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writes:honestly ,do you think doggy style is romantic or it`s just for fun ,animalistic passion .would you have doggy style with a woman that you`re in deep love with ,if she `s the sweet n nice type ,if not which position would u choose ?think u guys for the answers :) Reply to this Question
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reader, Beccccccy  +, writes (12 March 2011):
 I couldn't care less if its romantic , ITS GREAT ..THe pentration is just awesome and its my " fav' position .. The romantic link ..well thats up to the individual .. It sure destroys missionary ..certainly in my view .. Give me Woman riding or Doggie ..Yessssssss pleae !
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (11 March 2011):
 Doggy style is the opposite of romantic, but it does not mean that it can't be very intimate ,loving and bonding for the two partners. In fact, it shows that two people are comfortable with each other when they can let themselves go without worrying about being " nice ".
Of course, if the guy ONLY wants to do it in that position,and never needs eye contact and kisses, it probably means he is just into the strictly animal part of lovemaking.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2011): I guess it probably isn't the most romantic position in a sense, but I love my girlfriend and she loves it and so do I. Yea, we go at it like animals sometimes, but she likes both romantic sex and raw, "bend me over and do me" sex. I don't find that the more physical type of sex detracts from the more romantic sex. It just depends on what we're in the mood for. I'd never pressure her to do it if she didn't want to, however. As I think about it, I probably wouldn't love her as much as a do if she only liked "romantic" sex. I think it would get boring, and I'd probably find myself thinking that I'd like to find another woman to satisfy my cravings for more physical sex. Fortunately, she's like a biathlete when it comes to sex so I don't have to choose between the two.
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reader, The Gentle Man  +, writes (11 March 2011):
 Doggy is more about the fun and animalistic pleasure and it was a favourite for me and me ex. If we wanted to be closer we stuck with missionary or the legs over the shoulders so we could see eachother.
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reader, charliesdevil73 +, writes (11 March 2011):
 Generally, doggy style isn't romantic. To me, that position is more about the "fun, animalistic" side of the relationship. I do have to say, it is fun when both people are facing a set of mirrors!
If that is all a man wants though, then he is more about pleasing himself than his woman. Men who really love their women will try to make they are satisfied as well during sex, even if it's the woman asking for doggy style :)
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (11 March 2011):
 Sex does not always need to be sweet and gentle. And as long as you're still treating your woman right, then there is no reason you can't be loving during doggie style. You can do any position with the woman you love and I think that's part of what's so great about loving her: is the comfort level and ability to experience many things together and always find a way to show "i love you."
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2011): When two dogs have sex, do you think that's romantic?
No, it's about the dog dominating his bitch. Same thing applies to doggy style in humans.
There is no eye contact, there is no sensuality about it at all, just grab and go.
Love has nothing to do with it, nor does sweet and nice. I haven't met any "sweet and nice" girls that didn't enjoy it. It's nice to be animalistic.
Besides it's not as if you only do one position when you have sex is it? I do minimum 3 or 4 every session, doggy is one of those usually.
If a guy only asks for doggy or will only do doggy in a session then he's just a domination type or he doesn't want your face distracting him while he tries to get off. Then again missionary is seen as the most romantic but there are plenty of guys who will get up, stick their head in the pillow until they cum and fall asleep once they're done and not care about pleasing the woman.
The best way to approach it is this, if he likes it let him do it but let him know what you do or do not like about it, if you don't want him pulling your hair roughly for leverage for example, tell him not to. If doggy doesn't get you off then let him do it but then switch positions after a little while to a position that works for you.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (11 March 2011):
 Well, in my most enduring marriage of 20 years, we rarely engaged in that style, but each to their own preference, and my wife greatly enjoyed woman-on-top.
With previous and subsequent girlfriends, and previous wives, I have gladly performed doggie style on request. I must agree that it seems somewhat animalistic, and it usually tends to trigger an earlier than normal release.
Summary: Certainly less romantic than missionary, but if the woman desires, who am I to not provide?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (11 March 2011):
 And what is wrong with 'fun, animalistic passion' in a loving relationship? And why should there be only one position in a session of love-making? I'm just wondering why this feels so wrong to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2011): I completely agree with dirtball. I see nothing wrong with most any type of sex or position, no matter if the woman is the sweet and nice type or not, as long as both parties like it. While doggy is not really much of a romantic position, it is fun and both me and my wife like it. While missionary and even cowgirl are more romantic and intimate positions, as both allow kissing, mutual touching and eye contact, doggy and other non face to face positions are enjoyable for both partners.Sex is about both showing love and just having fun with something that both partners enjoy. It doesn't matter what the position is, what time of day it is or what room it takes place in. As long as you are a committed couple and both partners enjoy it, who cares.While sex is also fun with someone who you barely know, it is much better with someone you love or at least care for.
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reader, Jjang19  +, writes (11 March 2011):
Yes? Being in love has nothing directly to do with your wildness in bed. The more in love you are the more you should try wild kinky positions
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (11 March 2011):
Why wouldn't doggie style be acceptable in a loving relationship? It can be extremely erotic.
Now, if one partner is shy or has certain ideas about what constitutes acceptable positions, and they don't match up with the other partner's ideas, well, I guess I'd say that there needs to be some gentle, loving discussion about it.
If you feel you are being 'used' somehow because he likes this position, express this to him. He may not realize you need the reassurance that he loves you.
"Sweet n nice" sounds to me as though this person is shy about exotic positions and expects sex to be certain way. Doggie style can be amazing and fun, don't think that he doesn't love you because he wants to try it.
It sounds like you two need to do some talking about sex outside of the bedroom.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (11 March 2011):
 Doggy style isn't the most romantic position I can think of, however if I was in deep love with someone, I wouldn't stray away from it either. It can be done romantically, with kisses on your back, and it is quite pleasurable for both parties most of the time.
My choice for romantic sex is usually missionary. It allows for the best eye contact and kissing.
Honestly though, if you're in deep love, I think that's the best person to try all sorts of things with. Your love can allow you to explore things and feel safe while doing it. Sex should be fun, passionate, romantic, and so much more. It's never better than when it's with someone you love.
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