He never tells me where he's going when I am with him? Is this normal or what?
Q. Me and my boyfriend been together for a lil over a month an was wondering if your boyfriend is supposed to tell you where he goes, like instead of I'll be right back?? Like sometimes he will tell me and sometimes he just says I'll be right back an ...
A. 5 October 2010: No worries. He just doesn't think it's important enough to warrant much more of an announcement. I say "I'll be right back" all the time. Going to the bathroom, checking out something at a store, grabbing something I want, etc. It's just a phrase to ... (read in full...)
Paranoid and unreasonable or not?
Q. I have been married to my husband for 5 yrs.. We have two sons who are 5 and 1. Shortly after our first son was born, my sister in law told me that an ex girlfriend of my husbands had spread a rumor around (months before) that they had slept to...
A. 5 October 2010: You are fine. HE is being disrespectful. Tell him he is causing problems with HIS behavior, not his ex.. He is treating you with disrespect and hurting you. Demand he be straight up with you. It's your right. Don't drop it. He is doing weird, shady, ... (read in full...)
Has he Lost Interest?! What to do when the calls stop
Q. Okay so about three weeks ago I've met this guy in my math class who seems to really really like me. We started talking when we were seated next to each other and he told me that he had a crush on me by the third day! The thing is, is that he ...
A. 5 October 2010: Maybe he just got tired of chasing you... It's your turn now. He probably thought you weren't interested. So go for it, show him you are! Take initiative. Nobody wants to chase all the time and never be chased themselves. It's tiring.... (read in full...)
Pregnant with twins but getting no help from my ex! What do I do now?
Q. Hi, its me Veronica again. for those of you who answered my last question here's a follow up and another question. For those who didn't here's a recap. I'm 22, have a eight year old son,and pregnant with twin girls. My ex boyfriend is a cheating...
A. 5 October 2010: I would push for child support. That bum should be giving you SOMETHING. And I mean legally. He obviously won't give it to you any other way.
May I ask where you live as far as city or state? That way I can figure out help programs in your are... (read in full...)
I don't want to come across to her as desperate. What do I do here?
Q. Hello everybody.. My girlfriend doesnt have time for me but i do not care . I love her so much its hard to let her go. I think i have annoyed her asking her to go out more often since she usually doesnt trust most people in her life. I pissed her ...
A. 5 October 2010: I know how hard it can be :( You're doing the right thing though. Give her some space. My fiance did the same thing to me once and I just had to back off, and after almost a month everything went back to normal.
Try and go out and do fun things a... (read in full...)
What do I do? I want to get him back, because everything in me tells me that this is wrong.
Q. I don't know what to do. I started seeing this guy in July and by August we were a couple. He lived an hour and a half so we didn't see each other every day, but we constantly communicated. We told each other things that we'd never told anyone ...
A. 5 October 2010: You need to let him go... He's still in love with his ex, and as long as he loves her then he has no room for you. You deserve to be higher than second best. Give him space. If you start clinging or going for him, he will just push you further and ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my boyfriend confessing he has no desire for sexual intercourse?
Q. My question is how do I deal with my boyfriend confessing he has no desire for sexual intercourse? A year and a half before we met he found out he had prostate cancer. He had it removed, and right before we met he had surgery/ inflatable prosthetic. ...
A. 5 October 2010: My fiance has similar problems but he is much younger. Let me explain something that might put your mind at ease- just because he doesn't want SEX doesn't mean he doesn't think you are sexually attractive. He may think you are very sex-worthy,... (read in full...)
Anal sex... to try or not to try...
Q. ok so I'm 19 and i never had anal sex. my hubby really wants to try it but I'm scared as i have heard its painful. what do u guys think? n i would appreaciate if u would tell me the ways to enjoy it without much pain for the first time!! thanks...
A. 5 October 2010: It hurt so badly that I cried for hours and we didn't even get it all the way in XD OMG. But I also hated the idea and cried beforehand. I didn't want to do it but tried anyways... And I also have permanent internal damage which caused me a lot of ... (read in full...)
Why wont my husband perform oral sex on me?
Q. I have been married to my husband for 11 years now and I am very hurt by the fact he will not perform oral sex on me I give him bjs all the time but he won't ever return the favor. I desire it so much that I often think about cheating to get oral ...
A. 5 October 2010: I don't agree with the "give to receive rule". You should never have to force or coerce someone into doing something sexual with you that makes them uncomfortable. What would you do if you hated anal and he craved it? Would you want him taking ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend caught on dating sites and texting other women...
Q. Hi I am new to this. I just did not know where else to turn. I have no one else to discuss this with. My boyfriend and i have been together 3 years. He is considerably older than me but it has never been an issue for either of us. WE get on ...
A. 5 October 2010: I know it will be hard, but get away from him. He could easily work around what he's given to you, and he probably will. He has proven himself untrustworthy... And I hate to sound harsh, but I think he is afraid of you leaving him only because he ... (read in full...)
Would a girlfriend actually make me happy?
Q. I am 21 and can't get a girlfriend. I have been alone for almost 3 years now and it feels really bad. I keep hoping that I will meet the perfect girl for me, but it never happens. There are so many girls at uni, yet I can't seem to meet the right ...
A. 5 October 2010: No, you will not. Girlfriends will have their own problems and needs and dramas that will be added to your own. They are not an anti-depressant pill. You need to learn to be happy BEFORE finding a girlfriend, or you will just drag both of you down... (read in full...)
I think my ex wants to get to me through my friends...
Q. I havent spoken to my Ex in like a month or so. This Ex was/is The love of my life and Im not really even sure why we broke up.Probably boredom. Anyway IT was a 6 years relationship and it Hurts allot! Recently I walked into her and She was an ...
A. 5 October 2010: Stay away from her. She just wants male attention, and she is hurt by your rejection. If she plays games, you're better off without her. Find someone who will love you honestly and openly.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's depression is really putting a strain on me...
Q. Well there is this boy I have been dating for a few months and i like him a lot. Problem is he is very depressed and sensitive to everything so i have to watch what i say all the time. He is on anti-depressants but they don't seem to be working. I ...
A. 5 October 2010: You need to up and leave him... As harsh as that sounds. My friend had the exact same problem. Her boyfriend even threatened suicide if she left.
Once she left, he was forced to stand on his own two feet. It made him a much stronger, happier,... (read in full...)
Do women tell their friends EVERYTHING about their boyfriends???
Q. Ok, to all women, do you talk to your best friends and tell them everything about your bf. i mean everything, like dirty details?...
A. 5 October 2010: I will rant to my friends about cute or funny or romantic things, or mean things.. But only in vague detail and only rarely. The only person I tell EVERYTHING to is my man.. And I never talk about my sex life with anyone besides him. Ever. Unless ... (read in full...)
Don't you love it when you realise the person you're meant to be with is your ex?
Q. Don't you love it when you realise the person you're meant to be with is your ex? Furthermore, don't you love it when you go out to talk to your ex who is in a bad relationship and you end up kissing with her for hours? Neither do I, its pretty ...
A. 5 October 2010: She probably is playing you. Girls at your age love male attention, it makes them feel like they're hott stuff. She just wants as many boys pining for her as she can get. If she hated him, she would have left him before you even ended up making out ... (read in full...)
Should I ask him to be my friend?
Q. I'm a freshman in high school (age 14) and I have developed a crush on this really cute and sweet football player. There is just one problem: He is one of the most popular seniors in the entire school! We have never spoken before, and he is 6'4'', ...
A. 5 October 2010: Try saying hi to him in the halls and walking with him while talking. Then, maybe try and arrange hanging out times and get his phone number so you can talk outside of school. I don't really agree with Cerberus here. If you become friendly with him, ... (read in full...)
I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!
Q. I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...
A. 5 October 2010: Get to know her better. You don't know much about her at all. She might be married or have 7 kids or be a serial killer for all you know.
But overall I say lights are all green.... (read in full...)
Morally confused about lesbianism.. Don't know what to do?
Q. Morally confused about Lesbianism. Dont know what to do??? I am 25 and married, been w/ my husband for 9 years,since I was 16.He was my 1st boyfriend.I have felt sort of attracted 2 other girls since middle school, but I always just convince...
A. 5 October 2010: End it now. Your husband needs to be able to find a girl who is actually into men. :P Haha. It will hurt him less if you do it quickly and don't drag it out.
And I don't believe homosexuality is a true sin for many reasons, PM if interest... (read in full...)
Period lasting for 2 months??? Worried!
Q. hi my wife has had her period for two months now im getting worried, she's alway angry and stressed and working a lot how can u help me?...
A. 5 October 2010: Are you sure she's on her period? Just because she's a little snappy doesn't mean it's always PMS. Just might be regular ole' stress.
She should go to the doctor and be put on some form of birth control to regulate herself. My sister had the same... (read in full...)
I like him too but I'm scared he will hurt me.
Q. I am from Japan. I have been studying in U.S. I met one guy who really cool and handsome. He told me he likes me and wants to be my boyfriend. we already date once. I don't know much about American guys. What are their likes and don'ts? Can u guys ...
A. 5 October 2010: All American guys are very different. Be very careful about sex- don't give it up until you are ready. Never feel pressured. Guys typically don't respect girls that give it up to them too early or are easily pressured into it. Then it just becomes a ... (read in full...)
Do I confront him... or just leave it be?
Q. Heres the thing: I am not proud of it but I snooped around a few years ago and found my boyfriend's password to his email. I checked it once and didn't find anything suspicious. I felt horrible for betraying his trust and privacy but, I never said ...
A. 5 October 2010: Apparently your relationship isn't good. He's cheating on you! Don't you get it? This has nothing to do with you and what you will do, and everything about him. He is not faithful. You need to confront him-- if you don't want to say you were ... (read in full...)
Has he finally given up?
Q. I'm in high school. There's a guy I've been playing staring games (that he started by trying to flirt with me after mistaking my friendship request as flirting) with since the 8th grade. And since I felt like trying to try again after that, I tried ...
A. 5 October 2010: Looks like he's over you, or at least doesn't feel like trying anymore. Sorry :(... (read in full...)
I don't want to come across to her as desperate. What do I do here?
Q. Hello everybody.. My girlfriend doesnt have time for me but i do not care . I love her so much its hard to let her go. I think i have annoyed her asking her to go out more often since she usually doesnt trust most people in her life. I pissed her ...
A. 5 October 2010: She sounds like she just doesn't like you anymore, dude. That's that. How do you know she's pregnant? People rarely get pregnant after 1 unprotected sexual trist. If it were that easy, married people would have much less of a problem conceiving. (It ... (read in full...)
Pre cum problem...
Q. i seem to have a problem. when i am with my girlfriend and we are getting horny etc.... when i get an erection i get a lot of pre cum. I dont like this at all, when she is going to go down my trousers, i have to stop her and get my penis out myself ...
A. 5 October 2010: No way! Why would a girl hate it? It just means that you're super attracted. Just like what was said before- are you offended if she's super wet? No, it means you're doing a good job. Why would she not want to feel like she's doing one too?
Just ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with my friend?
Q. A college friend of mine has been acting a bit weird lately. Whenever I or our friends come to hang out, he tends to go off on his own. We usually hang out quite a bit, but now he just seems like he's avoiding me and our friends. I had a feeling ...
A. 5 October 2010: He probably did have a thing for you and is trying to get over it. Seeing you is probably painful to him right now. Give him some time and space and see where that takes you.. I understand you don't have much time, but it's really what he needs ... (read in full...)
Flirty friend? or boyfriend?
Q. I really like my best friend. And he has become more flirty around me but I don't know if I should tell him how i feel.. It could ruin our friendship for ever. But on the other hand I just want to know if he feels the same?? what should I do??...
A. 5 October 2010: Actually, it might not. I told my best friend I liked him and asked him out (I actually loved him after we had an off and on relationship for 3 years and I was finally asking for something official) and it did nothing to our relationship. My other ... (read in full...)
Nearly 30 and single, how can I get my love life back?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles I'm fearing I'm going to be alone forever. I'm almost 30, quite pretty, intelligent and training to be primary school teacher. But it seems everyone but 'me is in a serious relationship and happy. I had a boyf on and o...
A. 5 October 2010: You're going to have to work on loving yourself. You neediness comes from insecurity, and once that's gone you will be in a much better place. Don't be afraid about being alone- my father didn't marry until his later thirties and he married the love ... (read in full...)
I want to masturbate with my friend
Q. I know my friend masturbates and I want to masterbate with her but I don't know how to ask....
A. 5 October 2010: She probably isn't going to like that much. Masturbating isn't a shared activity... And it might come off as gross.... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm cute but, wont talk to me!!
Q. so there is this guy and we both know of eachother we have one class together. he works as a bouncer at this bar i often go to. we have never realy talked much just rare casual convos. so one night i was just talking to while he was working kinda ...
A. 5 October 2010: He's just working, hon. :) Try and get his number so you can talk outside of his workplace. Be brave. He is in no position to approach you at work- he can get in a lot of trouble and a job should always come before girls. Make the first move since ... (read in full...)
Fantasies turn into nightmares?
Q. Has anyones sexual fantasies turned into nightmares? Are some fantasies better left as that.....a fantasy?...
A. 5 October 2010: For a lot of people, yes. Threesomes ruin MANY relationships. Many fantasies can cause bad personality changes, or sexual depravity if acted upon too often. Many of them are very safe to try out and at the most might get you in a little awkward ... (read in full...)
He's way out of my league so how would I talk to him?
Q. Ok so I'm a freshman in high school and I have taken a liking to this really cute and sweet football player/singer. He's so goofy and always is showing off his muscles at rallies. But the problem is the only things I know about him as a person is ...
A. 5 October 2010: First things first- focus on loving yourself. Confidence can really be what makes girls attractive to guys. I've known some girls that were actually very bad looking and they were popular with guys just because they were confident. It's hard to do, ... (read in full...)
Husband after marriage asked about my past and then served me with divorce papers!
Q. My husband and I are married for 10 months. Right after we got married he strictly asked me if there was anything about my past I wanted to share. So I believe in you marry your best friend and I told him somethings that I had done that I'm not so ...
A. 5 October 2010: Hmm.. I know it seems hard right now, but this will be what's better for you. True love involves loving someone despite their mistakes and flaws.. My fiance has a very bad past, but he has worked up from it and it made him who he is today.. I love ... (read in full...)
Girls carrying condoms.
Q. Hi, my boyfriend and I have discussed having sex and agreed that while we both would like to have sex with eachother there isn't a pressure on either of us to do it. This is fine , however a few days ago we were in a position where we were go...
A. 2 July 2010: No way, love.
If you are a sexually active adult in this day and age, you need to be responsible. Keeping away from pregnancy is a responsibility that does not just lay in the hands of the man, but you as well.... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant if I put sperm from my mouth into my vagina?
Q. can I get pregnant if I put sperm that was in my mouth into my vagina, but I wasn't on my period and I was ovulating either?...
A. 2 July 2010: Sorry to the mod note there-- Guess my facts are a little old. That was one I learned back in High School.... (read in full...)
Could he have given me an orgasm without my knowing?
Q. Heey. so me and my ex boyfriend are friends and we were talking about our relationship last night and the subject went to sex. he said "Did you know I've made you come before?" and i just laughed because i dont think he did... was he lying or did he ...
A. 2 July 2010: He probably thought you orgasmed because you tightened or got super wet ;]
Trust me, you'd be the first to know, love.... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant if I put sperm from my mouth into my vagina?
Q. can I get pregnant if I put sperm that was in my mouth into my vagina, but I wasn't on my period and I was ovulating either?...
A. 1 July 2010: Ermm. Possibility. Likelihood? Big no. Sperm is very sensitive and dies easy. Sperm can last for an hour, but more commonly dies within 10-20 minutes when exposed to air and allowed to dry. In the vagina, it will never last longer than 72 hours. ... (read in full...)
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