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writes:i seem to have a problem. when i am with my girlfriend and we are getting horny etc.... when i get an erection i get a lot of pre cum. I dont like this at all, when she is going to go down my trousers, i have to stop her and get my penis out myself while slyly drying my penis. do girls not like the fact that boys pre cum or do they?can i stop me pre cumming? what should i do? thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2012): I also have this problem and it ruined my sex/love life. Huge drops of precum start to cum out as soon as I have the slightest bit of arousing so my boxers are wet in and out before I get a full erection. I produce at least 3-4 times more precum than sperm at ejaculation and it won`t stop. Because I get aroused easily I produce more than I can expulse so its imperative that I reach orgasm `cause my balls & prostate ache like hell if not unloaded after a while. Anyway all this made me give up on women after a couple of humiliating times I made it to the bed.. I take off my pants, the lady see my underwears soaked with precum and voila ! She`s convinced she in front of a premature ejaculator and nothing I could say will do.. One laughed at me another said she changed her mind so let sleep and have sex tomorrow.. Yeah sure ! Or a girl give you a bj and stop to ask you : Have you cum already ? Sex is then over she`s disgusted and mad thinking I came in her mouth without asking if she`s ok with it.. So we sleep and she try to silently spit in the trash can next to the bed and not only sex failed but now I feel like I have a biohazard tattoo on my forehead.. The only thing I found to reduce my precum production is getting high on cocaine but cocaine shrinks blood vessels and it has a direct effect quality of erection. I guess the easiest way to get around the problem is to find a women who love to swallow or at least is willing to get her hands wet until we fix the leak with a rubber.. So good luck to everyone sharing this problem.. Personnally, I gave up wishing and fell back to the world of online porn & masturbation.. No one laugh, no one say yuck and my dignity is less crippled this way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): From a personal standpoint, pre-cum is actually my favorite part! The taste is so much better than regular cum, don't be embarrassed. She may love it as much as i do!
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 Hey, if she has a problem with it, then she (and you) are too young to be getting in to the situation. Pre-cum is a normal and natural part of the process.
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reader, heart-shaped-balloon  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 No way! Why would a girl hate it? It just means that you're super attracted. Just like what was said before- are you offended if she's super wet? No, it means you're doing a good job. Why would she not want to feel like she's doing one too?
Just be confident and happy with what you got. You have a real gift, and many women will love it.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (5 October 2010):
 Why is pre cum a problem? I find it to be a compliment! Just like a girl getting wet is a compliment to you. And no you can't stop it, just enjoy using it as lube or something during a handjob.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010): i never personally came acrossed this however, if she is your girlfriend i dont think it would be a turn off at all it shows that your turned on about her
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reader, VocalsAndRhythmGuitarist  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 Question 1: "do girls not like the fact that boys pre cum or do they?"
Answer: It absolutely varies from girl to girl, some LOVE IT, some like it, some are indifferent to it, some dislike it, some HATE IT!
Question 2: "can i stop me pre cumming?"
Answer: I'm not sure if you can't, not unlike how I'm SURE you DON'T wanna do that. That's a natural lube that helps for smoother penetration, if you don't have it, then you'd always need to buy Lubes, and in the long run it'll be too much $ consuming. Also, if pre-cum didn't exist, then it would be really hard for girls to get pregnant, because the pre-cum has something that neutralizes urine residues in your penile shaft. So if you don't have pre-cum coming out, then how do you expect to have babies in the future? It'll be hard.
Question 3: "what should i do?"
Answer: Nothing at all, you MUST NOT be ashamed of your pre-cum, if anything, you should be happy, you'll have a smoother penetration, which means it won't hurt even a little when your starting your sexual intercourse. You are young, if you're with a girl who dislikes pre-cum, then you might as well leave her. (That's if she's not willing to change her perspective on it, I don't pretend to explain that side now, but I'll be happy to tell you about it on PM.) If your girl doesn't mind it, or even likes it, then there is really NO PROBLEM AT ALL. Some girls might feel even more loved, or more sexy than they already are, and more special. This is because they might think that if a boy wets himself so much for her, then he is really into her and thinks she is really sexy, and loves what she's doing to him.
I hope this was helpful, good luck!
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