i am taking my cell phone...i said why would you tell me that? He...
A. 1 May 2011: I take mine into the bathroom all the time. It's better than a magazine, I play games usually or check my email. I even occasionally check my email, I do NOT have secret conversations of any kind. Just gives me something to do when I'm doing my ... (read in full...)
My soon to be ex wife isn't giving me rights to the house I'm paying for!
Q. My wife and I are separated, almost divorced, and waiting for our house to sell. She lives there, I live in a condo. Money is VERY tight. I pay half her bills and half the mortgage. I visit my son there at least every other weekend and some ...
A. 9 January 2011: If you are not divorced and have no court order, the house is just as much your as it is hers. If there is a court order then you and her must abide by it. If you don't have a lawyer get one NOW, or you WILL get screwed, and not even kissed ... (read in full...)
Why does my wife not instigate sex?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 16 years. Sex has been a roller coaster. We have three beautiful children that are fantastic. "Susan", my wife, has been a nurse for 16 years. I've been in construction for about the same. My issue with "Susan" is ...
A. 13 September 2010: Haven't you people read what he wrote. He does ALL the work, I'm in the same situation. I've talked to her, I gave her the massages, I always hold her hand and tell her she is beautiful etc... And yet I get NOTHING back other than some sexercise ... (read in full...)
Guys: How beautiful would a girl have to be for you to cheat with her?
Q. They say that a guy may not purposely go out to find someone to cheat with, but that if someone latches on to THEM, they would be willing to cheat. Guys, how beautiful would a girl have to be in order to get you to cheat on your significant other ...
A. 12 September 2010: It depends, after to being married to a physically beautiful woman for 20 years it's hard to find someone to beat her looks even at 49 she looks like 35. The problem is she is not a very nice person (even got arrested several months ago for family ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid i'll start messing around behind his back again! should I walk away from our marriage?
Q. Help....so confused iv been with my husband 24 years married 19 years two beautiful grow up children, over the past 10 years iv felt neglected unwanted unloved,i felt so low lack of confidence i started having affairs,i hate myself and feel discusse...
A. 8 September 2010: Walk away, you obviously cannot commit to him. So go on your way so he can get on with his life. If you love him let him go, or commit to him. ... (read in full...)
Is there any way that you can make someone want you?
Q. I know this may sound silly but ive seen it happen before and i jsut wondered if there was a chance, is there any way that you can make someone want you after they've said they dont. I know that does kinda answer itself as a big NO but theres so...
A. 8 September 2010: All you can do is plant the seed and then let it grow. (put it in his head that you could be something more than a friend) You water it and feed it with friendship, and it will either die or blossom. You can't make him do something but you can ... (read in full...)
Shaved, trimmed or natural?
Q. What do guys prefer? Shaved, trimmed or natural? ...
A. 6 September 2010: Every man is different, me I personally prefer shaved smooth.... (read in full...)
I like sniffing dirty panties
Q. I am obsessed with dirty panties i always go around sniffing my girlfriends dirty panties with out her knowimg is this normal and do others have the same problem....
A. 5 September 2010: Sorry but I disagree, there is something abnormal about sniffing dirty panties. AND unhealthy.j... (read in full...)
How do I overlook his big ears?
Q. I met someone who is very good looking, funny, smart, and sweet. I am sexually attracted to him buttttt his ears!!!! lol they're kinda big, my friends are telling me im crazy and that they didnt notice, idk why im a little obsessive and friends ...
A. 5 September 2010: How would you feel if he said your are a beautiful, funny sweet woman BUTTT you need a boob job or a nose job or YOUR ears are to big. Come on if you are so worried about perfection then you had better be perfect yourself.... (read in full...)
Shaky leg problem!!!
Q. well. I have something to ask. I was having sex with my boyfriend the other day for the first time. He started fingering me and then we were on the bed. Before I know it, his clothes and mine are on the floor. He entered me and then my legs starting ...
A. 5 September 2010: It was excitement and probably a little scared. Don't worry it will go away as you relax and enjoy the sex.... (read in full...)
The man who loves me is married. He says he's never fallen for anyone else, not even his wife!
Q. I have fallen head over heels with a married man. I've known him for years, and always fancied him but never ever thought he would feel the same. Only a few weeks ago did he tell me that he loves me. He honestly said he didn't fall in love with his...
A. 3 September 2010: It depends on the man. I see plenty of the Bertha-better-than-you's are here condemning you for their own moral values. Forget THEIR moral values and follow YOURS. Yes a man can, will and do leave their wives for other women. I would leave my ... (read in full...)
Is my younger brother curious?
Q. Is it cute or is it funny if your younger brother wants to always give you a massage? My brother is 14. If I am just sitting around he likes to sit by me. It's kind of creepy. But I know boys can act weird sometimes but is it normal they he ...
A. 1 September 2010: It depends on what you mean by touchy feely. It may be hormones or it may just be you have grown up and are more aware of it and he is still on the wavelength where you and him used to wrestle all the time. You don't give us enough info in your ... (read in full...)
Any successful stepdads or step mums out there?
Q. This is probably a long shot but prove me wrong, I'm looking for advice from 'successful' step dads out there. I'm a 29 guy dating a 27 year girl with 2 kids (2 and 5). I have found 0 success stories on the internet about being a step dad,...
A. 1 September 2010: I have successfully been a stepdad for 19 years. She was 9 when she moved in with us. It's not that hard to do, you simply accept them for what they are. You daughter/son, and treat them that way. Forget the whole step dad how shall we split bills ... (read in full...)
Thanks to my ex I feel extremely insecure about my small breasts
Q. This is going to sound stupid, but I have a huge complex with my small boobs, thanks to my ex. We didn't break up because of that, we broke up because he was abusive and too controlling. But the thing is, in some occasions he bluntly told me ...
A. 1 September 2010: Your ex is an idiot and in no way speaks for all men. I don't like large breasts at all. Small boobs on a thing girl turn me on. All men are different but after High School most of us grow up and realize that big boobs just mean more sag as you ... (read in full...)
We are having an affair, could he be really looking for love while being married...?
Q. I am a married woman, having a affair with a married man. We just kind of fell into it and were clear that we both wanted more than what a affair offers but willing to see where this goes. Neither of us I suppose are ready to call it quits in our ...
A. 31 August 2010: Love happens, you really can't help it. I've fallen for a woman at work and it surprised me. I wasn't looking for it, wasn't expecting it. It JUST happened, those of you chastising her have no idea what you are talking about. ... (read in full...)
What do guys think of girls with short hair?
Q. I really want my hair cut shorter and wanted to ask guys what they think of short hair on girls? I'm 17 and hang around with people who are into festivals and indie stuff but I'd like views from a wider group of guys (and girls I guesss) who aren't ...
A. 31 August 2010: Depends on your face shape. If you have a softer rounder face than short hair works. If you have thin sharp features don't do it.... (read in full...)
What do guys like in girls?
Q. What do guys like in girls? Do they like straight teeth, blonde hair, brown hair, certain color eyes, etc. Also, what personality do they want girls to have?...
A. 31 August 2010: The most beautiful woman I know is not physically that beautiful. But I find her extremely sexy. Why because she is absolutely the sweetest most caring woman I have ever met. She is an incredible daughter and an even better mother for her children. ... (read in full...)
He was found with an STD,I was not. I don't know how this happened?
Q. I don't know it this has been discussed before but if anyone can help. I am on vacation right now with my family and recently, my boyfriend revealed to me that he has been tested and found out with gonorrhea. I was very furious, I had been just ou...
A. 28 August 2010: A lab CAN and DO make mistakes. Many years ago I thought I had gonorrhea and the ONLY person I had been with was my fiance. I went to the Dr. and they say Yes you have gonorrhea. Needless to say the fur flew when I got back, she swore up and down ... (read in full...)
Is he using both women?
Q. A guy has a live in Girlfriend that he calls his"girl" but also has a long term lover on the outside that the live in Girlfriend may or may not know about. Would you say that this guy is committed or would you say he's playing games and using ...
A. 28 August 2010: Lucky man, gets to have his cake and eat it to.... (read in full...)
Why does the male get mad when you won't let him ejaculate in your mouth?
Q. Why does the male get mad when u wont let him ejaculate in your mouth??...
A. 28 August 2010: Because he is selfish. Do yourself a favor and go find a man that will treat you with respect and not just a sex toy. ... (read in full...)
Afraid of being alone...
Q. I think i should leave the guy im dating... but i have a huge fear of being alone, i never really thought i was a great girl but all the guys i date tell me i am, yet i feel like if i leave this guy ill never find a guy to love me unconditionally ...
A. 28 August 2010: Go, don't settle for something less because your afraid of being alone. I did and have regretted it for 20 years.... (read in full...)
I want to know more about my boyfriend's past hook ups!
Q. Hi I have been dating my current bf for a year and 8 months.. He's had more of a past with girls than I have (I was a virgin), he's done it with 6 girls. I ask him questions about his past experiences but he doesn't like to answer them and gets ...
A. 28 August 2010: Let me ask you this. What does the past have to do with you and your future together? Let the past be the past before it ruins your future. It doesn't matter what happened in the past before he knew you. Just let it go, he doesn't want to talk ... (read in full...)
Internet girlfriend not making any sense and I don't understand what is going on?
Q. ok well i met this girl a year ago on youtube and we would talk everyday sending messages through utube well after about 4 or 5 months of knowing this person i found another sight she was on where she would wright a diary mostly everyday or a few ...
A. 28 August 2010: Run away FAST. Obviously this woman is not playing with a full deck and is using you for her own pleasure. She doesn't love you, she is just using you.... (read in full...)
Do all girls smell fishy down there?
Q. hi, im having a very embarassing unusual probelm. my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years, so he is the only person iv slept with since.. during our relationship or before it, iv never smelt bad down there ever. and now all of a sudden the ...
A. 25 August 2010: Probably just a yeast infection. You can go to the Dr. or buy some over the counter medication for yeast infections.... (read in full...)
Sex during my period?
Q. Okay so, my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now and we have a very active sex life. Since it is so active he has a hard time whenever it comes to the week of my period. He has begged me every week of my period for sex ...
A. 22 August 2010: No I'm not suggesting anal (does absolutely NOTHING for me) that is up to you. But there are lots of ways to satisfy a person. Oral, hand, dry humping, anal. Just saying nope your cut off for 5 days sucks. Just think your horny and your guys says ... (read in full...)
Did you ever end up with your perfect man or someone completely different?
Q. Hey. I'm 18. I'm just wondering who people have ended up with. I have an idea of what sort of person I can imagine myself being with but is this realistic? Has anyone ended up with someone completely different to what you expected? Or have you found ...
A. 22 August 2010: No I settled for someone who was not my soul mate and have been unhappy for 20 years. I have now met my soulmate and we are married, unfortunately to other people. It SUCKS... (read in full...)
I really like my colleague, but I'm afraid he might reject me.
Q. I hope someone can help with my problem I am a married woman for many years and I have a massive infatuation on my male colleague. I can't remember how it started, but all of the body language is there from him, deep blushing when I look at him...
A. 22 August 2010: She didn't ask for the normal junk of "work on your marriage". I'm in the same situation only I'm the man, and we really only have three options.
1) Keep things the way they are and just enjoy your time together
2) Push it to the next level, ... (read in full...)
Pregnant preteen
Q. Okay I'm 13 turning 14 in 6 mos anyway I have been dating since I'm 11. I only had sex 9 times. 7 times were with boys my age and the other times were with girls. Anyway I just found out I'm pregnant and further along then I thought how should I ...
A. 19 August 2010: Only 9 times, what is wrong with you. I haven't had sex with 9 partners in my 45 years. You are on a path to death and destruction. Have you ever heard of herpes, the gift that keeps on giving? How do you feel about have sores all over you ... (read in full...)
Anyone can answer this one..
Q. My queation is.. and anyone can answer this question, male or female.. i am an extremely attractive woman. i have 4 children with my husband and by looking at me you wouldnt think i even have any..i am very down to earth... i can talk to him abou...
A. 19 August 2010: Why would he cheat on a 7 time world martial arts champion. Sounds like a good way to get hurt. :)... (read in full...)
Sex during my period?
Q. Okay so, my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now and we have a very active sex life. Since it is so active he has a hard time whenever it comes to the week of my period. He has begged me every week of my period for sex ...
A. 19 August 2010: Just because one ride is closed, doesn't mean you close down the entire park.... (read in full...)
If they cheat once, will they always cheat again?
Q. My former best friend got out of a terrible divorce. Then he got together with another woman after the divorce who cheated on him with several people. He found out by catching her in bed with a guy from work. She slept around with other people from ...
A. 17 August 2010: BULL, people make mistakes. People fall in love and out of love. If a person watches a movie once does that mean they will watch it again. Every person is different.... (read in full...)
How do I get out of this marriage? I'm sooooo bored now that the kids are up and away.
Q. i've been married for 28 years and now that the children are grown and gone i found myself to be living a sedentary and bored life with my wife. i'm tired of the monotony and routine and i want to get out of it because i no longer desire to continue ...
A. 17 August 2010: Divorce her and go spend the rest of you life happy with someone you actually love.... (read in full...)
He's 17, I'm 13, he wants sex but I think I'm too young!
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm gay and in my first relationship he's kind and he's everything I want in a man but since he's 17 and I'm 13 it's quite strange but it's both of our first relationship he wants to have sexual relations but I think I might be too you...
A. 16 August 2010: He's a perv, run away fast. No sane 17 year old wants to have sex with a 13 year old.... (read in full...)
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