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age
26-29,
*ylan McK
writes:Don't you love it when you realise the person you're meant to be with is your ex? Furthermore, don't you love it when you go out to talk to your ex who is in a bad relationship and you end up kissing with her for hours? Neither do I, its pretty crap. What do I do from here? How does she end it with the new guy? I feel bad but good, because she is happy with me, and we both love each other. Am i a bad person because i was cheating with a girl who i love and who loves me back, and hates her boyfriend?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 You are not a bad person but you need to stop thinking with your heart (and hormones ) for a second , and think with your head, and muse about a few simple questions, like :
if you were so meant to be, and so perfect for each other... how come you are not still together now ?If you broke up,..maybe not everything was so perfect.
if she hates her boyfriend,...why does not she just ups and leave him ? She is not being kept prisoner, right ?
can you trust a girl who kisses her ex for hours ? If you two get back together- she may decide to kiss for hours the current guy ( who has become her ex ).
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reader, heart-shaped-balloon  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 She probably is playing you. Girls at your age love male attention, it makes them feel like they're hott stuff. She just wants as many boys pining for her as she can get. If she hated him, she would have left him before you even ended up making out with her. She tells you she "hates him" so you will give her attention. It's just like the husband who says he will leave his wife for his girlfriend. 99% of the time they don't mean it, they are just saying the relationship is bad so the mistress stays around..
Sorry. I would stay away from it. A guy played me the same way for 3 years, and it was rough.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 October 2010):
Ahh, young love. Takes me back. I was a mess then, and for you it's a mess now. You're being played here. If you love her that much, why is she an ex? If she hates her boyfriend, why hasn't she dumped him? If she's such a great girl, why did she cheat?
See my point?
Actually, neither of you two are ready for a relationship, and I don't really think she's all that great.
Believe me, you do not want to get involved with her. I once fancied a girl who was playing me and another guy, and I ended up looking like a total loser. You will too if you continue. She's having her fun with two guys and doesn't care that you'll both get hurt. Back away from her. Don't let her play you like this. You'll look like a fool in front of everyone.
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