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writes: Am i being paranoid? My bf's friend was calling to see if we wanted to go eat. The the friend said he would call back. A few minutes later my b/f says i am going to the bathroom and i am taking my cell phone...i said why would you tell me that? He says so you don't get mad(last year he started doing that a few times which i thought was weird since he wouldnt be expecting important calls from work and if you are in the showere too, you won't get out to answer the phone usually. I complained and he said he wouldn't do it.)But this time he did and he said well so and so is supposed to call back. While he was in the bathroom, i said would it have been a major thing if you missed the call.Am i being paranoid in thinking he was texting some other girl--he wasn't in there so long to be having a text messaging convo..just a few minutes. And things echo in there so you can't talk on it unless whispering. And just to let you know, he doesnt hide his cell on a general basis..he leaves it out. Am i overreacting?
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reader, jkirk  +, writes (1 May 2011):
I take mine into the bathroom all the time. It's better than a magazine, I play games usually or check my email. I even occasionally check my email, I do NOT have secret conversations of any kind. Just gives me something to do when I'm doing my business.
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reader, angelwithwings  +, writes (4 September 2010):
this question was a long time ago did you resolve it, my guy is doing the same only turns his message alert off and says he was playing a game and it spoils his game if the sounds up??????????????? what do you think?
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (26 December 2006):
 My ex used to take his mobile to the bathroom, to talk to his bit on the side so I have found out.
Saying that is it not proof that he is cheating but if the he whispers/texts in bathroom on the phone, he is hiding something!
Not one I would let go easily. talk to him and if he does not understand, try to do the same to see his reaction.
Lack of trust is not a good basis for a relationship.
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reader, whisper01 +, writes (23 December 2006):
 You might be over-reacting you might not. Has your husband ever lied to you before?
You really should trust your husband as love and trust is a big part of marriage. Besides if he isnt in the bathroom long enough to hav a txt conversation then whats the problem?
Wish you luck and i hope that you are over-reacting and that your husband isnt txting another girl
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reader, eddie  +, writes (23 December 2006):
 Yes. If he said he was expecting a call.....he might have been...expectng a call!! Why do you care if he brings the phone in the bathroom? What he said, makes sense. Could he be contacting another woman...sure. He could also do it at work, school, on the bus, at the pub........
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2006): in no way are you over reacting my husband was doing that for a long time first it was tothe bathroom then bed room all to soon he started going out to pub one day he was saying he was meeting his friend from work you know so and so ? that kept up for a wile .then one day out of the blue he said he dont love me anymore. he broke my heart left me in bits .he mooved in with his new girlfrend and left me with the kids and alone .so if i was you put a stop to it now before its to late.if he has nothing to hide why can you not answer the phone if hes in the bathroom?why can you not shout in to him who it was on the phone and tell him what thay were saying?.keep an eye on him if i were you keep your guard up or you could end up just like me and i would not wish that on anyone.why is his phone a secret are you not aloud near it?next he will keep it in his pocket all the time and when your around he will start keeping it turned off and out of view from you well i hope it stops and is just his male friends i wish you the best of luck .hope you will be happy with the outcome
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