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writes:I havent spoken to my Ex in like a month or so.This Ex was/is The love of my life and Im not really even sure why we broke up.Probably boredom.Anyway IT was a 6 years relationship and it Hurts allot!Recently I walked into her and She was an Emotional Time bomb waiting to burst out in tears but she rather fought it back cause we where in public or she was just trying to look Strong infront of me cause I was smiling.Anyway now shes talking to my friends asking where theyre going out on which days so that she could join them....knowing that Ill be there...What do you think about this?I love her ALLOT but it felt like she was playing games with me so thats why Im not really amped to chase her! Think she had another guy in like 1 week after our break up...
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reader, Cccc +, writes (5 October 2010):
Cccc is verified as being by the original poster of the question Also...
What I mean by "She wants to get to me through my friends "
was that she wants to Reestablish a connection with me without looking desperate.Cause we havent been talking for a while.So she asks my friends if she could hang out with them so that she can see me and talk to me.
Sorry my BAD!
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reader, Cccc +, writes (5 October 2010):
Cccc is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes I know she sounds really bad on the post above! But I can tell you that she really loves me! No Doubt but she made a stupid mistake.She is a really awesome girl / girlfriend.She always cared and did really special things for me on birthdays and Valentines etc.She was always there for me to talk to.
The only reason I wrote that paragraph to sound so blunt was because I was on the high end of the emotional roller coaster ride.
I honestly believe that she made a mistake and now she regrets it and wants me back but she doesnt want to look like a fool to just come back and admit it.
She wants to let things cool down and then appear again.
What do you think.
I really love her and I really want her back BUT I dont want her to do that again ever! Although we where together for 6 years and never had a Huge argument.Also When we broke up it was calm all the way.
I saw messages from another guy a week later but people keep on telling me "THIS happens allot in Long term relationships because girls always tend to ask themselves if HE is really the one and the curiosity just kills them and the have to find out,Bump her head and come back"
They say that if this happens and you get back together the relationship is allot stronger!
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reader, heart-shaped-balloon  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 Stay away from her. She just wants male attention, and she is hurt by your rejection. If she plays games, you're better off without her. Find someone who will love you honestly and openly.
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