Is it normal to still be a virgin at 22?
Q. Um ... I am writing this because I am not sure if it's normal. I am a young female (22 years old), kind of tall, OK-looking .. and I've never been asked out. Like .. ever. I was recently having a casual conversation w/ some of my peers...
A. 5 October 2011: Yepp, its fine. Im 19, still have my v-card, and planning to hold onto it until i find someone special to lose it to. ... (read in full...)
I'm 24 and he's 20...can this work?
Q. I recently met a guy at the bar that I started dating. The thing is he's 20 and I'm 24... He says it doesn't bother him at all, is this normal? We get along great but it makes me wonder what his motives are... Any insight from you guys out there? ...
A. 20 September 2011: Im dating someone 4 years younger than me, and im younger than you so....... (read in full...)
How can I convince my Boyfriend to help me get pregnant even though he does not need to help me bring the baby up?
Q. i need help... hi i am asking your help to convinceing my bf to get me pregnant but its not working. he does not want to have children or get marryed but i would like to some day soon for children and marry later on... he is 27 and i am 19 i k...
A. 10 September 2011: You dont. End of story. Your age difference is too great and your way to young!... (read in full...)
Seems like I am the last virgin in my college. Have so many questions on virginity and sex. Can you help?
Q. Right well im 17 years old and im still a virgin, i feel like im the only one which in my college there is only a few. Ive had so many oppurtunities to have sex but something keeps stopping me. Im just so scared i dont like my body and i dont real...
A. 10 September 2011: Im 19 in college and I still have my v-card by choice. Sex is one of the easiest thing on earth so the fact is, having sex donest make you special, waiting for the right person does. Once you loose your v-card its different but for the 1st time i ... (read in full...)
Do people still believe in horoscopes and can horoscopes help relationships in any way?
Q. Hi, everyone I was just wondering if any of you guys believe in Horoscopes, the perfect match, and that you know. I find it kinda weird when people start saying that this is not good for her and that is better, ask about his zodiac signal. B...
A. 10 September 2011: Horoscopes are not real. Period. They have nothing to do with anything, the horiscopes are written in a factory by hundreds of random people who just make general statements that could apply to anyone... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants to do sexual things but I am still very shy
Q. So, there's this guy that I've been seeing and we've been having sex for about a month. Everthings great but he keeps wanting to go down on me. I know it would feel really good but I'm just really shy and I don't like the idea of someone seeing my ...
A. 23 August 2011: If your shy about this stuff then you are honestly WAY to young to even be having sex. Sex should be a point where you're both totally comfortable with one another and want to share something special. I've seen this hundreds of times, and honestly, ... (read in full...)
How to get my boyfriend to kiss me??
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together for a week now. He is 18 and I am 17. We have held hands in the movies and hugged several times. He just hadnt kissed me yet! This would be my first kiss and I don't know if it would be his first kiss though. ...
A. 19 August 2011: Your height difference will be difficult to deal with when it comes later in the relationship. But that being said, just wait and be ready, he'll kiss you when he's ready... (read in full...)
Has my friend made him change his mind about me?
Q. I met this guy over this past summer. He is different then anyone I have ever known. We have so much in common. And we have this deep deep connection that I've never had with anyther person. We started talking in july and ended up going out. We ...
A. 19 August 2011: At this age its just infatuation.. Feelings can come and go at any point in time. The best thing you can do is just not let them get to you... (read in full...)
Is my ex having sex with other men?
Q. is my ex having sex with other men? she still shaves her pubic region everyday i found this out cause we ended up having sex one nite out of the blue so why would she still go through the hassle if shes not having sex with others?...
A. 11 August 2011: If she is, it's none of your buisness....
she's your EX, meaning you dont control what she does, and shes free to sleep with whoever she wants... (read in full...)
Shouldn't I be able to get pregnant? I have a period every month
Q. I have my periods every month. My fiance and i are trying for a baby, but i don't fall preg. I'm starting to think that maybe i have a problem coz he has a child from previous relationship. Doesn't having your periods regularly guarantees that you ...
A. 11 August 2011: Make sure you know when your fertile time is. Be prepared, it doesnt happen right away... it will take months... (read in full...)
I've had sex and bled both times. Is that normal?
Q. I just had sex for the first time about a week ago..and after i was done..i was bleeding like crazy... The second time i still bled,is that normal for a 18 year old girl?? We used a condom and everything....
A. 11 August 2011: Yes. When you have sex for the 1st time, you break the hymen (if you haven't before through spots or other extremely strenuous activities).
Your body is just unprepared for having a penis inside of you, so the 1st few times will most likely h... (read in full...)
Every time I have sex with my new boyfriend, I can't help but cry because I still think of my ex...
Q. I've been going out with a classmate of mine for about 2 months now, and we've been sexually active lately. Now, a couple months ago I had a terrible breakup with my ex for 2 years. I've known my ex longer than that because we were originally best ...
A. 11 August 2011: If your 16/17 and having sex after just dating a guy 2 months, that should be a sign to take a step back and slow down. Stop doing things you're not comfortable with... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend I like him?
Q. i have a crush on one of my guy friends, but i've known him since we were kids and i don't want to ruin my friendship, should i tell him that i like him?...
A. 9 August 2011: You're what, 15 at the oldest? By next year you'll have had 3 more crushes and so will he.
But if you want to, get a bit flirty, see if he flirts back. Ask him to go to the movies, kind've as friends, but alone, so you can see how that feels an... (read in full...)
Any good questions to ask a guy you are just getting to know?
Q. Hi dear cupid agony aunt/ uncles I could really use your help. I,ve recently started talking to a guy i really like but I,m very shy and I don't know what to talk about. later on this evening He and I are going spinning in his car but I don't know...
A. 3 August 2011: Just ask him about his life, what shows/music hes into, what his plans are for the future, where hes traveled or where he wants to go.
Basically, if a guy likes you, and not just trying to get in your pants, they just like talking and you really c... (read in full...)
Getting over your first crush?
Q. i had my first crush when i was 11 and now i am 14 but i cant forget about him pls help me i dont know waht to do...
A. 3 August 2011: I saw my 1st crush when i was 14... Im 19 now and I still have the same feelings from the moment I saw her. I've become really good friends with her, and she knows how I feel, but I know she doesnt feel the same way, so to be honest, you can't do ... (read in full...)
If I believe that having sex just for pleasure is a bad thing, is there something wrong with me?
Q. Okay, i've been having this issue lately and Im just trying to clear my head and figure it out. Im basically wondering: If I believe that having sex just for pleasure is a bad thing, is there something wrong with me? A little background infor...
A. 3 August 2011: I realize people make mistakes, but thats what I dont get. I hate the idea that so many people can just fool around all their life, and then just decide that they want to change all of a sudden. It almost seems as if its not fair.. Im not opposed... (read in full...)
At 20 I should be sowing my wild oats, but instead I'm intimidated by girls and don't want sex! What is wrong with me?
Q. I'm on anti depressants so my sex drive is low. I turned this girl down as i didn't wanna lose my virginty to her and wasn't horny at all. WTF is wrong with me? I should be really horny and sleeping with loads of girls but i haven't I'm 20 years ...
A. 3 August 2011: Its possible to be asexual.
I would know from personal experience :)
Its strange, but i feel the same way as you. Im 19 now, and I have had quite a few girlfriends, but the though of sex put me off. It was fun for me to play with their bodie... (read in full...)
Making out?
Q. What is the right way to make out with someone?...
A. 3 August 2011: Lol, you're 15(or younger). When your dating a guy you want to kiss, just start slow, its quite easy to figure out :P... (read in full...)
Penis size worry - (4 inches)
Q. Hi Girls, can you please tell me if 4" size is ok for marriage it means 10cm is it enough to satisfy a woman? I know its not a micro penis but it is making me insecure and please advise which position is good to satisfy a woman with a 10cm penis ...
A. 3 August 2011: Unless she has had several past experiences and really likes it deep then it should not be an issue as most girls get more pleasure out of fingers/tongue and its just the fact that they have a guy inside them is what feels good... (read in full...)
Guys: Would you be with a virgin? Or is it really 'too much drama'?
Q. Most guys I know say that they don't want to sleep (or even date because that will eventually lead to sleeping) with a virgin, because it's 'too much drama'. I feel like I'm way behind and I won't find anyone to ever be with me just because of that....
A. 3 August 2011: Im 19.. Im also a virgin (By choice). I've had 2 serious girlfriends in the past 3years, both non-virgins, and both asked for sex on a regular basis after a few months.
To be honest, sex is WAY more drama than being with a virgin. It sucks th... (read in full...)
Husband confessed that he dreamt of coming home and finding me on top of another man having sex. I would love it, but not sure if I should do it
Q. I am a 33 year old married woman with 2 kids. Been married now for 13 years. Now, I won't make this long so I will just get to the point. I was a virgin when I got married and never been with another man, ever. My husband once told me that he would ...
A. 15 July 2011: If you "Would LOVE" to be with another man then your relationship with your husband is basically over. The whole point of a relationship is to put your trust in one and only one person. Otherwise you're just doing it for physical pleasure, and that ... (read in full...)
I don't see how we are going to work out physically!
Q. Hi, I started dating a woman a few months ago, and emotionally our relationship has progressed very quickly, while the physical aspect of things has gone very slowly since her past relationships haven't ended well. My problem is that I have a small ...
A. 17 March 2011: Most girls enjoy oral as much or more than sex. But think about getting surgery. It will boost your self confidence, your libido and your sex life will pick up shortly afterwards... (read in full...)
How can I be a player?
Q. How do I play players back who have hurt so many girls? What is their game and mindset? I want to think like them so hopefully I can hurt them when they get their guard down. Any tips or suggestions? ...
A. 17 March 2011: "Players" are not players nor are they bad people. Girls biologically want sex more than guys, which is why they are initially attracted to "players" or men they think will give them a good time. However, once they have pleasure, they move on to ... (read in full...)
He won't be intimate with me, but he has no problem watching porn when I'm not around!
Q. Why would a man over many years, regularly avoid sex with his wife? We would have sex about 2 times a month at most. I would try to initiate about 3 times a week, but get the "i'm tired" excuse. We argued alot about sex, I felt like something was ...
A. 17 March 2011: A lot of men feel like its too much hassle to have to arouse a girl, and such to go through the whole process of sex. Furthermore, if they are not good at sex, or know you have more sexual experience its like a constant shot at their self esteem ... (read in full...)
How do I know if I'm bi-sexual or not?
Q. im a 17 year old girl. i think im bi-sexual but im just not sure! in my group of friends we have a lesbain, and as a joke my other friends and i lead her to believe i was bi, but now i really think i am, but i dont know how to know for sure. ive ...
A. 17 March 2011: Females are generally more sexually active than guys (The general consensus is that guys like sex better than girls but thats not true. Guys like the feeling of being the alpha male where as women dont have that issue and straight up just enjoy ... (read in full...)
Whenever I see people from school they laugh at me!
Q. How do I deal with this? It's been five years since school but sometimes I see some people from school who hated me and whenever I see them they laugh at me. I live in a small town and i'm finding this hard to deal with. It's affecting my sel...
A. 17 March 2011: Dont let it get to you. Its as easy as that. A person is only as weak as he or she believes they are. It may be annoying but in your mind you can laugh at the fact that these people are laughing at you in order to boost their self esteem, which ... (read in full...)
Why would he want me to parade around in revealing clothes? Is this because he never had many girlfriends and only watched porn?
Q. My lovely boyfriend who is 35 hasnt had many girlfriends and when we first met he had a huge collection of porn which he has now deleted from his computer. He says he doesnt need it any more. However, he seems very keen on me wearing really h...
A. 17 March 2011: He's probably just doing it to show you off.. Tell him that you can either do it in public so that other guys potentially steal you away or just do it in private and it be just for him. ... (read in full...)
Should I turn a blind eye to his online activities? Or am I right to be hurt by this?
Q. I have found that my husband of 13 years is watching beautiful naked women masterbate on a site called Twistys. He also watches some porn. I find this out because I check the tool section of the computer and it will give the date and the actual ...
A. 17 March 2011: Watch it with him?
Honestly someone at your age should know that this is normal for a guy. Even as a teenage i will sometimes choose masturbation over sex just because of the simplicity of it. As long as hes not cheating everything is fine. ... (read in full...)
Is he going to ignore me forever and will I never be able to get any answers?
Q. I was seeing a man for 4 months. I found out he was doing a few things to me behind my back. He had lied about his age, he had another women he was spending time with. He never took me on dates,i just felt hidden. It all began to add up. I ...
A. 17 March 2011: Seems like its not worth your time to even bother... (read in full...)
What happened to my G-spot?
Q. ok so i'm 23, and i'm kinda having a problem. When my bf fingers me he can't seem to find my G-spot.He used to be able to find it. I'm kinda scared..whats wrong with me?...
A. 17 March 2011: Tell him to read up on how to find it... Its still there he just needs to work to find it.... (read in full...)
Do you think doggy style is romantic?
Q. honestly ,do you think doggy style is romantic or it`s just for fun ,animalistic passion . would you have doggy style with a woman that you`re in deep love with ,if she `s the sweet n nice type ,if not which position would u choose ? think u g...
A. 11 March 2011: Yes? Being in love has nothing directly to do with your wildness in bed. The more in love you are the more you should try wild kinky positions ... (read in full...)
We're both shy, how do I proceed?
Q. I'm really shy and I don't know how to show my shy crush that I like him. Please help!...
A. 11 March 2011: Ask him out? Easy as that... Nothing will happen unless you make something happen. ... (read in full...)
I don't want him to be bored, I just don't want the complications that come with sex
Q. I have been dating this guy for a couple of months and as it usually happens in any relationship the subject of sex came up... I told him how I didn't think sex in high school was a good idea for many reasons pregnancy, not being really emotionally ...
A. 8 March 2011: If you havent done any sexual acts yet then you are NOWHERE near ready for sex. I remember the time i got my first Bj from the girl i ended up loosing my vcard to, and the next day i thought i was ready for sex.. 3 months later when the time came i ... (read in full...)
I look like a 'porn star' but I want to attract older man, because I am serious inside. Should I tone it down a notch?
Q. I have a question I am a 24year old woman that is attracted to older man mid thirties especially 36 37 year olds. I love the confort of a mature man. BUT i was wondering I am very self conscious and typically look like a always nice and dressed ...
A. 8 March 2011: Because of your looks, all guys in the usual locations for pickups are just going to want you for your bodies. Since you have a graduates degree, try to get in on some more high-end university sociables and check out the crowd there. The club scene ... (read in full...)
He wants to take pictures
Q. Every time we go for a real hot time, he always wanted to take pictures of me playing with him. He said he is having more pleasures on that. Just like a porn picture. Is this normal? Is he a perv?...
A. 8 March 2011: Its normal, but if you dont fully trust him make sure your face is not in it. I love getting pictures of my girlfriend, it increases both of our libido's so much and makes our time in bed much more passionate ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend I lied to him even though it might sabotage our relationship?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months, nearly 5. We have trust issues. He's never done anything to make me doubt his love for me but i've lied to him many times and I created a lot of lies to cover up everything... in the end, it ...
A. 7 March 2011: Stop lying to him first of all. If you keep lying your just hurting him and your relationship. When my girlfriend lies about stuff i always eventually find out, and eventually this might end your relationship but for now be honest with what you can.... (read in full...)
Should I ask him to do this?
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now (yeah, I know x)), he's 16 and I'm 17 and I love him and I can really tell he loves me too. My problem is: we haven't had sex and we don't want to right now but we've got to half of the 2nd base ...
A. 7 March 2011: At 16 if the most you've done is touching your NOT ready for sex. Thats not a bad thing, infact, most people who loose their virginity before ~18 regret it. However at age 16 theres no harm in going a little further, because eventually you will take ... (read in full...)
Somehow I misunderstood her feelings thinking she cared for me as more than a friend!
Q. Hi I wonder if you guys can help me. I met this girl a few months ago and we got on really well. we exchanged numbers and for a while we texted everyday. I asked her out and she agreed, But she told me she was in a relationship but wasn't happy an...
A. 6 March 2011: Shes just using you as a ringer. Your there to support her and make her feel better but not to date her (Theres actually an episode of How I Met Your Mother describing this exact situation). So if you are gonna be friends with her still just make ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is verbally abusive and I don't know how to make this relationship work....
Q. Hi My be of 2 years constantly abuses me (verbally)/ignores me often. I seem to put up with this without getting angry. I never get angry when he does this, but i do get hurt and i cry my eyes out. We talked several times about his behaviour, b...
A. 6 March 2011: Abusive relationships are unhealthy. Period. If you've already tried to get him to change multiple times and he wont then its time to end it. When you say this he will probably try to overcompensate and be like "No, i can change" But as you know ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend never makes the effort to see me!
Q. Hi :) Ok so here's my problem. I have been with my boyfriend for about 18 months and love him very much. He's in his final year of Med School and will be a qualified doctor in July. Obviously he is very busy at the moment with studying and I do my ...
A. 6 March 2011: The last few months of medschool are much more difficult that the actually first years in the hospital. I am in the same program and basically, you wont get to see him all that much from now until he gets settled in a hospital. You just have to ... (read in full...)
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