Has she lost interest?
Q. Okay so a girl who likes me used to text me all the time and joke around with me at school etc etc and now its different, she doesnt text me unless i text her before and at school she often ignores me, has she lost interest? What does she want? ...
A. 8 December 2010: Its really had to answer need more information. She may have lost interest or is playing hard to get. To fully understand the situation and your question I need more information. What did you do to cause her to change?... (read in full...)
Was I dreaming things will work out or just being insecure?
Q. I'm quite upset my boyfriend of 14 years was sending dirty pictures and chatting nasty with women on the internet. This one women he actually gave his cell phone # and he was telling her he loved her for over 3 weeks. After two weeks of fighting and ...
A. 22 November 2010: When someone cheats they usually cheat because they feel they are missing something in there relationship. Most of the time for women its that emotional connnection. For most guys its more sexually. Im not saying he didnt for sexual reason, but it ... (read in full...)
My parents don't want me and my boyfriend to cuddle!
Q. So my parents are upset because my boyfriend and I cuddle. They keep saying that we are being completely irresponsible, and don't believe that nothing is going to happen. I get where they are coming from, so I decided I am going to do what they want ...
A. 22 November 2010: I got my first kiss when I was four playing house and I plan on not letting my four year old child play house. The moral of the story is that your parents know that things happened and they just feel that you are to young to have that sort of thing ... (read in full...)
I was teasing and he took it seriously and now I don't know what is going on!
Q. Okay so to start off, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months anyway today we we're hanging out and I was giving him a blowjob and I stopped and kidding around said ya know you're so mean, I always do this for you blah blah blah, BUT I was totally ...
A. 22 November 2010: Im sorry but that pretty funny lol. Not to be mean or anything, but no guy I know would tell his gf "Im not sure if I let you give me a blowjob again". General most guys love blowjobs I dont know any guy that doesnt like or doesnt want blowjobs. I ... (read in full...)
Why do I try to seek closure, when the guy has made it clear?
Q. Why do I try to seek closure, when the guy has made it clear? I was dating a guy for a short time (1 month). I wasn't sure if we would be good together, and he just kept working at getting me to like him and I ended up falling for him. He started ...
A. 22 November 2010: Yes, its normal to get closure but it seems like he is just making excuse not to be with you. The only reasons I can think of is 1. is not that into you and just wanted sex. 2. he found someone else 3. he is just not ready for a relationship 4. ... (read in full...)
I'm falling in love with my ex's sister!
Q. Hi! Im after falling in love with my ex's sister and dont know to talk to her about it or what, my ex and I have been broken up for 3 months now and she's seeing a friend of mine that iv known since school, I still talk to her and the fella, but her ...
A. 22 November 2010: First, ask her out for just casual coffee or lunch so she doesnt think its an actually date. While on this casual meeting as friends flirt with her a lot to show that you are interest(gently touch arm, compliment, etc) DO NOT COME ON TOO STRONG ... (read in full...)
Should we get married?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 11 years we have 2 children together aged 9 and 8. She really wants a commitment from me in the form of marriage but I haven't given it yet. I have never had an interest in marriage but it's really important ...
A. 21 November 2010: ok I agree with you on the marriage point. Marriage has nothing to do with the connection between the two people share. Hey, 80% of all marriages fail anyways, but look at it from her prespective. All girls dream of there first wedding and the whole ... (read in full...)
I know it's an unhealthy obsession!
Q. Hello all, I have a huge problem that has really started to get to me and has taken over my life for a couple of years. I am overly obsessed with a guy! I am in a perfectly happy relationship but cannot get a man I once had in my life out of...
A. 20 November 2010: Ok, I read a very interesting post on my friends fb status that said " A heart break is a blessing from God, its just his way of making you realize that he saved you from the wrong one" As kids/children we always want what we cant have and we often ... (read in full...)
I decided to go all the way with him when my parents told me we're moving across country!
Q. Hi I'm 14 now and I'm not sure what to do. My boyfriend and met in December and started having a "thing" by February, in April we started dating. At first we decided on no oral sex or actual sex because he's almost 2 years older than me and is'nt a ...
A. 11 November 2010: There basically is not "us" and yes you should have wanted you are 14 and trust me you arent going to find in soul mate at 14 is rarely hardkt ever happens. Just realize that you are still young and we all have loved at least once and our lives and ... (read in full...)
He's leaving in a week, should I tell him how I feel?
Q. Not sure what to do here. I'm usually pretty assertive when it comes to guys and people I like in general. I've recently gone through a rough episode with someone I dated for a few months and wasn't interested in anyone at all and then I ran into...
A. 11 November 2010: No you shouldnt tell him how you feel yet. Long distance relationships never work out especially ones that havet had proper time to develop yet. I would just wait for him to return, but keep open communication with him while he is gone. Also, play ... (read in full...)
The other shoe finally dropped.
Q. OK, so the other shoe has finally dropped in my relationship. She wanted to call it quits. Give me my keys and get your stuff. I came, got my things quietly, and she barely mumbled a word. I asked what is going on and all she says is "I dont know,...
A. 11 November 2010: Women are irrational. Still play it cool put randomly call her one day you will get the answer machine trust me and leave a message telling her how you feel and that you want her back. If she does pick up tell her what you where going to leave on ... (read in full...)
He was a perfect gentleman until we had sex!
Q. I thought I had been dating this man. we met at a night club, and we kept catching eachtother's eye, so as I was leaving with my friends, he grabbed me by my waist, we chatted for a while, then he gave me his number. I called him about a couple of ...
A. 11 November 2010: Ok in all honest he doesnt like you he just wants you for sex takes a guy's advice on this seen it too many times. He acts all sweet has sex with you, you dont hear from him until he wants sex again and now he is going to keep you around for sex. ... (read in full...)
My teenage daughter wanted permission to marry her boyfriend!
Q. Hello everyone. This question is really me just wondering what you would do in my situation: Yesterday, my 16 (almost 17) year old little girl and her boyfriend came to me and asked me to give her permission to marry him. I was baffled by it, a...
A. 11 November 2010: I would have been more respectful and sat down and talk to them about before giving a stern NO and would taught them about the harsh reality of life. Because they are still kids and kids will go off and do stupid, ignorant things. So I would have ... (read in full...)
Did I come across as trying to cheat on my husband?
Q. i am married and have great relationship with my husband.Few weeks back i met three people at a party and two of them were husband and wife and one was single guy who flirted with me throughout the night and i flirted back a little but it was all ...
A. 11 November 2010: If you told your husband then you are not cheating. Infidelity involves lying and manipulating others, but you were honest. I dont know if the other gentlemen misinterpreted you signs or not, but all you have to do is set things straight with him. ... (read in full...)
Where did the trust go?
Q. Basically, my bf [now of 2yrs] screwed me over a year ago by seeing his ex girlfriend for coffee and pretending he hadn't. I now am a bit of a wreck where trusting him with other girls comes in. I don't expect him to cheat but he has so many girl ...
A. 11 November 2010: Your jealously issues will push him away and plus you not trust him is going to make things worse. The best thing to do is be honest with him and tell him how you feel. Tell him that you are jealous of his girlfriend and if you suspect somethung ... (read in full...)
Being her friend to win her back?
Q. My ex girlfriend says she loves me and always will, she say's she wants me back but not right now. What does that mean? She wants to be friends but, how do you just be friends? I have a hard time doing that because I am a very loving guy. I li...
A. 11 November 2010: Dont freaking be an ex friend 1 she will always to come to you when she is sad or emotinal and talk to you about her feelings and current boyfriend 2 you will develop jealousy issue 3 your jealousy issues will push her away. Trust me its the same ... (read in full...)
I couldn't wait for him to come out of the closet!
Q. So I'm gay and there's this guy that I like. He is actually my house mate, and things are kind of weird. over the past 2 months, I thought that he had been hinting to me that he was gay, or at least unsure of his sexuality. I have never really ...
A. 11 November 2010: Let me start off by saying I not gay and im not familiar with these type of situations so I maybe not the best personal to give advice, but I will try to be helpful. I believe your roomate/friends is very sexual confused. I think he believes his ... (read in full...)
Having trouble satisfying my girlfriend.
Q. Hi, I'm a freshman in college, and my current girlfriend and I have been going out for about a month. This is the first time I've been in a relationship, and things are, for the most part, going really well. This has also been the first o...
A. 11 November 2010: Women are way different than man. They get turned on by emotional and mental means. Guys, well you know about guys and how we get aroused off anything. If we she a girl naked we get tunred on lol. I was in the same situation. What you have to do is ... (read in full...)
I get a panic attack every time I go to lose my virginity!
Q. I'm 22 years old and I'm a virgin. I started dating when I was 15. My first boyfriend (he was a virgin too)and I lasted 3 years and the furthest we got was oral sex. We both orgasm and I thought real sex would come with the time because I was scared ...
A. 10 November 2010: There is nothing to be afraid of its all in your mind. Millions maybe even Billions of people have sex everyday. Its a natural occurance in life people have sex. Yes, there is pain, but there is also good pain involved. Female when not aroused has a ... (read in full...)
My ex and I still have sex even though he has other women. Why can't I leave him?
Q. hi every body i need help. well first my son's father and i was together for about 2 years and a few months. yea it was my first relationship, first time in love, and my firsy baby. well we have been broken up for about a year now but we still ha...
A. 10 November 2010: We all know that this isnt healthy not emotional or physical. This kind of situation can only lead to you damaging yourself more. The best course of action is to cut all ties and contact with your ex, but you are doing it to bester yourself. Get a ... (read in full...)
My husband says he doesn't know if he loves me because of my weight
Q. My husband has told me three times on three seperate ocassions in our 6 year relationship that he doesn't know if he loves me, and that because of my weight he is no longer atracted to me. He has a lot of issues and has started councilling and was ...
A. 10 November 2010: Love is emotional not physical. You just dont stop loving someone because they gain weight. He should be more concern about future health problem you may develop not whether he can get his dick up. If he really did love weight shouldnt be a issue. I ... (read in full...)
I just don't know what to do or how to feel............
Q. I will attempt to make this as short as possible, but I'd really appreciate advice on this.. I will go into detail so those who do reply can have a better grasp on the situation and the people involved. I apologise in advance in regards to the ...
A. 9 November 2010: Ok I need you to sit down for this please realize what im about to tell may not be true but with most situation like this it is the true are ready.........She is seeing or is getting involved with someone else. When a girl say she needs "space" code ... (read in full...)
He's not showing much effort, should I ignore him to get his attention?
Q. I've been getting to know this guy for about 7 months now..were not in a commited relationship, we are just dating. However latley he's has not been calling me as often or showing me the sweet affection I'm use to. I'm big on communication, so I ...
A. 9 November 2010: Have you every read "He is Just Not That Into You" or watched the movie. Well, its a good book I read it(dont hate me fellow men into female psychology a lot). Well, its just like the title suggest he is not that into you. Any real guys thats into a ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my new boyfriend or go back to my ex?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years a few months ago. He's a great person, a great boyfriend, very loving, kind, and fun. However, our sex life was so bad i stopped wanting to have any kind of sex with him. i started to have a physical reaction ...
A. 9 November 2010: You shouldnt be with either you shouldnt go back to your ex because you arent attracted to him sexually the reason you had pain when you had sex is because you werent sexually aroused enough to have actually deep penetration. Female when aroused ... (read in full...)
I think I'm falling for my professor!
Q. hi im looking for some real advice not just someone telling me im too young or lecturing me. so first off im 16 but have lived through enough my mentality is more like 25 most people think im 21 even. im in college this year and there's a professor ...
A. 9 November 2010: I know how you feel I had a crush on a teacher in High School and got so far as me getting her number and me visiting her after school when she got sent to a different school and she also went to my graduation. Well anyways sorry about the side note ... (read in full...)
My brother's friend likes me, what should I do?
Q. about a week ago i decided to go to a party with a friend. it was a halloween party so everyone had costumes on. when we got there she introduced me to her friend N. she didnt know N and me knew each other. N is my brother's friend. he had gone to ...
A. 9 November 2010: You have to realize that your brother is always going to be your brother no matter what happen, but men have a bros before type motto. Also you have to realize that this isnt the first boy to like you and it wont be the last promise unless your like ... (read in full...)
My husband keeps lying to me about watching porn! How can I get him to stop?
Q. My husband and i have been married for almost 2 years now, but together for almost 6. We also have a duagter. We have always had great sex life, full of adventure. I was up to anything really. Within the past few months though, he has really ...
A. 9 November 2010: Well, I completely understand unfortunately your marriage is become like most marriage to where one or both parents disengages or isnt interested in sex. Man are programed differently than women we live in a soceity where men are rewarded for having ... (read in full...)
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