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... Send *arleygirl2010 a private message | | | *arleygirl2010's profile:Hi i'm here for help with my questions and to help with others. I like to help people where i can. I love to watch the sun rise and set. I am a hopeless romantic and drive my friends nuts when i say awww.. to everything cute, sweet and romantic when some of them don't. I'm a firm believer in soul mates and that everyone has one, so don't give up if you haven't found him/her yet. I love children and hope to have a few some day. I hope to some day visit Ireland, Italy, France and several others. Like maybe Russia. I love history and the story of Anastasia is one of my favorites. I don't like liars or people who pretend to be what they aren't. I don't like people who intentionally hurt animals, children or other people. I love to have fun and listen to people who are in need and try to help.
Hopefully my thoughts will be helpful to others but they are NOT commands or orders. They are personal thoughts for what i would do personally in that situation or what i think would be the best idea. The decision in the end however is that of the one who asked the question. My thoughts will always be portrayed as a suggestion and i will try to put a personal experience that relates to the situation if i can. Also if i say "higher power" i'm saying so that i don't offend anyone. I don't know what God someone believes in and i don't want to say "God bless" and offend them. So please bare with me on that. If you need a shoulder to cry on send me a private message and I'll do my best to help.
My current relationship is a new thing for me. He is a soldier so I am ready to bear the cross with him and hold on and be his rock while he is gone. I just hope we can last and go far he is an amazing and sweet funny guy. Love him with all of my hear. Oh and he is my best friends brother. That is a new one for me as well. So wish me luck with this new chapter in my life. :) |
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My ex keeps emailing me, I want her back but I'm pretending I don't!
Q. Summary: Breakup three weeks ago. She blamed it on a couple of mistakes I've made but I know she left me for a neighbour much younger than her. I've been working in another city for a couple of months, which is why she went looking for the new guy. ...
A. 16 December 2010: your welcome friend and that's a good e-mail. I think the sigh means that she realizes she has just lost the mind game she was playing. Again good luck and hope you find your true love some day soon. (Yes I'm a hopeless romantic, I can't help ... (read in full...)
My ex keeps emailing me, I want her back but I'm pretending I don't!
Q. Summary: Breakup three weeks ago. She blamed it on a couple of mistakes I've made but I know she left me for a neighbour much younger than her. I've been working in another city for a couple of months, which is why she went looking for the new guy. ...
A. 16 December 2010: I hope that things go right for you. I hope that all has been helpful to you. I'm just confused by her actions and don't understand why some women do what they do. Good Luck and hope you find your love someday soon.... (read in full...)
My ex keeps emailing me, I want her back but I'm pretending I don't!
Q. Summary: Breakup three weeks ago. She blamed it on a couple of mistakes I've made but I know she left me for a neighbour much younger than her. I've been working in another city for a couple of months, which is why she went looking for the new guy. ...
A. 15 December 2010: which ever you choose let it be the best decision for YOU and ONLY you. Though nothing you do in the game of love is a waste. All it does is prove one theory or another. Don't regret trying to win her back if it all fails. Though I have to say i ... (read in full...)
We cuddled and kissed after sex. Now he's calling me clingy!
Q. I desperattley need help !!!! Basicly Iv really liked this boy and we only just decided to get together properly a few days ago.... He stayed over the night and I had amazing sex ... I wasnt nurvous I was happy I acully smiled when I woke up t...
A. 14 December 2010: Honey this isn't your fault. Wanting to cuddle with someone is NOT clingy. I don't get how he saw that. Maybe he has never had some want to cuddle with him before and it scared him. I'm the same way with my man, I love nothing more than to ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to love each other after such a bad breakup?
Q. I met this girl online while playing an online game. We kind of hit it off, and were surprised that we used to come from the same place, but due to our character (being highly unagreeable, we like standing by our own views and being a little ...
A. 14 December 2010: Yes it is possible that you can get back together and still be in love with each other after the break up. It's also possible for the same break up again. Love is a confusing thing and all about compromising. You can compromise with each other ... (read in full...)
My ex keeps emailing me, I want her back but I'm pretending I don't!
Q. Summary: Breakup three weeks ago. She blamed it on a couple of mistakes I've made but I know she left me for a neighbour much younger than her. I've been working in another city for a couple of months, which is why she went looking for the new guy. ...
A. 13 December 2010: That's a good idea. I like that, it should work in luring out her real plans. I don't like the idea that your her "trusty back up" plan for if this guy that seems to be boring her doesn't work. That is messed up. I hope it works. Tell her ... (read in full...)
Help! I don't know how to tell him that the pain is kicking the pleasure's butt during sex.
Q. Lost my virginity five months ago to this difficult man and five months later, it's a little like love. Anyway, it used to be that I'd get extremely wet when he just touched me or looked at me. I still get turned on but my body's reaction isn't ...
A. 13 December 2010: Ok i know that feeling. Does he know that you don't like being on top? I don't either because it hurts me more than anything. Have you tried adding extra lube that may help but i don't know. I hope this helps you some.... (read in full...)
Part of me wants to stay, but part of me really wants to go over... what should I do?
Q. Hi, I don't have a DearCupid account, I'm using it on behalf of a friend. I'm 19 years old, and I'm female. I live in a part of Australia that is a bit remote from the rest. I've been dating my boyfriend for a couple of years. We've broken up ...
A. 13 December 2010: I agree with dirtball. What exactly is your guy lying about? If you think that it would be better for you to go to the other guy and leave the current one the go on and do it. From the sounds of it your relationship isn't getting better. Do ... (read in full...)
How to stop arguing and save our family?
Q. I have been with the same amazing man for almost 18 months now and engaged for almost 16 of the months. We have a 6 month old daughter and just got our own place in a new state. We have been in this new house for almost 3 months, but we have been ...
A. 13 December 2010: Hi there, sorry to hear that. I guess what i would do was stop and sit down and talk about it. You know get ideas and feelings out into the open. If you had to get a job i would try looking at local day care centers that way you may be able to ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to have sex with another man, to get even for my cheating!
Q. Okay this is long and....little embarrassed about this but here goes. 3 Years ago I had an affair with another women she was a close friend to me and my girlfriend. For an entire year I was seeing her off an on cause me and my girlfriend would ...
A. 13 December 2010: i very much so have to agree with aunthonesty. She makes a very good point. I had a situation some what like this with two of my best friends. The guys is like a brother to me and to him i'm his sister. He was talking to me one day and told me ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend pressured me into having an abortion
Q. Hi guys, please give me some advice. Iv been with my boyfriend nearly 2 years and about 6 months into our relationship I fell pregnant. I was on the pill at the time and think it must have happened due to a little tummy bug. I was head over hee...
A. 13 December 2010: I'm sorry that he did that to you. that was wrong on his part. I understand that you feel guilty and that's natural. My beliefs are the same as yours. I don't like abortion and only under extreme circumstances (such as the mother would die ... (read in full...)
Caught him looking at porn while I was pregnant and after giving birth!
Q. Hi, when I first found out I was pregnant I was the happiest i ever felt. I had the most wonderful fiance and then a baby on the way. things couldn't be more perfect. I was writing love quotes all over an sending him cute text messages, I was in ...
A. 13 December 2010: I guess i can see where your coming from on that... (read in full...)
Was I wrong for not calling my ex back?
Q. Hey my ex has treated me really bad for hurting him 2 years ago after I have told him I was sorry over and over. He has went off on me many times to make me feel guilty, Borrowed from me and won't pay back, and ask to get back to together just to ...
A. 12 December 2010: I agree with caring guy. Just leave him. If he keeps hurting you and taking your money what is the point? If he only contacts you when it's convenient for him what is the point? I don't want to sound rude but the guy was an a** for doing that to ... (read in full...)
Caught him looking at porn while I was pregnant and after giving birth!
Q. Hi, when I first found out I was pregnant I was the happiest i ever felt. I had the most wonderful fiance and then a baby on the way. things couldn't be more perfect. I was writing love quotes all over an sending him cute text messages, I was in ...
A. 12 December 2010: I'm sorry to hear that your happiness disappeared. Maybe it's still there and you can't see it. He may have been watching porn as a way to "relieve" himself. Had ya'll been having sex during the pregnancy? IF not then maybe he was watching as a ... (read in full...)
We have sex but he won't kiss me
Q. I have been dating this guy on and off for about 8 mos. now, we are sexually active, but he never kisses me. He knows it is an issue, I have tried to talk to him about a couple of times. It is depressing. He is a really great guy besides that. I ...
A. 12 December 2010: I have to agree with YouWish. Have you asked him if it was because he doesn't like the smokers breath? I know i don't kiss my man for a while afters he has smoked a cigarette. It's not that i don't love him or anything because i really do love ... (read in full...)
My friend texted my ex from my phone and she thinks I did it!
Q. Hi i'm 15 and i was recently dating a girl but it wasn't working so i ended it. About three weeks later i started dating another girl whom i'm still currently dating, but one day my friend asked me if he could have a look on my phone i said ok ...
A. 12 December 2010: I would say that if you were asked about this by your gf or others just explain what happened. If you explain it calmly and rationally then they should believe you. However, if you start to get defensive about it they will think you are lying to ... (read in full...)
My ex keeps emailing me, I want her back but I'm pretending I don't!
Q. Summary: Breakup three weeks ago. She blamed it on a couple of mistakes I've made but I know she left me for a neighbour much younger than her. I've been working in another city for a couple of months, which is why she went looking for the new guy. ...
A. 12 December 2010: I'm glad i could help even though it was very little. If you want you can add me to your friends thing on here. Good luck and congrats on accomplishing all of your back up goals that's a very good thing.... (read in full...)
My ex keeps emailing me, I want her back but I'm pretending I don't!
Q. Summary: Breakup three weeks ago. She blamed it on a couple of mistakes I've made but I know she left me for a neighbour much younger than her. I've been working in another city for a couple of months, which is why she went looking for the new guy. ...
A. 12 December 2010: I'm not sure. I know most of the guys i know personally (and think of as my own brothers)would have left her because she went to another man while he was gone. I don't get why she keeps messaging when you tell her that she shouldn't. I'm sorry ... (read in full...)
He still loves me but he doesn't want to continue with us!
Q. I am in a relationship from last 2 years. We are so in love with each other. My beloved moved to abroad for his studies 3 months back. He's not happy over there. Presently what is going on is- he broke up with me and the reason he gave-''you are not ...
A. 12 December 2010: If your gut says stay with him then stay, but if it says let him go and move on then move on. ... (read in full...)
Should I see him again, even though he's hung up on his ex?
Q. I met a guy last night, went back to his place, and then he said he didn't want to have sex because he had only recently broken up with his ex-girlfriend and wasn't ready. I said that was fine, and we had a really nice time together afterwards. ...
A. 12 December 2010: Just be his friend and get to know him and help him to overcome the break up with his ex-gf. If he goes back to her then just be friends but if he doesn't than you can try to be his new gf. I give him credit for not wanting sex to get over his ex. ... (read in full...)
Why does he cheat, there's nothing binding him to me?
Q. I have been in a relationship with this guy for almost 4 yrs. I have caught him cheating on me a couple of times. But he insist that he want me and dont want to loose me. So why would a man cheat on you if he is really in love with you and dont want ...
A. 12 December 2010: I'm sorry to hear about that hun. Idk what to do. Have you tried talking to him and telling him how you feel about it? That your confused by his words and his actions that contradict those words? Last time i had a friend with this problem i told ... (read in full...)
How is a girl supposed to act when recieving oral sex?
Q. my boyfriend wants to lick me out and i know this'll sound a bit stupid but where would i look while he's going down on me? And i'm the type of person who'd be embarrassed if it felt good enough to make me moan or something, how could i get over...
A. 11 December 2010: I agree with fluffyPie. Just let him take control and don't be afraid to let him know how you feel about it. They like to know that your enjoying it.... (read in full...)
Her past is keeping me up at nights...
Q. My girlfriend, who I've Been with for nearly a year now, her past truly bothers me and keeps me up at night. Here's the story: before were together she went on holiday and had sex a few times, she says, with a guy who was a lot older than her she ...
A. 11 December 2010: I think whats going on is that your confused and that's understandable. You say you wish she never told you anything but it's probably best that she did. She is showing that she trusts you and wants you to understand that happened in her past so ... (read in full...)
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